Married a Thai freelancer: worst decision

[danmand]

No not necessarily dowry. Generally marriages in India involve purchasing gold by weight either as a gift to the couple by the parents or as a matter of tradition, what have you.

In less developed countries, women rely on gold jewelry for security instead of the courts.

 

[bver_hunter]

Do you think that this guy's Cuban girlfriend did not receive the cash or is she lying to him?

Ontario man loses $2,500 after wire transfer to Cuba goes missing

An Ontario man said he routinely sends money to his girlfriend in Cuba, but was shocked when a $2,500 wire transfer never showed up.

www.cp24.com

 

[danmand]

Do you think that this guy's Cuban girlfriend did not receive the cash or is she lying to him?

Ontario man loses $2,500 after wire transfer to Cuba goes missing

An Ontario man said he routinely sends money to his girlfriend in Cuba, but was shocked when a $2,500 wire transfer never showed up.

www.cp24.com

That is the oldest trick in the book: the money never arrived. Send it again.

 

[Joyrection]

BTW these stories repeated around the world. Knew a bloke who fell for a Russian whom once she got a married and legal she totally changed and basically ignored him and did what she wanted to do.

Hope he keeps away from open windows above two stories. People have a lot of accidents out windows when involved with Russians

 

[Joyrection]

Just found out an acquaintance met a Philipna woman on line and went and married her, now working to bring her to Canada, this could turn out badly I’m guessing!!

Is always 50/50 same as it is here. You could marry your high school sweetheart and they turn into an absolute ____ fill in blank male or female. Just protect and have them sign a prenuptial agreement.

 

[IM469]

it’s funny but keep in mind this show like majority of reality tv shows is scripted.

It is a reality show with boats and camera men following them. So what is the financial compensation for this intrusion of privacy ? It seems odd that that doesn't seem to factor into the marriage equation.

As far as gold to the family - it is a real thing. The amount of gold is a matter of pride. I hardly think this is isolated thinking. How many girls flaunt the size of their ring and potential groom's earning ability here ?

 

[foru2discover]

It is a reality show with boats and camera men following them. So what is the financial compensation for this intrusion of privacy ? It seems odd that that doesn't seem to factor into the marriage equation.

As far as gold to the family - it is a real thing. The amount of gold is a matter of pride. I hardly think this is isolated thinking. How many girls flaunt the size of their ring and potential groom's earning ability here ?

they not getting a dime from me.....i would do them a favor to marry a girl there..and they want to suck my wallet too..no suck this ............

 

[Y_Diner]

Sad to hear and sucks.
Dude should of known better.
Or had prenup signed if he didn’t.

 

[DesRicardo]

That is like an American tourist basing his appreciation of Canadian women based on his visits of the strip bars. I suggest any woman you meet because you paid for her company is not the best foundation to make long term romantic commitments.

In my years of hobbying in the GTA, I can't put a number to the love struck clients that have donated jewelry, cars, rent and in one case financed a house for his expected bride.

There are beautiful honest Thai women just as there are beautiful honest women in every country but you are not going to find them all working in strip /massage joints.

Canadian strippers aren't trying to fake relationships with customers.

Not like that.

 

[foru2discover]

Canadian strippers aren't trying to fake relationships customers.

Not like that.

no they just want a SD to look after them and drain their wallets

 

[digi_7e]

I will share my own personal story.

Luckily, I had ZERO feelings or intentions for this girl, it was strictly for fun, since I am not naive.

About a year ago I went to the Philippines for the weather, girls, and exotic lifestyle. I had been to Thailand, and wanted to compare the two. Were the girls going to be more friendly and less about money? At least we could communicate in English.

Well, I saw only a few girls during my three weeks there. Philipinas are not attratctive to me. Most of them are mothers with mother bodies, fat, terrible hygiene downstairs and bad breath, tattoos. Although friendly, they are gold diggers trying to extract every penny from you.

During the last couple days, I saw a girl about 25, who was maybe a 6/10. I wanted to spend the last few days doing something more than just having sex. So I invited her to the mall for lunch. She was very late,, almost two hours. I was pissed, but she eventually showed up. I bought her a bunch of stuff from the mall (mostly food items), and we had a nice lunch. She told me to take my watch off, and she put in her bag for "safekeeping". She was just trying to steal it if I forgot to ask for it back, but I remembered.

Anway, I paid her the going rate each time we had sex (two times total). I said that I wanted to see her family, since she mentioned they live far away. I wanted to see what a typical Philipna family lived like. The next day, I paid for the taxi there. I was stunned by just how bad the situation was. Her entire family plus several other families were living in a tiny, run down house. It was incredibly hot and stuffy, and they had no AC. Also, her brother was mentally disabled, and the old father was taking care of him. I felt so bad, that I gave all my money to each family member. This was around $300. I was leaving the next day, and the money would mean much more to them than to me.

I also bought them a whole bunch of food: five whole barbecued chickens, pork, lots of beer and side dishes and ice cream. This was another $80-100 if I remember correctly. Only some members of the family ate though, since they had just eaten.

We went back to the hotel together, and I said I would pay her for her time. Even though we did not have sex, and I had given a ton of money to her family. Since I had not given any money to her that day, I felt bad. I had no money on me, so I went to my hotel room and took out $200 of Canadian dollars and exchanged it a nearby exchange. I gave it to her, expecting her to be happy and grateful for all that I did for her. Instead, I was shocked at what happened next.

She was furious, and said that I was not paying her enough. I became angry, and incredulous, since I had just done so much for her family, and on top of that was paying her for it. She grabbed the money and stormed off.

Later, she texted me and apologized, but I was having none of it.

I blocked her, but later kept getting messages and calls from her using a new number. I'm pretty sure she needed money, lol.

Thank you for this. I honestly needed to read something like this, not sure why for me its a fantasy to MARRY a filipina and a lot of YT videos make it sound so nice but with poverty and the things that are common there, its really scary to bring someone back to Canada. She might be using you as a "bridge" - the story of your American friend is really cruel.

Poverty is the true evil here.

 

[foru2discover]

Thank you for this. I honestly needed to read something like this, not sure why for me its a fantasy to MARRY a filipina and a lot of YT videos make it sound so nice but with poverty and the things that are common there, its really scary to bring someone back to Canada. She might be using you as a "bridge" - the story of your American friend is really cruel.

Poverty is the true evil here.

find a girl that can put some skin the game ..not just pussy that wont last long

 

[wigglee]

you guys are too cynical ( but what do you expect if you met them in a brothel)...I've been happily married to an Asian for many years and she is awesome! Of course I still like to poon for variety but that's on me and very discreet

 

[canada-man]

Stick to western hemisphere women!

 

[Joyrection]

no they just want a SD to look after them and drain their wallets

I would be happy to have a sugar mommy to treat me to the life I want.

 

[canada-man]

How many of these men listen to red pill propaganda?

 

[JohnnyWishbone]

A buddy of mine married a flipa chick. Lives here, has children with her, working on bringing her over here with the kids but when he talks to me about, I get the impression he is in nooooooo rush

I have a few buddies who go to Philippines every year (for the last decade) and are in long distance relationships with local young women (i.e. video calls, sending money regularly and then they meet up for 1-2 weeks each year). They all have the following in common: They're all single moms, semi official/unofficial working girls, they're always are short of money and the regular and common excuses are that the kid needs milk, the kid has 300 birthdays each year, grandmother/father excuses why they need a hand out, tons of sisters/brothers with most of them out of work and at least 2-3 kids and there's a hidden boyfriend who doesn't mind their lady getting banged by a foreigner as long as he benefits from the money she receives! Despite pleading poverty, they post pics on IG as soon as they receive their handouts of them blowing the money on restaurants and partying! With all the handouts I'd think hobbying here is cheaper. Marrying one of them is suicide/severe desperation. I guess the local women going with foreign guys 20+ years older and out of shape shows their unfortunate desperation too.

 

[Happyhomer]

I have two good white Canadian friends who married Thai girls. Both are super happy. It can work.

 

[foru2discover]

I have a few buddies who go to Philippines every year (for the last decade) and are in long distance relationships with local young women (i.e. video calls, sending money regularly and then they meet up for 1-2 weeks each year). They all have the following in common: They're all single moms, semi official/unofficial working girls, they're always are short of money and the regular and common excuses are that the kid needs milk, the kid has 300 birthdays each year, grandmother/father excuses why they need a hand out, tons of sisters/brothers with most of them out of work and at least 2-3 kids and there's a hidden boyfriend who doesn't mind their lady getting banged by a foreigner as long as he benefits from the money she receives! Despite pleading poverty, they post pics on IG as soon as they receive their handouts of them blowing the money on restaurants and partying! With all the handouts I'd think hobbying here is cheaper. Marrying one of them is suicide/severe desperation. I guess the local women going with foreign guys 20+ years older and out of shape shows their unfortunate desperation too.

Cannot believe guys fall for this even at that age.....if they want to pussy just get an SP its a lot cheaper.

 

[bazokajoe]

Cannot believe guys fall for this even at that age.....if they want to pussy just get an SP its a lot cheaper.

Loneliness makes men and women do stupid things.