Losing the "Urge"...

[Quest4Less]

Not sure if others have experienced this but lately I seem to be losing the desire to see "sp's". I have hobbied for over ten years now and in the past it has been quite often - sometimes as many as 4 or 5 times a month. Have had some great and some not so great times, met some fantastic ladies, and still have a couple of fav's in the business. One of my fav's just has to call me up and the minute I hear her voice I get a hard on... But - for over a month now I have not hobbied at all... I still get horny (thank God), but I have been avoiding making any calls, making excuses not to go out... great for my wallet but other than tossing a few off - no nookie for me.

So is this just a phase? Has anyone else had this happen - and did you get over it?

 

[barbarella]

Been hobbying almost same years and frequency of sp visits as you and yes I have recently lost the urge but Im sure being away for some time from the hobby the urge will return I'm sure .

 

[iluvquarks]

I experience this too. I find a few breaks from the hobby to be beneficial, especially to my bank account. You'll be hobbying again in no time.

 

[tboy]

Well, are you losing the urge to see sp's or losing the urge to have sex? There is a difference....

At times I shy away from sp's because while they are fulfilling sexually, they aren't fulfilling emotionally and I get tired of the emptybedsyndrom after the session is over. But then I get so damn horny and miss my favourite so much that,well, the urge comes back lol

 

[Esco!]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

 

[1HandInMyPocket]

If you don't use it ....

 

[Alexis696969]

Its understandable that guys feel this way ......heck sps go thru it all the time back n forth but then that horniness fogs up the brain so much that all that doubt goes away and everyone cums out to play

 

[revolution]

Not sure if others have experienced this but lately I seem to be losing the desire to see "sp's". I have hobbied for over ten years now and in the past it has been quite often - sometimes as many as 4 or 5 times a month. Have had some great and some not so great times, met some fantastic ladies, and still have a couple of fav's in the business. One of my fav's just has to call me up and the minute I hear her voice I get a hard on... But - for over a month now I have not hobbied at all... I still get horny (thank God), but I have been avoiding making any calls, making excuses not to go out... great for my wallet but other than tossing a few off - no nookie for me.

So is this just a phase? Has anyone else had this happen - and did you get over it?

Are you losing your sex drive? I can't imagine not wanting to have sex 24/7.... maybe it's because I'm 21, but even in 20 years I still think I'll be horny 24/7.

 

[Alexis696969]

just wait til u get married Rev things a change LOL

 

[PHNINE]

The urge always returns, it is just a matter of time.

 

[skypilot]

Its a chance to save your money so that when the itch comes back you can scratch like hell.

 

[Quest4Less]

Lust...

No - not losing my lust for women, just not interested in s.p.'s lately. Something missing.... maybe that emotional connection that Tboy mentioned. It would be nice to wake up next to a woman you boffed the night before and start all over again in the morning...

Without having to pay for an "overnight" that is.... lol

 

[red]

but will we be invited to the gay wedding?