Looking to hear your experiences with Tantric sex

[Erosboy]

I have a weekend getaway planned with one of my ATFs from out west in two weeks and she mentioned she wanted to be the centre of attention one night and asked whether I would give her a yoni massage. Of course I agreed and the more I've researched the more I've become interested in a deeper exploration of tantric sex.

Has anyone had any experience with tantric sexual practices? Any tips/tricks/helpful suggestions or resources you could direct me to? Any help would be appreciated.

 

[Goodoer]

Take your time. Try not to pay by the hour…

 

[Perry Mason]

I don't wish... to rain on your parade...

But that is like saying... "I can hardly play the violin... but I am booked... to play Beethoven's Violin Concerto in 2 weeks... with the TSO... can anyone... give me some quick tips?"

It doesn't work that way... nor does Tantra work... as a commercial transaction... or just... as a more intense way... to get your rocks off... physically...

Tantra is... a very powerful... interpersonal... emotional... and spiritual... experience... more a shared meditation... than a romp... not so much... focused... on the physical experience... of orgasm... but on the ecstasy of orgasm... and the bliss... awareness... and clarity... that the experience of ecstasy... generates...

What I can say... is that... my late wife and I... practiced it... for many years... and it changed... and charged... our lives...

If you truly wish to understand... what it's all about... I highly recommend... "Sexual Secrets... The Alchemy of Ecstasy" by Nik Douglas and Penny Slinger... easily available in print and data...

And BTW... an open mind... is a prerequisite... and it is not... something you read... it is something you do...

Perry