Scenerio: SO of client calls SP's phone irate that they are having an affair and demands to know who you are and what he is doing calling you so much? The phone calls are persistent and very harassing. What would you do in a situation like this?
Looking for some input....
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I say...
...tell her to grow the fuck up and check her man.
"What is he doing calling me? He calls me to see when we can fuck. Why are you calling me...do you wanna fuck? If not then get the hell off my phone b!tch before I call the police and file a harassment complaint. If you have a problem with your man fucking around take that shit up with him. Trust me, I could live without seeing his ass again...it is about money and dick, not love...I leave that weak ass shit for you to deal with. Call me again and I will start returning the calls to YOUR house...at 3am."
I have NEVER understood why people blame the person their SO is cheating with versus the SO...
BTW...I'd also call him if you have contact info and tell him to check his b!tch before you out him here or anyplace else you can (underground SP board?).
Brianna1 said:
...tell her to grow the fuck up and check her man.
"What is he doing calling me? He calls me to see when we can fuck. Why are you calling me...do you wanna fuck? If not then get the hell off my phone b!tch before I call the police and file a harassment complaint. If you have a problem with your man fucking around take that shit up with him. Trust me, I could live without seeing his ass again...it is about money and dick, not love...I leave that weak ass shit for you to deal with. Call me again and I will start returning the calls to YOUR house...at 3am."
I have NEVER understood why people blame the person their SO is cheating with versus the SO...
BTW...I'd also call him if you have contact info and tell him to check his b!tch before you out him here or anyplace else you can (underground SP board?).
1) Do you know her number? If you do subscribe to call block and block her calls.
2) Explain that he paid for time and services. If he choose to retain your services and she objects, it is between her husband and herself and you not you. You could also add that since it has become a issue, you will not longer accept her husband as a client.
2) Explain that he paid for time and services. If he choose to retain your services and she objects, it is between her husband and herself and you not you. You could also add that since it has become a issue, you will not longer accept her husband as a client.
I think you should
first and foremost value your client relationship.
You run a business and as such you should value your customers. No business reveals their clients' practices, and you shouldn't either.
If possible have the phone number the s/o is calling from blocked.
Otherwise, tell her she's a loon and to stop harrassing you.
first and foremost value your client relationship.
You run a business and as such you should value your customers. No business reveals their clients' practices, and you shouldn't either.
If possible have the phone number the s/o is calling from blocked.
Otherwise, tell her she's a loon and to stop harrassing you.
cheaters
cheating is so tough in this day and age... i mean detailed cell phone records, internet monitoring usage, ETR bills, the list goes on and on...we are tracked so easily.
I feel bad for this guy but the reality is it's just not worth it. all the effort to cover your tracks - he'd probably be better off with a good porn collection.
gavin
cheating is so tough in this day and age... i mean detailed cell phone records, internet monitoring usage, ETR bills, the list goes on and on...we are tracked so easily.
I feel bad for this guy but the reality is it's just not worth it. all the effort to cover your tracks - he'd probably be better off with a good porn collection.
gavin
It's not an easy situation. Telling the SO the truth undermines the level of discretion your clients expect. It is not so much your clients fault that this woman is calling you so much; considering her behavior you can even imagine why he is resorting to SP's.
Does put you in a tough spot though.
Do try blocking her number. Unless she starts trying to hunt you down I'd just hang up on her, or block her, until she gives up. What a pain, but I don't see a good way out of this for you, "cost of doing business", it's one reason why you earn the big bucks I guess. Consider enduring this PITA to be part of the excellent service you deliver to your customers. (Unfortunately.) Though, if you think she might be able to make physical contact with you then you'd better avoid that by having an honest chat with her, during which chat point out that you probably aren't the only one, so that she doesnt' focus on you exclusively.
I don't know what you've said to her so far, but the best course of action initially is deny, deny, deny. "I have no idea who you are or why you are calling me, sorry, bye" and "Your husband is Dave who? Never heard of him, sorry, bye." If she calls you when you have a male friend nearby have him answer and just say "Please don't call here anymore <click>".
Does put you in a tough spot though.
Do try blocking her number. Unless she starts trying to hunt you down I'd just hang up on her, or block her, until she gives up. What a pain, but I don't see a good way out of this for you, "cost of doing business", it's one reason why you earn the big bucks I guess. Consider enduring this PITA to be part of the excellent service you deliver to your customers. (Unfortunately.) Though, if you think she might be able to make physical contact with you then you'd better avoid that by having an honest chat with her, during which chat point out that you probably aren't the only one, so that she doesnt' focus on you exclusively.
I don't know what you've said to her so far, but the best course of action initially is deny, deny, deny. "I have no idea who you are or why you are calling me, sorry, bye" and "Your husband is Dave who? Never heard of him, sorry, bye." If she calls you when you have a male friend nearby have him answer and just say "Please don't call here anymore <click>".
Thank you
Thanks everyone. It is always good to get some response for situations my first instinct is not always right so I really appreciate all the advice. Again thank you!!!
Thanks everyone. It is always good to get some response for situations my first instinct is not always right so I really appreciate all the advice. Again thank you!!!
Not his fault?? Hello? He's fucking around and not covering his tacks! How is not his fault. Wife's reaction is completely normal and expected of a woman who's husband is in constant contact with another woman of whom she knows nothing.fuji said:
Yes, but what about HIS level of discretion? A client cannot espect endless discretion if HIS slip-ups put the SP (or mistress) at risk of harassment or some psycho revenge obsession by his wife.
If this is really a problem, then call him now at this hour and give him an ultimatum to handle this within 72 hours. Either come clean to his wife or make up a good enough story that will stick.
You don't know if this bitch is some vendictive nutcase. She could track down your incall, make scenes, put people up to making a complaint that gets you shut down, pay some thug to book you and be a bad client, follow your other customers and threaten to out them...
Of course SPs who never answere calls form payphones or courtesy phones do make it difficult for regular clients to communicate without a trail.
Firstly, never discuss your clients or your business with anyone. If a doctor and a lawyer can manage to keep the information to themselves, so can you.
If the wife persists, tell her that you have no idea what she is talking about, but you will call the police and make a complaint on the next call. And do it.
Tell the client what his wife/SO has been doing, if you can.
Stop seeing the client for a while.
If the wife persists, tell her that you have no idea what she is talking about, but you will call the police and make a complaint on the next call. And do it.
Tell the client what his wife/SO has been doing, if you can.
Stop seeing the client for a while.
Jade4u
It's been good to know ya
Play dumb, say you have had a lot of strange calls lately that you have no idea where they are coming from and then ask if she has been doing it and say you will have Bell check into it. 
Leave it at that and next time discuss the issue with him and have him use a different number and have him be more careful.
Leave it at that and next time discuss the issue with him and have him use a different number and have him be more careful.
