Here's the thing,
All of the posts have been fair responses, whether I agree with them personally or not, but when you have something to compare it to you then have a frame of reference.
I definitely don't think all women are bad. But the warmest, kindest, most loving girls I have ever met, aren't from Toronto. And that is a consistent pattern. The thread was if you think local girls are cold. Yes I do, and and I would add fucked. As I have said, when you see the way women from other places do it, you really realize what you're missing out on, and what is reasonable behaviour and what is not.
Is it reasonable for a girl's last boyfriend to be a pimp? On this board maybe. In everyday life, hell no.
Now for all the situations that were reversed, where men cheat etc etc etc. that's fine, if that's your experience then you can also talk about it. But what I have noticed from the way let's say a girl in Montreal behaves, or New York, or La, or Miami, or Boston, to a girl in Toronto, it's like day and night. These girls want to get to know you and want to fuck, and things seem more in sync there for me. Here, things seem so out of sync. Now if it was just my observation, I could say it's just me, but when I hear other people on this board, and listen to the comments from my friends, I know that is not the case. Keep in mind that I have also heard this from girls in Toronto that have been living here all their lives, Girls visiting from other countries, recent immigrants, those from immigrant families etc. Most recently for example, I met a girl from out west, and one of the first things she mentioned to me were how fucked up the girls were here. How compared to back home, they were all catty, self-serving backstabbers. This girl is hawt, and she was so sad to be here. We connect well, but she is not from Toronto, and that is probably why. We date and talk all the time late into the night. She's great, but like I said, she's not from here.
When I went to Montreal, the girls would approach me, dance with me, and talk to me. Made me feel very welcome and comfortable. In Toronto, the girls treat you like you're not even a worthwhile human being. It's so sad.
My assumptions were even more changed when I went to LA and New York, wow! the girls there are just spectacular. And really friendly. I can tell some stories, but suffice it to say the girls there made me feel like a rock star and they were local celebrities, young and hot. I can't say more, but they treated us very well.
In LA at the clubs, the girls were so enthusiastic and sociable. They wanted to get to know you. At the beach they would follow us. it was really actually cute. They were great. In the shops and the stores, they wanted to go out with you. and we took some of them out (we didn't buy anything, but that's not what it was about).
In Atlantic City, the same thing. The girls there were amazing. Treated us with courtesy, respect and took the time to talk to you. They would come up to you, but even if I came up to one of them, they were so accomodating and really nice to talk to and be with. I talked to a few for hours and it was nice.
In Boston, the college girls were just amazing. I am planning to go back. Fun to be around, unpretentious, kind.
I have been here in Toronto for over 30 years, and haven't seen that. I'll use that as my barometer for whether I think my point of view is valid or not. Yeah, like I am going to take the word of women in Toronto, that women in Toronto are nice. That's hardly objective, and not my experience, and therefore not valid for me.
The girls outside of this place are not just great, they are amazing. Spectacular. Both in looks and in personality. And when you compare them to the girls in Toronto, you really get a sense of how bitter and negative the girls here really are. It is so sad.