Are you that desperate for a HE from this lady. She must be hot
Move on. There are plenty of Asian MPs that will provide the service. If she didn't provide any suggestion and reading the ads, you can read between the lines that she is not that type of MA.
For some of us, there's something about finding that jewel in the rough, so I think that's the attraction. It's happened to me a couple of times. I've never gone to see someone who seems legit and expected anything, or worse, been upset that nothing happening. When I NEED something, I go where I know I'll get something. If I don't, and I feel like trying somebody new, all I hope for is a good massage. Anything beyond that is a complete bonus, and it's usually so much better that way.
But this woman, I'd say she's a no. If somebody knows otherwise, keep it to yourself. There's a reason some masseuses don't advertise, and that's up to them.
In two cases where I got more than I was expecting, I was told straight up by one it's not something they do, or have done, and for very valid and personal reasons. She was just in the mood, and I tipped her well, and she seemed to enjoy it herself. Go figure. There has been discussion about this particular woman on here and the other board, multiple times over the years, and it was "no extras" all across the board. Whether I was a one-off, or she does it rarely, or when she's attracted to the person, or just in the mood, or comfortable, or whatever, that's her prerogative. I saw her 3 times, and only the second time did this happen. No mention by her the other times, and I didn't ask the third time at all. Figured if it was going to happen again, it'll happen, and she wasn't showing any signs of interest in it this time, so I thought best not to press my luck. She was also not as warm and inviting as the previous two sessions, so I haven't been back. Could have been she had some regrets or embarrassment, I don't know.
The other was no extra fee asked for, and it was a mutual ending (hands only. Also, I was on vacation, at a resort, so don't ask for contact info, lol). Sometimes things happen, just like in real life. These women are humans, too, and it's up to them who they feel safe or comfortable with, or even attracted to, if that's the reason something more happens. Many of them on kijiji are not certified and have minimal training, if any at all, so they can do what they want. And although highly unlikely, I'm sure once in a while, rubbing somebody down they find attractive can lead to other things. But that is SUPER rare and very unlikely, no matter how highly you think of yourself, lol.
If they say no, they mean no, don't press your luck. And if the only reason you keep going back is because you're hoping for something, no problem, it's your money. But never, ever go down that road where you start reading into things like garbage cans and bottles of baby oil or "she brushed my ballsack". You're only going to be disappointed in the end, and these ladies also don't need or want any potential pressure or expectations, no matter what "signs" you may "find".
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