Reading through some of the legalities of the law regarding the hobby, I really haven't found the specific answers I was hoping for. Perhaps discretion is super important here and that is the issue...but where do you find info on actually finding an escort and how to communicate? Hoping to come across the border and partake, hoping someone can help. At least steer a newbie like me in the right direction. I appreciate the help.
Legality Questions
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What was a newbie doing joining TERB 15-years ago and waiting until now to hobby?
The legal side of hobbying in the GTA is a bit nebulous to me, I'm sure someone here can walk you through it, but communicating is easy. Just a cursory glance at the review sections of this forum will tell you no matter what the legal status, hobbying is happening, and mostly without threat of LEA intervention.
Use common sense and some discretion when reaching out. Take a look at the ads and the reviews for links to profiles. It's always a good idea to stick to women with some positive reviews on here, especially if your time is short North of the border. Almost all agencies and independent SP's can be contacted by eMail or phone call, most can be contacted by text and you'll find quite a few on Twitter.
Look in the Advertisements and Reviews section of this board for information about providers and contact info.
Personally, I'd consider opening up a hobbying email account that isn't linked to your phone, if you haven't already done so, but maybe it's overkill. Reach out by email if that's the easiest for you, but be discrete if you're asking about session specifics. Most of your questions can be answered by searching this forum, but if you really need to know if, let's say CIMWS is available and it hasn't been mentioned on the forum, contact the provider or agency directly. Some providers and agencies require references, but not all. It's usually made pretty clear on their websites and/or advertisements.
Usually it's a message like "Hey! Is so-and-so available on November 10 for a 2 hour outcall to the Sheraton Blah Blah? What will her rate be? Does she provide CIMWS? Can she arrive dressed like Batman? From Madeupname." Or whatever your jam is.
Don't kick too many tires or you might get blocked.
Have a plan a) and at-least in the back of your mind a plan b), especially if your time is short and you booked awhile in advance. Usually they'll have you confirm the day of your rendezvous.
I was thinking the same thing....lol. Very strange. Can't believe he could even remember his password...lol.
Lol.. It's obvious I've spent little time here. I had to reset my password recently as I had forgotten I'd joined here. I am not from Canada and joined long ago looking to cross the border into Windsor to see an SP, which I never did. About 3 years ago I did go to London to see an SP at the place that everyone raved about that was shut down. I can't remember the name, but it was very well reviewed and in a big place that had really nice condos. I ended up with a freakin parking ticket, which seems to be quite popular in that area. lol Around that time is when the law was changed. So, I'm looking to visit Toronto soon and just wanting to see what I can do about finding a safe way to enjoy the hobby once again.
I do appreciate the info giving that was actually helpful. I'm not a troll or LE, and I have read quite a few posts.. have a couple I am interested in and looking to take the plunge. I went on one website and it was very specific about what was not going to happen, which led me to post.
I do appreciate the info giving that was actually helpful. I'm not a troll or LE, and I have read quite a few posts.. have a couple I am interested in and looking to take the plunge. I went on one website and it was very specific about what was not going to happen, which led me to post.
Post a link to the site if you can. It might give people a better understanding of what you don't know.
Don't try in London or Windsor, come straight to Toronto (though hotels are more expensive the rates with SP's are on par or often better and the choices much better).
While here book a session with any of the indies listed here or someone from an agency, based on reviews here and photos/info on their sites.
Be clean, polite and discreet and have a good time not even worrying about the possibility of stings or legal issues.
If you want to ask questions, use acronyms here but better just to read reviews and see what acts are allowed by each SP, instead of promised.
http://www.cupidsescorts.ca/faqs/
I read those and that made me wonder more than anything. I'd hate not to ask the right questions and end up hanging out with a woman for a few hours with that being all.
This in particular..
Can I ask the escort if she’d be interested in having sex?
No. Again, the Canadian government has outlawed sexual consent between two adults who’ve exchanged money. If you ask your escort for sex, she is required by her employment contract to decline. Being persistent will make her uncomfortable and could have you blacklisted from our agency.
So, I'm wondering how to broach the subject without either of us having a problem. I'm interested in meeting one that really enjoys couples. I've seen a couple that were interesting, and there were some on that site above that said couples were ok...but when I read that, it made me wonder.
And I'm most interested in coming to Toronto...tho Montreal is a possible too.
I read those and that made me wonder more than anything. I'd hate not to ask the right questions and end up hanging out with a woman for a few hours with that being all.
This in particular..
Can I ask the escort if she’d be interested in having sex?
No. Again, the Canadian government has outlawed sexual consent between two adults who’ve exchanged money. If you ask your escort for sex, she is required by her employment contract to decline. Being persistent will make her uncomfortable and could have you blacklisted from our agency.
So, I'm wondering how to broach the subject without either of us having a problem. I'm interested in meeting one that really enjoys couples. I've seen a couple that were interesting, and there were some on that site above that said couples were ok...but when I read that, it made me wonder.
And I'm most interested in coming to Toronto...tho Montreal is a possible too.
Ahhh.
Well, as you've probably figured out, you're not paying for sex - but should you parktake in services with an agency-girl, you would be paying for her companionship and time. How you plan to spend that hour together is more-or-less up to you. Many women have restrictions, so familiarize yourself with acronyms (see the stickies at the top of the review section forums) and what other guys said about their sessions.
Get in touch with the agencies or independent SP's yourself to enquire about "couples." Not sure if you are looking for a person from Cupids to join you and your SO or for two ladies from Cupids.
In any event, if you're still confused at this point about how/what you might need to ask, you definitely need to start reading reviews in the Outcall section.
No, but you can text and ask if she provides bbj, cfs or some other acronym with an indie or backpage connection.
Asking to have sex is like calling pizza pizza and asking if they serve food.
Though legally, as others keep repeating, you are just paying for her time.
By the way, listen to charlotte and consider a session with her, she gets great reviews and appears very articulate, so can explain all the details, possibly while naked.
(haven't seen her myself)
Just don't call her up and ask if she's interested in having sex for money.
Thank you all for your help.. We're still checking out reviews and sites looking for the right one.. Thank you very much too, Charlotte.. I'll probably be contacting you soon to chat.. if that's alright. 
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