Made a huge mistake and got involved
The capacity of self victimization is ASTOUNDING
This girl is super flaky, almost never answers. Which, fine fair enough she gets busy. Mind you she tells me she's out of money at least twice every time I talk to or see her.
Anyway...blah blah gives good head, worth a little leeway with the crazy...I see that it should go ONLY so far.
This time she answers, my bad luck for reasons to become apparent in the near future.
She's staying in a car outside of a motel because, "the owner hates her for some reason".
Hmmmmmmm, but I gloss over it because she gives great head.
I drive my dumbass the 40 minutes out at 1am to go see her.
She's freezing her ass off in a car with all her stuff. Apparently the place she had been staying at, had fallen through...again.
I offer to get us a room in town, she's falling asleep though. So I figure at LEAST I'll get a good morning head session.
She passes out as soon as we make the room.
I'm not mad, I cover her up and sleep.
Wake up early and let her rest
Grab breakfast, make her a plate and grab one of everything they have available in case she's hungry...I am giddy for my session.
She sleeps until almost checkout time and devours everything, sidenote:
If you ever stay in Oshawa, NEVER get a room at the quinta inn. Current Management is shit. Used to be good years ago, current ones are obnoxious dicks. Gonna try the holiday inn a few blocks away next time.
Also, look for a deal through travel sites, don't go directly to the hotel.
Anyway, she gives an alright session. But DEFINITELY not worth the hassle and price of a room for the night.
But whatever
I ask her if she wants to come with me to Toronto, I can get us a room there
She hmms and hawws, no skin in the game from me so I say I can drop her off where she wants.
I grab us some road snacks from Timmy's .If she wants me to drop her off fine, but she agrees to come to TO and sleeps the whole ride there.
I'm not unkind, I figure girl is tired so I'll let her sleep and we'll have some fun when she's rested, and I'll drive her back after.
She sleeps ALL FUCKING DAY
which, fine. She hasn't had a bed to herself for a while, and I'm not gonna force myself on a sleeping girl.
She wakes up at 3 in the goddamn morning long enough to tell me "she needs to eat" and goes back to sleep.
I offer to take her out, or she can have what I have lying around the house. A kilo of grapes, half a pack of crackers, half a sleeve of pringles and a gatorade.
She downs it all and passes out again.
By this point I'm thinking, alright, pretty clear she doesn't want to service me again. I'll just give her a ride back to Oshawa in the morning and that'll be that.
Come 11am, checkout time and she's telling me she can't work here.
In my head I'm thinking, "you did before, I can point out where to go and what to do...but it's your choice ". I go see her at the room I got, middle of my work day.
Total fucking hostility
" I told you I can't work here! I told you I didn't want to come to Toronto! I'm here at your mercy, your little pet! What are ya gonna do with me now!!?..."
And so on and so forth
I try to calm the situation and have a conversation.
Nope
Everything is "well what am I gonna do?! No! You got me here! Now what am I gonna do?!..."
Anything I say is met with yelling and accusations of me "having her under my control".
To which, I very clearly did not, nor did she by all accounts.
I offer to take her back to where I picked her up from
"No! That's not an option!"
I ask her what she wants to do, I can give her a ride to anywhere she wants to go
"No! I'm your problem now! YOU DID THIS!"
I'm waiting for the R-word accusations at this point.
She's shaking at this point
Saying she's afraid
I talk her down like a fucking hostage negotiator.
I don't mean her any harm
I am not demanding anything from her
And I am willing to take her anywhere she needs to go
Luckily she gets someone on the phone and gets an address to go to.
I get her packed up and in the car asap
Grab her a meal to go and dropped her ass off
Drove the hell away with utmost alacrity
The, "have a nice life and goodbye FOR-FUCKING-EVER"
went unspoken
The lessons I hope I've learned:
- Be clear and direct about expectations and come to an agreement BEFORE you take her anywhere
- if she starts hmming and hawwing, just walk away
- sunken costs should be cut short at next available opportunity. (In the morning after she provided service, I should have dropped her where she wanted to go and saved me an entire day and a room fee)
- don't get a room somewhere you can't do like Ewan McGregor in Blackhawk Down, turn around and run screaming "fuuuuuuuuck thiiiiiiiis!"
And last but not least two intertwined quotes of wisdom:
"Cocaine is a hell of a drug" - Rick James
"You can turn your back on a person, but never, turn your back on a drug" - Hunter S. Thompson
The capacity of self victimization is ASTOUNDING
This girl is super flaky, almost never answers. Which, fine fair enough she gets busy. Mind you she tells me she's out of money at least twice every time I talk to or see her.
Anyway...blah blah gives good head, worth a little leeway with the crazy...I see that it should go ONLY so far.
This time she answers, my bad luck for reasons to become apparent in the near future.
She's staying in a car outside of a motel because, "the owner hates her for some reason".
Hmmmmmmm, but I gloss over it because she gives great head.
I drive my dumbass the 40 minutes out at 1am to go see her.
She's freezing her ass off in a car with all her stuff. Apparently the place she had been staying at, had fallen through...again.
I offer to get us a room in town, she's falling asleep though. So I figure at LEAST I'll get a good morning head session.
She passes out as soon as we make the room.
I'm not mad, I cover her up and sleep.
Wake up early and let her rest
Grab breakfast, make her a plate and grab one of everything they have available in case she's hungry...I am giddy for my session.
She sleeps until almost checkout time and devours everything, sidenote:
If you ever stay in Oshawa, NEVER get a room at the quinta inn. Current Management is shit. Used to be good years ago, current ones are obnoxious dicks. Gonna try the holiday inn a few blocks away next time.
Also, look for a deal through travel sites, don't go directly to the hotel.
Anyway, she gives an alright session. But DEFINITELY not worth the hassle and price of a room for the night.
But whatever
I ask her if she wants to come with me to Toronto, I can get us a room there
She hmms and hawws, no skin in the game from me so I say I can drop her off where she wants.
I grab us some road snacks from Timmy's .If she wants me to drop her off fine, but she agrees to come to TO and sleeps the whole ride there.
I'm not unkind, I figure girl is tired so I'll let her sleep and we'll have some fun when she's rested, and I'll drive her back after.
She sleeps ALL FUCKING DAY
which, fine. She hasn't had a bed to herself for a while, and I'm not gonna force myself on a sleeping girl.
She wakes up at 3 in the goddamn morning long enough to tell me "she needs to eat" and goes back to sleep.
I offer to take her out, or she can have what I have lying around the house. A kilo of grapes, half a pack of crackers, half a sleeve of pringles and a gatorade.
She downs it all and passes out again.
By this point I'm thinking, alright, pretty clear she doesn't want to service me again. I'll just give her a ride back to Oshawa in the morning and that'll be that.
Come 11am, checkout time and she's telling me she can't work here.
In my head I'm thinking, "you did before, I can point out where to go and what to do...but it's your choice ". I go see her at the room I got, middle of my work day.
Total fucking hostility
" I told you I can't work here! I told you I didn't want to come to Toronto! I'm here at your mercy, your little pet! What are ya gonna do with me now!!?..."
And so on and so forth
I try to calm the situation and have a conversation.
Nope
Everything is "well what am I gonna do?! No! You got me here! Now what am I gonna do?!..."
Anything I say is met with yelling and accusations of me "having her under my control".
To which, I very clearly did not, nor did she by all accounts.
I offer to take her back to where I picked her up from
"No! That's not an option!"
I ask her what she wants to do, I can give her a ride to anywhere she wants to go
"No! I'm your problem now! YOU DID THIS!"
I'm waiting for the R-word accusations at this point.
She's shaking at this point
Saying she's afraid
I talk her down like a fucking hostage negotiator.
I don't mean her any harm
I am not demanding anything from her
And I am willing to take her anywhere she needs to go
Luckily she gets someone on the phone and gets an address to go to.
I get her packed up and in the car asap
Grab her a meal to go and dropped her ass off
Drove the hell away with utmost alacrity
The, "have a nice life and goodbye FOR-FUCKING-EVER"
went unspoken
The lessons I hope I've learned:
- Be clear and direct about expectations and come to an agreement BEFORE you take her anywhere
- if she starts hmming and hawwing, just walk away
- sunken costs should be cut short at next available opportunity. (In the morning after she provided service, I should have dropped her where she wanted to go and saved me an entire day and a room fee)
- don't get a room somewhere you can't do like Ewan McGregor in Blackhawk Down, turn around and run screaming "fuuuuuuuuck thiiiiiiiis!"
And last but not least two intertwined quotes of wisdom:
"Cocaine is a hell of a drug" - Rick James
"You can turn your back on a person, but never, turn your back on a drug" - Hunter S. Thompson
