Lasting longer with SP's

[Hyru]

So here's the deal:

Whenever I'm with a girlfriend or a girl I've been with a few times, I'm able to go a good hour or so without cumming. Whenever I'm with an SP tho, 5mins into a BJ and I'm ready to explode. Heck, even with a conform on it doesn't seem to slow down much.

I've tried a few different things like making sure your bladder is empty, kegal exercises, rubbing one out prior to going in, but so far not much progress.

I say I have non SP sex about once or twice a week and go just fine, but I think it has to do with familiarity with the girl and her body

Anyone in the same situation? Suggestions?

 

[Tiger]

Just be happy you CAN actually finish
Sometimes I wish I could come in 5 mins

Obviously it is mental and psychological for you... kegals and physical stuff won't help modify you. You need more mind-control exercises, my young Jedi

 

[Rob_Latex]

Do a search for "orgasm control". There are some great articles around. Takes some work and practice, but it's definitely possible to train your body and mind to come when you want.

 

[notthemama]

Just be happy you CAN actually finish
Sometimes I wish I could come in 5

I always had good hang time with the ladies.
Now that I am mid 50s I haven't had to go for any enhancers like Viagra but put a condom over the little man and I'm lucky to cum at all in the hour.
It can be so frustrating as you can feel it's right there but no release.
Take the necessary evil condom off and no problem?

 

[IRIS]

So here's the deal:

Whenever I'm with a girlfriend or a girl I've been with a few times, I'm able to go a good hour or so without cumming. Whenever I'm with an SP tho, 5mins into a BJ and I'm ready to explode. Heck, even with a conform on it doesn't seem to slow down much.

Maybe SP-s gave you better BJ.

 

[wazup]

I was so horny one time I jerked off in the shower hoping I could last longer with the sp, when I got out I couldn't get wood again and money was wasted.

 

[Varoufakis]

So here's the deal:

Whenever I'm with a girlfriend or a girl I've been with a few times, I'm able to go a good hour or so without cumming. Whenever I'm with an SP tho, 5mins into a BJ and I'm ready to explode. Heck, even with a conform on it doesn't seem to slow down much.

I've tried a few different things like making sure your bladder is empty, kegal exercises, rubbing one out prior to going in, but so far not much progress.

I say I have non SP sex about once or twice a week and go just fine, but I think it has to do with familiarity with the girl and her body

Anyone in the same situation? Suggestions?

Breath deeply while having sex ... the more you breath the longer you last.
The penis is not a muscle. It's a collections of blood veins. You breath you get more blood ie more oxygen to Johnny down there.
Try it. Nothing to lose. It's my technic and it works 100%. For me at least.

 

[T.O.tourist]

Suggestions?

You need more mind-control exercises, my young Jedi

https://imgflip.com/memegenerator

 

[Varoufakis]

Maybe SP-s gave you better BJ.

LoL

yummy body hmmmm.

 

[caseyx]

Breath deeply while having sex ... the more you breath the longer you last.
The penis is not a muscle. It's a collections of blood veins. You breath you get more blood ie more oxygen to Johnny down there.
Try it. Nothing to lose. It's my technic and it works 100%. For me at least.

I totally agree with this. I can't say it works 100% for me but it definitely helps.

 

[explorerzip]

Just tell her to go slow.

 

[Mr Bret]

As a few others have mentioned, there is a chance that the talent level of the SPs you see is somewhat superior to that of the civvies you have sex with.
Another thing to consider is the fact that you may consciously, or even subconsciously consider your escapades with SPs to be taboo to a certain degree thus increasing the excitement factor. This could be cause for you to be over stimulated resulting in your earlier than desired release.

 

[mrexcite]

YOu could argue that this is a good thing and not a problem. Assuming you're over-35, you should be happy that your johnson is a bit too excited. That said, the stated S-L-O-W D-O-W-N and take it all in approach works for me.

Another little tip not mentioned yet: if an SP has tattoos (most do!) try a position where you can study them, or while she's going down on you study them. You're still aroused but it keeps your mind focused on something else. Any regular SP I have been with, their ink is embedded in my mind now. This is especially true when doing it from behind with girls who have tasteful low-bridge tattoos

 

[lucky_blue]

If you are physically healthy then it is almost 100% psychology.

I knew a guy that ended up with premature ejaculation issues because his mom caught him masturbating as a kid and made a big deal about it with punishment and sending him to a religious "reform" school. His fear of getting "caught" led to the premature ejaculation issue.

By the way, I think 5-7 min is sort of the average for most men.

http://www.esquire.com/lifestyle/sex/a5943/average-sex-time-0709/

 

[WhiteDChapelle]

OK so what I do is after the BJ I always start in a modified mish. That being her on her back with her but near the edge of the bed and me with my feet on the floor. From this position you have 100% control over the depth and speed so you can control and make sure you come close to unloading but bail out at the last minute. After coming close a couple of time, the cavalry retreats and you can go all in with your favourite girl in all your favourite positions.

 

[rhuarc29]

I've tried a few different things like making sure your bladder is empty....

I have honestly not heard of that one. I'd think the opposite would be more useful simply because it'd keep you preoccupied!

 

[ultistar]

Don't understand these "busting too quick" threads. If you cum too quick even after rubbing one out, then go for another round 2 (or 3). Most SP's accept MSOG especially if the first one is quick.
No disrespect, just sayin'.

 

[DanJ]

5 minutes into a BJ is a pretty decent time to be popping off as it is, unless she is well practiced at edging. What are you doing during this time though? I go a lot longer during the BJ if I'm just laying back and enjoying. If I start doing stuff, rubbing her, or getting her into a 69, then I get more excited quicker and come closer to release. Don't be afraid to communicate, tell her you are getting too close or however you want to phrase it.