How to last longer?
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The tried-and-true 'rub one out before a session' should help with the prematurity. Or is it staying hard that's the issue? Working out, eating healthier should help, as well as holding out in the days before. Otherwise you might want to look into medicine for it.
@VeeDraper have you google your question?
Sleep 10 hours every night.
No sugar or flour by products.
No porn or talking to women, until the deed.
Sleep 10 hours every night.
No sugar or flour by products.
No porn or talking to women, until the deed.
When you feel like you are gonna jizz, stop. Go again , then when you feel like you’re gonna jizz, stop. After that it should work! Or another thought is Molly as that helps too lol
Need a longer lasting erection or need to last longer before cumming? Very different question.
If it’s the former, as said above, healthy lifestyle, no smoking, lose weight, exercise and eat healthy. ED meds are easily available and work for many. Take the pressure off to perform. Lots of foreplay, making out etc, to get good and worked up before the main event.
If the latter, as others have suggested, rub one out before. A little bit of alcohol (or weed) can take a bit of the edge off (ie a couple drinks, a low dose gummy or a few puffs - don’t go overboard). Again, focus on foreplay, before getting to the main event if you know you are a “three pump chump”. Lol.
In both cases, take things slowly. Let things evolve naturally, it will be easier to let go of your anxiety about performance and focus on the moment.
I wish. I could fuck all night in my twenties and thirties. Only problem was finding a partner.
Don't worry if you cum quick, when you feel yourself cuming yell "You are so fucken hot I gotta cum OMG, etc." The girl will find that hot and after a bj, you can go again!
This is usally the case. I just keep cuming way to fast. Need someone whos more forgiving to practise with.
Do kegels and practice edging. Make sure you’re not stressed out. You need to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Piss a little and then hold it that’s the same muscle you gotta train so you can hold your load and bust when you want to.
Seems you have too much mojo.
First suggestion - Wait 30 years.
If that's not what's going to work, the second suggestion is the fire one out early - then the second will last longer. Most ladies offer msog w an hour booking. If you're only booking 30, a quick bj in the first few mins, then finish as normal.
Back when I was 19 my boner was like nitro and any jostling would set it off. Thus immediately after dropping the daks with me gf I'd tell her I need a bj I'm going to burst and in less than 5 bobs from her went shot #1. Ready Togo again in minutes. Good luck.
Ps some pro ladies don't mind the quick launch - less wear and tear.
First suggestion - Wait 30 years.
If that's not what's going to work, the second suggestion is the fire one out early - then the second will last longer. Most ladies offer msog w an hour booking. If you're only booking 30, a quick bj in the first few mins, then finish as normal.
Back when I was 19 my boner was like nitro and any jostling would set it off. Thus immediately after dropping the daks with me gf I'd tell her I need a bj I'm going to burst and in less than 5 bobs from her went shot #1. Ready Togo again in minutes. Good luck.
Ps some pro ladies don't mind the quick launch - less wear and tear.
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You could try a little reverse psychology on yourself - try to cum as quickly as possible. We tend to undermine ourselves.
Let me just add, sex does not have to be over because you cum. Snuggle up, catch your breath, enjoy feeling her body next to yours, caress her, give real compliments. And then you can give her head or masturbate her. Chances are you will both get turned on and be up for another round or two. Ultimately it is better not to have a goal, pressure is a performance killer. Just enjoy your time with someone whatever happens. Once you are truly comfortable with someone great things can happen.
Let me just add, sex does not have to be over because you cum. Snuggle up, catch your breath, enjoy feeling her body next to yours, caress her, give real compliments. And then you can give her head or masturbate her. Chances are you will both get turned on and be up for another round or two. Ultimately it is better not to have a goal, pressure is a performance killer. Just enjoy your time with someone whatever happens. Once you are truly comfortable with someone great things can happen.
I've been having the same issues. Been on a cold streak using Hinge for dates so I've resorted to SPs again. A shot of alcohol used to do the trick for me but my last 2 sessions, I barely got 50 strokes in the pussy and I'm blowing my load. I tried edging but I can never hold it and end up giving the final strokes and cum. I used to be able to cum twice in the hour without issue but a few weeks ago, my 1hr appointment ended after about 15min with a shower! 
I couldn't get hard enough for round 2 despite a big effort from SP and then myself. So I started doing 30min again to save myself the money lol
I couldn't get hard enough for round 2 despite a big effort from SP and then myself. So I started doing 30min again to save myself the money lolApparently, SSRI medications will slow a climax, but there's the added problem that they will also turn you off sex.
Ssri’s definitely delay orgasm, but sometimes indefinitely. I’ve experienced this personally (I’ve basically tried all of the types of antidepressant). Definitely made it harder to cum. Did nothing to inhibit my desire or potency tho. Sounds great that you can last longer, but pumping away for 45 minutes give you a sore back and her a sore pussy. In addition, dropping 400+/hr, and leaving with blue balls really defeats the whole purpose of the exercise.
Sounds right; I looked it up on AI and it said SSRIs seem to impact women more than men when it comes to sex drive.
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