Thought I'd reach out to my friends on terb in hopes of getting some advice regarding this issue.
I'm in my mid 30's and have had my fair share of partners. It seems like each time I meet a new girl, the first few times during sex I can barely last at all. This is even more so in certain positions (usually when the girl has control, like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, etc). It applies to good oral (deepthroat) also. I'm literally 20 seconds in and have to stop because I'm about to finish. Needless to say, this results in our sex sessions being a game of 4-5 thrust and then stopping for 10 seconds, then doing it again and again. I imagine it being very frustrating for the girl... especially because she needs consistency to be able to climax. Since this is a "civi" (real life partner), we dont use condoms. Although, a condom does help a bit if used... but the sensation goes down and it's a double edged sword.
I've read into kegel exercises but I'm not reallt sure that'll help my problem. I'll still only be able to go hard for 10 seconds before having to stop myself.
Anyone had any suggestions?
I'm in my mid 30's and have had my fair share of partners. It seems like each time I meet a new girl, the first few times during sex I can barely last at all. This is even more so in certain positions (usually when the girl has control, like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, etc). It applies to good oral (deepthroat) also. I'm literally 20 seconds in and have to stop because I'm about to finish. Needless to say, this results in our sex sessions being a game of 4-5 thrust and then stopping for 10 seconds, then doing it again and again. I imagine it being very frustrating for the girl... especially because she needs consistency to be able to climax. Since this is a "civi" (real life partner), we dont use condoms. Although, a condom does help a bit if used... but the sensation goes down and it's a double edged sword.
I've read into kegel exercises but I'm not reallt sure that'll help my problem. I'll still only be able to go hard for 10 seconds before having to stop myself.
Anyone had any suggestions?