Ah, kink. Like so much it is all in the eye of the participant.
When I took my girlfriend to live out her fantasies, first to dance at a strip club, then for 3some with an SP ... she thought I was kinky, no not her - ME!
For her it was what she wanted, she was normal, thus what she wants is normal. For me to help her act it out was weird to her. I was supposed to get all "oooh, that is bad ..." or something I guess.
What makes blush? What will I not tell my staff I want?
Well, I like to spank young woman over my knee. My kink, is they have to ask me first! Hell, anyone can grab someone and beat them ... but to have them love you enough to ask for it, perhaps with a hair brush in their hand ... Ahhhh.
I like to be seen behaving badly ... for example binding my GF thumbs together before we sit down at a restaurant. Having people see me eat while she waits for me to feed her is very ... well kinky for me.
But my greatest Kink. The thing that gives me the greatest pleasure ... is helping a young woman get back on the success track, helping her get an independent life ... of course she has to want to live with my kinks as the price of the lessons in obtaining a socially normal life. It is interesting but regular spankings CAN help a 18 year old learn to read ... kinky? Well, yeah it makes me blush ... so it must be ...