Is there an intimidation factor?

[oil&gas]

To a client who has been outed the SP could be intimidating.

 

[squeezer]

Lifestyle inflation. Very common amongst sps, and drug dealers, or any quick cash industry actually. Combine that with poor business skills/money management.. which I guess is most people in general who live paycheck to paycheck. This is why I dont keep sp friends anymore nor do I use Twitter.. the ones with good head on their shoulders are busy being awesome on their own O.O To be fair, this is why I don't hang around a lot of people in general anymore lol.
I think it's important to have integrity in any work you do. I think as sps, we see others posting about their lavish lifestyles and buy into it ourselves too - furthering the fantasy of get rich quick or the 'ideal client' types. I cringe when I hear a fellow sp talk about how they are planning to scam a client or get the most out of a session.. there will always be people with bad intentions out there. The irony is that the person with this mindset will never get far in life. I remember one time in a duo, the other sp rolled their eyes at me while she was turned away from the client and while riding him reverse cowgirl - I couldn't believe it!! It completely turned me off the session with her (and I like women) and I never did business with her again.

Truthful and hopefully enlightening to the enablers.

A dose of reality is a good thing. Thank you Florence.

 

[doggystyle99]

To a client who has been outed the SP could be intimidating.

This industry attracts a lot of unscrupulous people, as a client it's imortant to not share personal or work related information with SP's and avoid any SP who ask for such information.
Sorry to hear this has happened to you.

 

[VIPhunter]

There's a great line in the old classic Nails song...88 lines about 44 women.

"Gina had a night club walk that made grown men feel underage"

I frequent dancers and not SPs, however....That above feeling is exactly what I'm looking for. Not intimidation but.....anticipation?

 

[jdeck]

No, never intimidated. As others have mentioned, it's all about that combination of how attracted I am to her, what I think the sexual experience might be like with her, and of course whether her rates are within my range. So looks, service and price.

 

[SchlongConery]

]This industry attracts a lot of unscrupulous people[/B],

as a client it's imortant to not share personal or work related information with SP's and avoid any SP who ask for such information.

Sorry to hear this has happened to you.

Indeed it does, from all sides.

And that is NOT to say that ALL SP's or ALL clients, or ALL agencies etc are unscrupulous.

Most are good people just trying to earn a living or have some fun with a nice woman. The bad ones are the exception.

Having said that, the consequences for many are such that they really need to be careful about disclosing too much personal information. Or expose their banking information etc.

 

[squeezer]

Pussy! :baby:

Yes please! A born and bred shaved one, 19 to max 28.

Thanks man!

 

[ogibowt]

wow, between reading this thread and the locked "Deposit" thread it seems you need a lawyer,an accountant and a life coach just to hook up with an escort.....im old enough to remember easier times like leafing through the Now magazine ads or Redzone, or simply engaging one of the ladies who posted on Terb….you would call, make a date, show up, or she shows up, you pay her and had hanky panky as one of my favs referred to it as....now you need to get finger printed, have character references and be techy enough...which isn't me...for E transfers or pay Pal.....for me that would be intimidating, not the actual escort.....bring on the big tits, the DFK and I will either knock on the door, or answer the door and lets effing get it on...

 

[squeezer]

wow, between reading this thread and the locked "Deposit" thread it seems you need a lawyer,an accountant and a life coach just to hook up with an escort.....im old enough to remember easier times like leafing through the Now magazine ads or Redzone, or simply engaging one of the ladies who posted on Terb….you would call, make a date, show up, or she shows up, you pay her and had hanky panky as one of my favs referred to it as....now you need to get finger printed, have character references and be techy enough...which isn't me...for E transfers or pay Pal.....for me that would be intimidating, not the actual escort.....bring on the big tits, the DFK and I will either knock on the door, or answer the door and lets effing get it on...

It's still great if you stick to the agencies and massage parlors.

 

[swshowtime8]

I have definitely never passed on a lady because I was intimidated, but (similar to others) have passed due to lack of attraction, the requested donation, and stifling screening requirements.

And because I generally like to meet ladies who I find classy and elegant, I find that their website (for independents) tells me something about them and their tastes - so that factors in a little as well. Rightly or wrongly, I tend to pass on websites that I find tacky.

With that said, some websites are professionally done, meaning they have been highly curated. Therefore, being able to view a lady's Twitter account is actually very helpful as it tends to give you a truer and more unfiltered sense of the person (such as are they always trying to seek gifts, is every other word a profanity - or, in one case, why was the lady always touting the next book she was reading).

Just my two cents...

 

[squeezer]

I never would have thought,

The donation, screening and attitude would play such a big part in clients choosing where they prefer to spend their money not intimidation.

Thank God all the ladies are so busy making $$$$$$ what is said here means nothing.

 

[BrandyRose]

Wow! A wonderful collection of informative, articulate, and insightful responses. Thank you all for your honest thoughts!
xxoo