Serious question which will require some honesty. When you are browsing through websites, Twitter, or Terb are there certain women you pass by because you feel intimidated /nervous for some reason? If so, what’s the reason? I’m curious. xxoo
Is there an intimidation factor?
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absolutely.....
there has been 1 lady I've been dying to see for atleast 5 years
She's gorgeous
Her pics are spectacular
and she has this air of confidence which I love...
but I am soooo.... outta her league I cant pull the trigger on requesting some time with her
I feel like when I knocked on her door and it opened she'd come up with some excuse to cancel and close the door in my face.
I know she's classy enough to go thru with the appointment but I would probably feel like she'd be thinking ....just hurry up and pop
there has been 1 lady I've been dying to see for atleast 5 years
She's gorgeous
Her pics are spectacular
and she has this air of confidence which I love...
but I am soooo.... outta her league I cant pull the trigger on requesting some time with her
I feel like when I knocked on her door and it opened she'd come up with some excuse to cancel and close the door in my face.
I know she's classy enough to go thru with the appointment but I would probably feel like she'd be thinking ....just hurry up and pop
The use of the word courtesan (we are not in 17th century France) all dominate to the point of being angry are turn offs, otherwise it is all based on mood (sometimes I want 40+ East Euro and others I want 22 year old small town university student) looks and price point.
Generally no, but I think there's always a certain level of trepidation if you've been corresponding with a lady, SP or otherwise, for awhile and hitting it off, and then go to meet up for the first time in person. Has something to do with expectations. Like, does her expectation of you meet reality?
lol I kind of feel the same way. Many who describe themselves as courtesans are trying to put on the appearance of class and being an elite companion. Often it just means high prices, prudish service and a conceited attitude.
lol I kind of feel the same way. Many who describe themselves as courtesans are trying to put on the appearance of class and being an elite companion. Often it just means high prices, prudish service and a conceited attitude.
I look for age and price Im over 60 and will not see any lady under 35. As for what an sp calls themselves, courtesan, companion, working girl, hooker,etc. is just semantics. I don't just see a woman for sex I also look for a bit of a connection and chemistry.
Just on a side note, I am so glad that I am not the only one who finds the word "courtesan" used hilarious, and yes it is a form of snobbery or hey look I can charge wacky prices in comparison to the rest of the market. In reality it doesnt bother me, I am all for free market capitalism, the woman can charge whatever she wants, I will just choose to take my business elsewhere.
I am intimidated sometimes by the personal information that escorts sometimes ask for. I am also intimidated to use escorts from a certain agency whose owner has been known to out clients and employees and is a capricious loose cannon on Twitter and review boards. That agency must have enough money already and doesn't need mine.
I'm never intimidated by anyone...no reason to be, we're all just people - essentially the same. Once you have sex a couple hundred times, there's no reason to believe someone else is better at it than you, just different is more likely.
I do however avoid escorts who give off an overwhelming air of superiority, condescension or entitlement, and/or those that appear to be game for virtually everything except sex.
'Fly me around the country', 'Pay for my Spa Day', 'Pay for me to eat dinner at fancy restaurants with my girlfriends', 'It's my birthday MONTH, buy me wicked expensive stuff', 'I want to see this show, buy me tickets!' 'Book me for a duo with my best friend so we can drink, giggle, and pretend to mess around with each other on your dime.' 'Just send me money/gift cards!' 'Spoil me - I deserve it!'
Typically the same ones who call out most guys as 'slobbyists' while endorsing the idiots with too much money and too little brains as the ideal client.
These are the types that really want to burn your time and money on THEM, while typically delivering mediocre to low service levels unless you're a willing repeat 'investor'.
Funny thing is, THEY think they intimidate the guys with the money. Although so many escorts claim to be grad students with multiple degrees under their belts, yet it's still mostly the men who have all the money and successful mainstream careers. Why would those guys feel intimidated by them?
I do however avoid escorts who give off an overwhelming air of superiority, condescension or entitlement, and/or those that appear to be game for virtually everything except sex.
'Fly me around the country', 'Pay for my Spa Day', 'Pay for me to eat dinner at fancy restaurants with my girlfriends', 'It's my birthday MONTH, buy me wicked expensive stuff', 'I want to see this show, buy me tickets!' 'Book me for a duo with my best friend so we can drink, giggle, and pretend to mess around with each other on your dime.' 'Just send me money/gift cards!' 'Spoil me - I deserve it!'
Typically the same ones who call out most guys as 'slobbyists' while endorsing the idiots with too much money and too little brains as the ideal client.
These are the types that really want to burn your time and money on THEM, while typically delivering mediocre to low service levels unless you're a willing repeat 'investor'.
Funny thing is, THEY think they intimidate the guys with the money. Although so many escorts claim to be grad students with multiple degrees under their belts, yet it's still mostly the men who have all the money and successful mainstream careers. Why would those guys feel intimidated by them?
You John have taken my thoughts and wrote them down perfectly I will say no more!
BTW, I would also avoid an SP with an assistant if you're ok with personal info screening.
https://twitter.com/peterinch003/status/1202608873263321089
What I really don't understand is guys like this thumper above who feel intimidated, inadequate or unworthy of any escort because of how he thinks he looks, or how much/little he thinks the escort will find him attractive. If you have cash in hand, and are a clean, decent and respectful human being, it doesn't really matter what you look like. You pay, you get to play. If she accepts your money, she's providing a paid service. You shouldn't feel bad about yourself or worry about whether or not she's attracted to you. Most are not, but are well paid to be good actors. Just go with the paid illusion and have fun. None are going to wind up as your girlfriend or wife IRL anyway, so after you walk out the door when all is said and done, it doesn't matter at all what she thought of your looks.
I love thumper....but there are 10 people sitting around me on the GO and wondering WTF is that guy laughing at.
I do know what you speak of though thumper.
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