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Is sugar dating killing the sex industry?

Have you had a sugar baby before?

  • No - never considered it, I'm good with escorts

    Votes: 53 34.6%
  • No - but I'm curious about trying it

    Votes: 58 37.9%
  • Yes - I have one now or had in the past

    Votes: 23 15.0%
  • Yes - but I still see escorts too

    Votes: 19 12.4%

  • Total voters
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Leimonis

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I've only heard of that problem on Seeking, SDM is meant be less strict talking money, but unless she brings it up, I usually keep it to general numbers ("..so in my last arrangement, I gave her $300-400 each time we met up..." ) until we chat off the platform.
Love it. Fuck seeking then lol.
 
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Kracker

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Been happy w agencies - don’t have the energy to vet indies let alone SBs.

See the odd girl outside to feel less rushed.

But one thing I’m wondering re SBs - any blackmail?

Figure agencies are safer that way - more to lose.
 
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Leimonis

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Been happy w agencies - don’t have the energy to vet indies let alone SBs.

See the odd girl outside to feel less rushed.

But one thing I’m wondering re SBs - any blackmail?

Figure agencies are safer that way - more to lose.
Some ppl on this board were outed by well established agencies.

if you are married etc - conduct your business accordingly.
 

superman12

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Been happy w agencies - don’t have the energy to vet indies let alone SBs.

See the odd girl outside to feel less rushed.

But one thing I’m wondering re SBs - any blackmail?

Figure agencies are safer that way - more to lose.
There is always a chance to be blackmailed by sb's. You just have to do as much due diligence as possible. It's fairly easy in my opinion to tell when an sb is becoming trouble. As a guy you also have to be discreet and not give out too many personal details that might come out to bite you in the assigned later.
 
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GeeBee

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There is always a chance to be blackmailed by sb's. You just have to do as much due diligence as possible. It's fairly easy in my opinion to tell when an sb is becoming trouble. As a guy you also have to be discreet and not give out too many personal details that might come out to bite you in the assigned later.
I've never felt in danger of this from any of the girls I've seen, but I do remain very careful. I use an alias, never give out any details that are too personal or might come back to haunt me, and always keep the spider senses engaged. Take the same kind of precautions you'd use in seeing an indy SP, and always be prepared to walk away from the relationship if you get a sense that she's fishing for something you don't want to divulge. None of the women I've had SB arrangements have ever even asked for my last name.
 
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I have a cam girl relationship. I've been "seeing" her for about a year. We videocall outside of the website once a week and chat/text everyday. I consider her a good friend. I then visit her on the official website and give her tips while she performs for me. I consider this a sugar baby relationship. I have also sent her gifts over the year. For me, the cam girl relationship works well. She gives me a ton of attention and maybe I am fooling myself, but I think I am special. I don't think other viewers have as close a relationship with her.

In addition to this I do go to spas, and occasionally a strip club.
 
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xix

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I think SB is for the young free loaders, if they get lucky. Only if old guys seek this, would a young guy want a Female SB?
May be an old women may want a Male SB or female SB.

But smart old guys know the below statement.
Women over 30 - 34 divorce - with kids - become FWB. Women after a divorce don't want marriage, maybe some want marriage very few women live together with partner at most 10 years. But many just want FWB till their 55.
The above is a fact from my experience seeing female co-workers.

Life is what it is.
 

Cholla

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I think SB is for the young free loaders, if they get lucky. Only if old guys seek this, would a young guy want a Female SB?
May be an old women may want a Male SB or female SB.

But smart old guys know the below statement.
Women over 30 - 34 divorce - with kids - become FWB. Women after a divorce don't want marriage, maybe some want marriage very few women live together with partner at most 10 years. But many just want FWB till their 55.
The above is a fact from my experience seeing female co-workers.

Life is what it is.
FWB, where are they? It seems mostly as a very popular myth rather than a reality. One time sex is not FWB at all. And from personal experience and reading many threads - FWB are basically non-existent. Relationships - yes, but not free fuck sessions. :)
 

danmand

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Some years ago, I had an SB who was an agency girl who was tired of sitting in cars and being driven around the city. I made a deal with her and she left the agency.
 
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xix

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Some years ago, I had an SB who was an agency girl who was tired of sitting in cars and being driven around the city. I made a deal with her and she left the agency.
You made a deal?
WTF? Okay Monty of Europe.
 

xix

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FWB, where are they? It seems mostly as a very popular myth rather than a reality. One time sex is not FWB at all. And from personal experience and reading many threads - FWB are basically non-existent. Relationships - yes, but not free fuck sessions. :)
What city do you live in?
BTW one clown would go to a special bar and the other clown using Dating apps. Different decade btw.
 

danmand

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You made a deal?
WTF? Okay Monty of Europe.
Yep, I know it was selfish and illoyal to the rest of the Terbites, but that is what I did.
 
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RobI

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I think SB is for the young free loaders, if they get lucky. Only if old guys seek this, would a young guy want a Female SB?
May be an old women may want a Male SB or female SB.

But smart old guys know the below statement.
Women over 30 - 34 divorce - with kids - become FWB. Women after a divorce don't want marriage, maybe some want marriage very few women live together with partner at most 10 years. But many just want FWB till their 55.
The above is a fact from my experience seeing female co-workers.

Life is what it is.
The reason younger guys (think 30s, not 20) seems to avoid the hassle of escorts and girlfriends. A few of the articles mention that the guys tend to have money; they're not doing extra shifts at Tims.

The average age of sugar daddies on the site is only 42, a rep for Seeking tells InsideHook, meaning nearly half the daddies on the site have barely glimpsed middle age.

So what brings millions of men at the peak of their sexual prime to a platform presumably populated by aging geezers reduced to coughing up cash for a date?

“I’d imagine some of the same things that bring older men,” says Sean, a 34-year-old art director who says he joined the site with the hope of “skipping the pomp and circumstance and being upfront about what you want and don’t want.”

Indeed, despite the age gap, the younger and older daddies on the site may have more in common than one might assume.


 

Ceiling Cat

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Many years ago pre internet and pre instant communications around the world, a person can do crappy things and even be a criminal in one city and move to another city and there would be little chance they would be discovered. Women even had an added advantage over men to conceal their past histories because they actually had a different name if they married. Pre computer age ( mid to late 70s ) a person could just move across the country and have a new life.

Possibly many women prefer to be sugar babies because they only have to deal with a limited number of people on a regular basis and not a rotation of hundreds. This way they can not meet up with Uncle Bill on the job.
 
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RobI

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Some years ago, I had an SB who was an agency girl who was tired of sitting in cars and being driven around the city. I made a deal with her and she left the agency.
Sounds good, most guys after seeing a girl at a spa or agency, sometimes get her number after a few visits and see her outside of work. Getting her to quit the agency is a whole other level :)
 

RobI

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FWB, where are they? It seems mostly as a very popular myth rather than a reality. One time sex is not FWB at all. And from personal experience and reading many threads - FWB are basically non-existent. Relationships - yes, but not free fuck sessions. :)
When we were young FWB (Friends With Benefits) didn't have anything to do with money changing hands.

Now we got old guy problems - no more FWB, but lots of P2P :(
 
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Cholla

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When we were young FWB (Friends With Benefits) didn't have anything to do with money changing hands.

Now we got old guy problems - no more FWB, but lots of P2P :(
If I would know what 2P2 means - I'd smile with you. :)
 

RobI

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If I would know what 2P2 means - I'd smile with you. :)
Sorry, Pay To Play - originally came from the music industry, meaning either paying to play a gig for exposure or outright Payola, but the sex industry adopted it to mean paying for sex :)

Probably those DJs getting comped hookers to play bad '70s records :)
 
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