Is my wife entitled to know about my sex life?

[Mr.Know-It-All]

SO in general any apps is not for lifetime mate? just for friendly chit chat or FWB for certain time. I am to assume.

A rational person would assume so, but don't be surprised if she wants or expects more than that. These are often lonely and/or dysfunctional people after all.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Regardless of how you want to justify it, you are cheating on your wife

no he's not.

 

[superman12]

That is a good question. Is the wife allowed to go have random sex outside of the marriage like guys do with hobbying? Would it have to be paid transactions only for trust to not cross into emotional territory.

I think most women would not have issues with men having sex outside of the marriage if they didn’t feel threatened that the husband would find something he thought was better and leave the marriage altogether

I think it really depends on the guy. Husbands who are confident with themselves as individuals and know what they bring to the marriage and dont need validation shouldnt have any problem with their wife finding sex outside the marriage knowing that she doesnt get any at home. I think husbands would prefer that there wife doesnt cross into emotional territory with another man but at the end of the day if your wife doesnt feel emotionally supported in her marriage shes going to go seek it out elsewhere just like a man will go seek out other women to fulfill his physical needs if he is not satisfied with what he has at home.

 

[bob4430]

Regardless of how you want to justify it, you are cheating on your wife

Just curious- are you married?

 

[Goodfellow]

Im in a similar boat. Been married for 35 years. Its been sexless for the past 25-30 for various reasons. Still love my wife and would do almost anything for her. I would say we have a happy marriage. I get my sexual urges fulfilled by regularly seeing sp's and going to mp's. I dont think my wife is entitled to know what i do in the sex department or even care for that matter. I dont tell her because as with most civi women i dont think she would like to hear that i have sex with other women outside of our marriage but on the other hand i dont think shes that naive to think that i dont. All men have urges that need to be fulfilled its just nature.

Similar to my circumstances. Reminds me of the joke:

Q: Why is the bride always smiling in the wedding photos?

A: She knows she will never have to give another blow job.

 

[Greytop19]

Regardless of how you want to justify it, you are cheating on your wife

100% of men on this site are single.

 

[y2kmark]

You are entitled to freedom in this area but you cannot tell her. Women in general are fucked in the head.
She wont have sex with you but will divorce you the second she finds out you're getting it somewhere else.

Especially if she was mainly in it for the money to begin with, just saying...