She should just smile quietly in the comfort of knowing you have one and in the knowledge she is off the hook obligation wise.
Is my wife entitled to know about my sex life?
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Probably best to leave things simple and not tell her anything. Chances are she already knows and chooses not to say anything as well.
I’m in a similar situation. After all these years of marriage we can finish each other’s sentences which is why I’m quite sure she knows. I disappear for a few hours every week to hang out with the boys and she never asks who or what we did.
I’m in a similar situation. After all these years of marriage we can finish each other’s sentences which is why I’m quite sure she knows. I disappear for a few hours every week to hang out with the boys and she never asks who or what we did.
Hope I am not off topic here.
Women are as lonely and have a sexless marriage too.
I have had sex with female coworkers who told me their marriage is boring, sexless and their husbands show no interest.
Women don't talk about it at work for obvious reasons, so it is safe for both parties.
Nothing more heavenly than spending an afternoon in a hotel room with a horny, sex starved female.
Some of the best free sex I have enjoyed.
Is the husband entitled to know ??
Women are as lonely and have a sexless marriage too.
I have had sex with female coworkers who told me their marriage is boring, sexless and their husbands show no interest.
Women don't talk about it at work for obvious reasons, so it is safe for both parties.
Nothing more heavenly than spending an afternoon in a hotel room with a horny, sex starved female.
Some of the best free sex I have enjoyed.
Is the husband entitled to know ??
You are living the dream my friend. I have married co workers I want to fuck with, who seem apparently content without me.
Yes, and those are some of the ones I play with. Local to me is a lady I actually met on terb who had posted about finding a SP to satisfy some bicurious thoughts. I helped her out with a girl I know who’s open to it and afterwards we met in person for a coffee and one thing lead to another.
I dont think the husband needs to know or is entitled to know but again i dont think he would be that naive to not know his wife is getting dick some place else if shes not getting it at home. Its best to adhere to a dont ask dont tell policy for either party if your in a sexless marriage.
You are living the dream, so congratulations.
Be bold and make a move. Don't assume they are content
Mine is reality, they are content.
What could go wrong? lol.
There's a pretty strong sexual harassment code in place where I work. Sounds like a minefield I don't want to cross. Especially when reading their signals of total disinterest. I am pretty good at picking up cues. Lifetime of rejection and all. They are all just wanking material unless something changes.Had another early 40s friend - good looking, in great shape- post divorce proclaim during a guys' road trip after being asked if he's getting any: "you would not believe the number of lonely married women in their late 30s and early 40s out there...it's almost every night if I want it bad enough!"
I agree with you, it is a minefield and getting fired is not an option.What could go wrong? lol.
I got lucky with coworkers flirting, that accidental touch or a phone call
asking what are you doing after work ?
It is Russian roulette for sure.
Well they ask what I am doing after work, I guess my reply is "squeezing one out in your honor, unless you have other plans"
just hasn't got to that point yet.
Particularly tricky once it ends...if hard feelings ensue...some tempted to now play victim...
She probably knows you're already getting it...so If she's keeping the current status quo...just do you...I would say she has more right to know you're fucking someone else while fucking her...because you might transfer something that might surprise her later on...
Well....consider an alternate situation. I don't know your wife or what your relationship is like, but perhaps say she feels you've disconnected from her emotionally, in the same way she's disconnected from you physically. Would she be within her right to get emotionally attached to someone else in order to satiate her needs and would you be entitled to know that? Or maybe she feels you don't splurge on her like you used to. Is it okay for her to get in a relationship with a wealthy man who takes her on trips?
Funny thing, entitlement. I mean, you probably made vows never to do what you're currently doing, so certainly you could claim she's entitled to knowing you are breaking your vows. Even if you weren't married, is there not an intrinsic contract to a relationship?
Basically, unless she's signed off on you doing what you're doing, it's immoral to do what you're doing.
Funny thing, entitlement. I mean, you probably made vows never to do what you're currently doing, so certainly you could claim she's entitled to knowing you are breaking your vows. Even if you weren't married, is there not an intrinsic contract to a relationship?
Basically, unless she's signed off on you doing what you're doing, it's immoral to do what you're doing.
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Well it all depends what you want to believe . Entitlement or Satisfaction? Immoral or Moral? Hand or other?
The divorced ones are all over those hookup apps like Bumble. I wouldn't consider them ideal life partners, but if all a man wants is sex, it works.
That is a good question. Is the wife allowed to go have random sex outside of the marriage like guys do with hobbying? Would it have to be paid transactions only for trust to not cross into emotional territory.
I think most women would not have issues with men having sex outside of the marriage if they didn’t feel threatened that the husband would find something he thought was better and leave the marriage altogether
SO in general any apps is not for lifetime mate? just for friendly chit chat or FWB for certain time. I am to assume.
