Is a massage "cheating"?

[Mr. Lucky]

So i went rolling with some friends on friday, and ended up getting a super massage
by some random girl "hot" anyways it was amazing and when my girl heard about it she
flipped nuts and got on my case about it, it was just a massage and nothing went out of line...


"thank god at least"

 

[JEFF247]

So i went rolling with some friends on friday, and ended up getting a super massage
by some random girl "hot" anyways it was amazing and when my girl heard about it she
flipped nuts and got on my case about it, it was just a massage and nothing went out of line...


"thank god at least"

If no happy ending, then it's not cheating. Women don't understand. Women don't mind massages from other women or a man. Men need the touch of a woman to relax. The touch of a man doesn't do it. Unless, of course, you're gay. Then you don't need to worry about your woman.

 

[a 1 player]

The question being, would you be upset if some young stud gave your GF a naked massage and a happy ending?

 

[CapitalGuy]

Your gf already answered the question for you.

 

[JEFF247]

He asked if HE was cheating. To be honest I wouldn't care. BUT I think if she prefers a man, then she's not into me. She has the option to have a female masseuse.

 

[alex52]

A good relationship survives on a need to know basis.
Too much honesty will destroy any relationship.

 

[wantoplay]

So i went rolling with some friends on friday, and ended up getting a super massage
by some random girl "hot" anyways it was amazing and when my girl heard about it she
flipped nuts and got on my case about it, it was just a massage and nothing went out of line...


"thank god at least"

Why did you tell her?? You have opened a can of worms here.....

 

[LKD]

hahahahaha a good question to ask on Terb where married men see different SPs nearly every other day.

Your wife/gf will probably never trust you ever again unless you have a good reason.

Everytime you head out alone, she'll be wondering

 

[hunter001]

So i went rolling with some friends on friday, and ended up getting a super massage
by some random girl "hot" anyways it was amazing and when my girl heard about it she
flipped nuts and got on my case about it, it was just a massage and nothing went out of line...


"thank god at least"

You pretty much fucked with "your girl". You better do some major damage control on the 14th. Still it is unlikely she will let it go...

As for is it cheating. Just like everything else... only if you get caught.

 

[wantoplay]

So i went rolling with some friends on friday, and ended up getting a super massage
by some random girl "hot" anyways it was amazing and when my girl heard about it she
flipped nuts and got on my case about it, it was just a massage and nothing went out of line...


"thank god at least"

i agree with others. You better do some damage control on Vals day. Or the end could be near. If you think the end is near, you may as well try and fuck all her hot friends before they find out... LOL!!

 

[amber-jade]

A good relationship survives on a need to know basis.
Too much honesty will destroy any relationship.

you don't SERIOUSLY believe that do you..?

one lie, covers another lie, covers another lie...etc etc etc. THAT kills relationships



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[seaniam]

Cheating is what ever your significant other thinks it is.


sean

 

[wantoplay]

you don't SERIOUSLY believe that do you..?

one lie, covers another lie, covers another lie...etc etc etc. THAT kills relationships



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BINGO!! Give the girl a Facial She hit the nail on the head with her post.

A can of worms has been opened. You better have a talk with her, a real serious one.

 

[toughb]

Some people have to learn to SHUT THE F*CK UP!!!!!

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Esco???

 

[Mencken]

So i went rolling with some friends on friday, and ended up getting a super massage
by some random girl "hot" anyways it was amazing and when my girl heard about it she
flipped nuts and got on my case about it, it was just a massage and nothing went out of line...


"thank god at least"

I'm not sure exactly what happened here...but it is not normal for a random girl to be giving you a massage. I'm sure that's what your girlfriend is thinking. You were either flirting and chasing, or she was flirting and chasing...and you let it happen. You might as well have fucked her...probably same outcome.

And that's about your only defense. That you could have done more...but refrained. And it probably won't work because it ended up with her hands all over you...and my guess is your hands all over her.

 

[The Bandit]

If another woman touched you naked...yes it's cheating.

 

[LKD]

often times .. when in doubt of something, all you need to do is ask yourself .....

"what if" every guy in the world went to get a massage? would most gf/wife think its OK or consider it as cheating?

like.... what is considered stealing? "what if" every guy in the world started stealing, would it be ok?

 

[Rockslinger]

Be careful here. Some ladies consider hugging another lady cheating and will set your privates on fire.

 

[Hangman]

Cheating is what ever your significant other thinks it is.


sean

I agree. If your definition and her definition don't match, you're with the wrong girl.

 

[alex52]

you don't SERIOUSLY believe that do you..?

one lie, covers another lie, covers another lie...etc etc etc. THAT kills relationships



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Jade: I said TOO much honesty, I didn't say lie all the time.
Do you want people to be 100% honest with you, 100% of the time. If so I think your feelings will be hurt quite often.
It's in the ambiguity of the English language and by remaining silent at crucial moments that relationships survive.
I like your posts on terb and may pluck up the courage to see you soon.