Infatuation / Falling Hard for an SP ...

[TheWheel]

I've got my own question ....

Has anyone ever fell completely, and unabashedly, in LOVE with an SP ?
Has the infatuation been so severe as to incompacitate you ?

Did you act on it ?

What about SP's ... have you ever had a client succumb to the overwhelming feeling of your presence ? Ever reciprocated ? What are the rules ?

Yes, it has happened to me ... there is an SP whom I have become completely, and unabashedly Infatuated with. I even tell myself I love her ... it is really fucking with my head !

 

[enduser1]

I've got my own question ....

Has anyone ever fell completely, and unabashedly, in LOVE with an SP ?
Has the infatuation been so severe as to incompacitate you ?

Did you act on it ?

What about SP's ... have you ever had a client succumb to the overwhelming feeling of your presence ? Ever reciprocated ? What are the rules ?

Yes, it has happened to me ... there is an SP whom I have become completely, and unabashedly Infatuated with. I even tell myself I love her ... it is really fucking with my head !

Oh Goody,

I am in love with these "I luv my SP threads". Please share the hot gossip. Who is it?

EU

 

[TheWheel]

Oh Goody,

I am in love with these "I luv my SP threads". Please share the hot gossip. Who is it? Really, it would be better than that horrid Paris Hilton. Any gossip would be better than Paris Hilton's crap.

EU

I sense some flippant attitude ... sorry to have wasted your time, eu.

 

[kramer]

I've got my own question ....

Has anyone ever fell completely, and unabashedly, in LOVE with an SP ?
Has the infatuation been so severe as to incompacitate you ?

Did you act on it ?

What about SP's ... have you ever had a client succumb to the overwhelming feeling of your presence ? Ever reciprocated ? What are the rules ?

Yes, it has happened to me ... there is an SP whom I have become completely, and unabashedly Infatuated with. I even tell myself I love her ... it is really fucking with my head !

See her again. Tell her. Then, depending on the reaction: 1) don't ever see her again; 2) see where it goes.

 

[Scarey]

Best Way

..ask her if she feels the same way ,and if she'll be your girl (stands back)

 

[petitelover]

I disagree. You have to get straight in your head that being an SP is a business for these girls and that is where it ends. Being nice to you, telling you whatever you want to hear, whether true or not, is part of the business. The end game for these girls is to get you hooked on them for repeat business, thats it. I am not saying it is not possible for a SP and client to fall for one another but the reality is it is the exception, not the rule. Someone said in another similar thread if money is not involved and she still wants to see you, then you may have something. 99% of the time if money is not around neither will the SP. Think long and hard on this post - it will save you a lot of heartache and money. Be guided accordingly.

 

[enduser1]

I disagree. You have to get straight in your head that being an SP is a business for these girls and that is where it ends. Being nice to you, telling you whatever you want to hear, whether true or not, is part of the business. The end game for these girls is to get you hooked on them for repeat business, thats it. I am not saying it is not possible for a SP and client to fall for one another but the reality is it is the exception, not the rule. Someone said in another similar thread if money is not involved and she still wants to see you, then you may have something. 99% of the time if money is not around neither will the SP. Think long and hard on this post - it will save you a lot of heartache and money. Be guided accordingly.

Yup,

That is a perfect summary of the accumulated wisdom. Maybe we should have a sort of perma post. "Don't fall in love with your SP", or something to that effect. Or maybe; a don't think with your little head, think with your big head, slogan etc. etc.

EU

 

[Maryln]

It happens all the time

Clients falling in love with SP's is a common thing. Usually it passes. Next time you see her tell her you could let yourself fall in love with her and wait for the response. It is very possible she feels the same way. It is also probable that she does'nt love you but does enjoy being with you. Escorting is indeed a business and if a lady enjoys being with the client it is a bonus. If not, well it is an hour and it passes. Only a girl with no consience would encourage the client knowing that it is going nowhere. It is also not uncommon for an SP to fall for a client. That also passes. Just my 2 cents, Maryln

 

[Dash]

Too simple, man.

Just ask her out. Straightforward, no beating around the bush ( to avoid any misunderstandings. )

Just communicate that you want to see her and that it won't mean by an hour rate reinbursement deal for her time.

Then stand back and be prepared for what answer she gives.

if its a yes. I'd like that... - then you're in

if its a no. I can't, sorry... - then its strictly about the money

Good luck.

 

[luv4lust]

be honest

it can happen
you can't pick who you fall in love with
hopefully you're both single
if it works all the best

 

[plunker]

Is New Years Eggy back? This should be fun to watch!

 

[petitelover]

..... Only a girl with no consience would encourage the client knowing that it is going nowhere. ......

I would argue there are far too many in this category than in the other both in the SP and SC world. Why just f*c* there bodies, f*cK their minds and the cash register will keep ringing - at least until they wake up and by that time the girls are laughing right to the bank.

 

[frankcastle]

I think it happens quite a bit and frankly I'm surprised when I don't see one of these threads from time to time.

First and foremost realize that what you are hoping for is unlikely at best.
Second be prepared that you may not see her again (if she's not into you she might not feel comfortable with you..... depends on the woman and the situation).
Third, ask her out and see what happens.
Fourth, don't put all your eggs (i.e. don't invest all your time and emotions into this SP since you don't know how she feels)
Fifth, evaluate the situation if it does progress to ensure that she's not leading you on (e.g. you're still paying to see her..... the classic definition of a client).
Finally, if she's not into you it's not the end of the world.

 

[jjkrszd]

I've got my own question ....

Has anyone ever fell completely, and unabashedly, in LOVE with an SP ?
Has the infatuation been so severe as to incompacitate you ?

Did you act on it ?

What about SP's ... have you ever had a client succumb to the overwhelming feeling of your presence ? Ever reciprocated ? What are the rules ?

Yes, it has happened to me ... there is an SP whom I have become completely, and unabashedly Infatuated with. I even tell myself I love her ... it is really fucking with my head !

be careful with escorts, chief. in all cases they're wonderful giving people, but that's also their job. things can become complicated quickly if you do hook up, and frankly, they usually have connections outside of the business that they keep a tight lid on. honestly, few people out there are really totally alone, especially attractive women -- give that some thought before you make your approach, and do be prepared for rejection. time is money to the ladies, so hit her with a civilian date, and see where things go.

 

[Bigbossfan]

Strongbeau...your compilation should be a sticky. There is a lot of useful info and experiences in there!

 

[benito]

Yes I did. She was a fantastic SP who treated me like a god. She was beautiful, smart, and I felt like I was the only person in the world when I was with her.
I started seeing her often. She was a fairly high priced SP and I went through a fair amount of money because I couldn't get enough of her.
I didn't say anything to her because I knew the idea of a personal relationship was unrealistic.
I also realized that what I was doing was self destructive and I just stopped seeing her. This all happened between 1998 and 2000. I still think about her often.

 

[LordLoki]

I've got my own question ....

Has anyone ever fell completely, and unabashedly, in LOVE with an SP ?
Has the infatuation been so severe as to incompacitate you ?

Did you act on it ?

Interesting question. I started investigating the hobby because I am completely emotionally unavailable for somewhere between 18 to 36 months and thought it would be much safer than risking going out socially with civilians. I enjoy the intensity and pleasures of being involved with a woman, but am unwilling to risk falling in love at this time.

I even focused my SP search on providers who would present a low risk of long term emotional entanglement. No I did not select ugly and boring women! Let me try and explain… I assume at least a few of you have met Amazon_Woman. I hope she forgives me for using her as an example of the women I have been avoiding. If you spend any time with her you discover she is exceptionally bright, filled with compassion and a deep understanding of people. Couple that with legs that go on for ever and eyes that a man could drown in and you have a nice package. Actually more than nice. Great shape. Exceptional smile. But, she is exactly the kind of woman I could see sharing my life in a few years. Even the right age. Well not really, much younger than I, but close enough that it would be borderline acceptable.

Really bad choice for me. I could see getting far to close to that kind of a woman. Have barely avoided winding up in bed with a few similar civilians in the last couple of years.

So what did I look for? A very young bright and energetic girl. I think I could be utterly completely involved and captivated by her for about a week before I would need to run away and have a nice long rest. Works out perfectly. I can spoil her shamelessly, I see life and new things through her eyes, and I have amazing physical fun. She gets to have a reasonably good time and gets paid. Pretty sure becoming friends is realistic. But no chance of a full blown love affair ever being contemplated.

I can however see the danger when both people in the same age group. So my response… Why spend time with an SP if you are not completely and unabashedly intoxicated by her? But recognize that adults control their intoxication. Both how often they do it, when they do it, and for how long.

 

[torontochris]

hahahahahaha

I sense some flippant attitude ... sorry to have wasted your time, eu.

somebodys sensitive!! dude, you totally asked for it.

but seriously, emotions are emotions.

happens to everyone, but try to think with your head.

 

[petitelover]

........
I didn't say anything to her because I knew the idea of a personal relationship was unrealistic.
I also realized that what I was doing was self destructive and I just stopped seeing her. This all happened between 1998 and 2000. I still think about her often.

You were smart enough to quit. Unfortunately, a lot of guys get in over their heads and want to keep it up. Mortgage the house, car, whatever until they are in way over their head. As I said, this is a business for these women and the more of a spell they can cast upon guys the better it is for their bank account. As cold as that is, it is reality and to think otherwise will only get you in trouble. I concede not all SP's would do this but I would argue most do.

 

[torontochris]

there you go, the litmus test

I disagree. You have to get straight in your head that being an SP is a business for these girls and that is where it ends. Being nice to you, telling you whatever you want to hear, whether true or not, is part of the business. The end game for these girls is to get you hooked on them for repeat business, thats it. I am not saying it is not possible for a SP and client to fall for one another but the reality is it is the exception, not the rule. Someone said in another similar thread if money is not involved and she still wants to see you, then you may have something. 99% of the time if money is not around neither will the SP. Think long and hard on this post - it will save you a lot of heartache and money. Be guided accordingly.

couldn't have said it better.

ask her if she'll see you for free, or don't give her money on a date. see if she calls back.

if she does, its love.

from experience, if you stop paying, she'll stop coming/calling, or you're stud of the year......