I'm a nice guy!!!

[Rockslinger]

Skaneateles? I always found they chlorinated the water they took from the lake so much that it tasted rather bad.

I was curious because I use to travel to NYC a lot and originally thought they took their water from the Hudson and/or East Rivers. Much to my relief I later found out that their water actually came from the Catskills.

 

[Shaunhorny]

not true...when we wake up from the ''bad boy trance''..

Even if this is true (and it's not always the case) - thing is, the bad boy has already had you. He had you when you were fresh out of the gate at the tender age of 18 until the time you 'woke up'. The "nice guy" is just getting sloppy 2nds, 3rds, 4ths, Lord knows how far down the line he really is (if a girl says she's slept with X number of guys multiply that by 9 for the true number). In other words, he's still finishing last haha. He's the second choice after the girl has been burned so many times by the bad boy that she wants some sense of security in a relationship. But don't forget that the bad boy often grows up or 'wakes up' too and eventually settles down with a wife, after years of glory. He's still the winner.

it's the ''nice guy'' who gets the entire package ....AND gets laid'' MORE '' than the bad boy ever did..

This claim is patently false.

 

[a 1 player]

Even if this is true (and it's not always the case) - thing is, the bad boy has already had you. He had you when you were fresh out of the gate at the tender age of 18 until the time you 'woke up'. The "nice guy" is just getting sloppy 2nds, 3rds, 4ths, Lord knows how far down the line he really is (if a girl says she's slept with X number of guys multiply that by 9 for the true number). In other words, he's still finishing last haha. He's the second choice after the girl has been burned so many times by the bad boy that she wants some sense of security in a relationship. But don't forget that the bad boy often grows up or 'wakes up' too and eventually settles down with a wife, after years of glory. He's still the winner.

Listen to yourself man.

Sloppy seconds, second choice, multiply by nine, winners, losers... Dude, THIS is the reason I am getting laid a hell of a lot in my personal life, and as a nice guy too. People like you are what makes it easy for a person like me to get laid, and I'm not just talking with the more mature ladies I'm meeting now, but the twenties and teens I was getting at that age too. If you really think that derogatory statements and generalizations are going to work for you, keep at it brother. I'll keep using my charm and wit, I know for a FACT that it works, and works well.

Question for you... How many times in the past year have you been laid by civilian ladies, ones you don't have to pay for? 5, 10? Not that many? I'm guessing not because I can clearly see you have no game. I'm not saying that I have a great deal of it myself, but at least I know the rules. The rules are simple, I even spelled them out in point form.

I am not the greatest looking guy out there, actually I look like a cross between a biker and a teddy bear. Shaved head, goatee, 5'10, 250 lbs., usually dressed in jeans and a collared shirt... Totally average in every way. To some ladies I'm attractive, to others I look scary, to some I'm a bad boy with a nice streak, to some I'm a nice guy with a touch of bad boy. Fact of the matter is I'm an average guy who has just learned the rules of the game, and in this game there are no winners and losers... Just people who get along, and people who don't. If you want ladies to like you, treat them with respect and nicely, but don't be a doormat. It really is that simple.

Show me a lady, (or a man for that matter), who wants to be used, treated like crap, abused, lied to... and I will either show you a liar, someone with no esteem, or someone who I would not want to meet in the first place.

 

[Angela@Mirage]

Whatever you say, amber.. Not to sound bitter, or anything.

That's another line you girls use that is %100 totally false. I dunno, maybe you think the guys on this forum are that gullible and dumb that they'll eat up that bullshiit.

You girls never wake up from the bad boy trance. No matter how much/many times you girls claim you're not into bad boys anymore.

I am one of those women who do not lust for the "Bad Boy" anymore. I am into men who treat me with respect. Sure, I love my Harleys, guys with tats, or whatever. At the end of the day, my SO is a man with brains and ambition. Your statement was a little off.

 

[Angela@Mirage]

Sorry I have to disagree. You can be "nice" and still have "an edge" Its 'the edge" the girls are attracted to, not someone being an asshole. I treat the ladies nicely and with respect, but they can still tell there is something about me that has an aura of confidence and a "don't fuck with me" attitude.
Its huge confidence and being able to take charge while still treating them nicely that turns girls on. At least any girl worth wanting.

Of course there are always mental conditions that make people do things we will never understand.
r

Exactly.

 

[tboy]

Sorry I have to disagree. You can be "nice" and still have "an edge" Its 'the edge" the girls are attracted to, not someone being an asshole. I treat the ladies nicely and with respect, but they can still tell there is something about me that has an aura of confidence and a "don't fuck with me" attitude.
Its huge confidence and being able to take charge while still treating them nicely that turns girls on. At least any girl worth wanting.

Of course there are always mental conditions that make people do things we will never understand.
r

Ah this thread again. Always enjoy these lol....

A buddy of mine summed it up perfectly:

Women want a hell's angel biker in looks and size but they also want him to be gay. In essence: they want him to be rough and bad on the outside but know what towels to use and for him to cry when the dog gets it in a movie.

Amber: yes things are worth waiting for but what would have happened if you HADN'T come around after 10 yrs? He would have wasted 1/4 of his life waiting.....sorry, life's too short to wait that long. It's not like he can get those years back.

 

[Tiffany_69]

Words, no man wants to hear. I did a favor for a girl I am interested in. After I surprised her with this favor, she said I was a "nice guy". Was that the kiss of death? Should I look somewhere else for love?

No Nice guys are the best. Now of course if they come in a bad boy wrapper Yum yum.

 

[a 1 player]

Ah this thread again. Always enjoy these lol....

A buddy of mine summed it up perfectly:

Women want a hell's angel biker in looks and size but they also want him to be gay. In essence: they want him to be rough and bad on the outside but know what towels to use and for him to cry when the dog gets it in a movie.

LMAO, but there is a great deal of truth to that statement.

 

[Angela@Mirage]

This is why A1 is a stand-up guy.

 

[Tiffany_69]

LMAO, but there is a great deal of truth to that statement.

lol yes there is.

 

[Mikehorn]

Ah this thread again. Always enjoy these lol....

Ya, me too. Where's MLAM on this one anyway?

 

[Angela@Mirage]

Even if this is true (and it's not always the case) - thing is, the bad boy has already had you. He had you when you were fresh out of the gate at the tender age of 18 until the time you 'woke up'. The "nice guy" is just getting sloppy 2nds, 3rds, 4ths, Lord knows how far down the line he really is (if a girl says she's slept with X number of guys multiply that by 9 for the true number). In other words, he's still finishing last haha. He's the second choice after the girl has been burned so many times by the bad boy that she wants some sense of security in a relationship. But don't forget that the bad boy often grows up or 'wakes up' too and eventually settles down with a wife, after years of glory. He's still the winner.




This claim is patently false.

If this is the case, I am up shit creek without a paddle!

 

[a 1 player]

This is why A1 is a stand-up guy.

Thank you for the kind words.

 

[tboy]

Change your criteria and you will find one. If you keep looking for the same qualities, you will find the same man. Or to put it another way, you reap what you sow.

Don't be calling her a sow.....you bad boy you! lol.....

As for Mlame, he'll be along shortly with his stories of sexual prowess and his undying and much adored woman getting abilities with the homely women of the world......

 

[Angela@Mirage]

Thank you for the kind words.

Just speaking the truth.

 

[Rockslinger]

with the homely women of the world......

Did you mean "homely" or "comely"?

 

[Corey]

Great plan of action! Seems to me the last man I said that to tumbled and twisted the sheets with me until 6:30 in the morning after 6 weeks of being funny, reliable, and keeping me guessing. If you ask him.....the best night of my life.

As for me, I still think he is a nice guy and now I'm hoping a FWB...

Best,
Reagan Levy

Good luck with him!

 

[Tiffany_69]

HARD to find

i neva met a nice guy ;-( yet






















oh fucc edit i m such a liar .... i met plenty .... cant stand them lol i want a bad boy....luv a challenge

LMAo yes the bad boys are fun.

 

[alu1]

treating the lady well and with respect is a quality that all men should have. at least that is what i always aim for. the "nice guy" thing had been discussed many times before and i think being too reserved and not speaking one's mind is the biggest reason why people say "nice guys always finish last", a little perspective change like not being too reserved and really talk and know the girl will do some good and break the cycle. you never know, maybe you will finish first. i am no expert at it, but thats my thinking anyways. =)

 

[seaniam]

All women like power and status in their men it really comes down to a question of what definition of power and status they are willing to settle for.


sean