I'm a nice guy!!!

JEFF247

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Words, no man wants to hear. I did a favor for a girl I am interested in. After I surprised her with this favor, she said I was a "nice guy". Was that the kiss of death? Should I look somewhere else for love?
 
JEFF247 said:
Words, no man wants to hear. I did a favor for a girl I am interested in. After I surprised her with this favor, she said I was a "nice guy". Was that the kiss of death? Should I look somewhere else for love?

I hear that all the time. Sometimes I get lots of different kisses than death.
 
Do or say something funny or obnoxious.

Even if you are a nice guy, you want to keep her guessing.

Otherwise, she'll think you're good ol' nice and reliable which often translates to nice and dull.
 
Well not for me.

" nice guy" ... I hear that all the time..... & in my couple of groupings of people I am social & friendly & "one of the gang". But yes .... I think it is the kiss of death ....for now & maybe forever. Just keep an eye out for hints of interest .... but right now show non yourself & don't hope things will change. Keep your eyes peeled for other potential interests that may come along.... don't have tunnel vision & miss future opportunities. :cool:
 
viking1965 said:
Nice guys don't ALWAYS finish last.....but they rarely get laid either.
not true...when we wake up from the ''bad boy trance''..
it's the ''nice guy'' who gets the entire package ....AND gets laid'' MORE '' than the bad boy ever did..
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amber-jade said:
not true...when we wake up from the ''bad boy trance''..
it's the ''nice guy'' who gets the entire package ....AND gets laid'' MORE '' than the bad boy ever did..
...;)



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Whatever you say, amber.. Not to sound bitter, or anything.

That's another line you girls use that is %100 totally false. I dunno, maybe you think the guys on this forum are that gullible and dumb that they'll eat up that bullshiit.

You girls never wake up from the bad boy trance. No matter how much/many times you girls claim you're not into bad boys anymore.
 
Shit...this thread could written by me....story of my life.

We try too hard to please...maybe that's the downfall.

:o
 
Terminator2000 said:
Whatever you say, amber.. Not to sound bitter, or anything.
That's another line you girls use that is %100 totally false. I dunno, maybe you think the guys on this forum are that gullible and dumb that they'll eat up that bullshiit.
You girls never wake up from the bad boy trance. No matter how much/many times you girls claim you're not into bad boys anymore.
sorry life has left you bitter like that sweety

but why would i say a line to the guys on this forum like that...
terb is the LAST place ''gullible'' fits as a discription for it's members..

like i said (many times in the past as well)
my ''nice guy'' and i where best friends for 10 years before we even kissed.
now we are a couple...and i turned HIM into a bad boy...
:)


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JEFF247 said:
She did also say that I made her day. I focused on the "nice guy" coment. I went out of my way. I see her once a week. I live in NY and she lives in NF Canada.

Isn't that a bit of a long distance relationship? Dude, long distance relationships rarely work.

If she lived in the same city. I would tell you to tell her you're seeing other girls - and see if she gets jealous and tries harder to keep you. If she complains or fights with you, argues with you about seeing other girls. Then you know she cares and is interested in you. If she doesn't complain/fight/argue with you about it. Then you know your answer.
 
amber-jade said:
sorry life has left you bitter like that sweety

but why would i say a line to the guys on this forum like that...
terb is the LAST place ''gullible'' fits as a discription for it's members..

like i said (many times in the past as well)
my ''nice guy'' and i where best friends for 10 years before we even kissed.
now we are a couple...and i turned HIM into a bad boy...
:)
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A guy is not going to wait 10 years before he gets a kiss from a girl.

Any guy who says he's willing to wait 10 years to get a kiss from a girl is the biggest loser imaginable.
 
asn said:
why would a "nice" guy allow himself to be her second choice as in "i'll have fun with this guy now but when i'm ready to settle down i'll chose you." she can't have her cake and eat it too.

love is love...what can we do about it...?

it's not like girls plan things the way you just discribed ....
on the same note ,aren't the best things in life WORTH waiting for ??



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What is a nice guy?

-Treats women with respect
-Does not treat them like an object
-Listens to what they have to say
-Shows emotion
-Uses manners
-Treats her like a woman

It is NOT:

-A wimp
-A pushover
-Indecisive
-Codependent
-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

See the difference
 
Terminator2000 said:
A guy is not going to wait 10 years before he gets a kiss from a girl.

Any guy who says he's willing to wait 10 years to get a kiss from a girl is the biggest loser imaginable.

do your knuckles drag on the ground when you walk ?? :rolleyes:



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amber-jade said:
..and I turned HIM into a bad boy...

Bad bad girl, you corrupted the morals of an adult.

Seriously, I think that girls are attracted to bad boys and boys are attracted to bad girls (like moths to a flame).