I'm a nice guy!!!

[Rockslinger]

...... OK but I now realize mine is on Mars. Esp. being 5'5".

Don't feel bad. I briefly dated this 5'3" dancer and she said I am short. (I am 5'11".) I asked her what is tall. She said 6'3". I do agree that 6'3" is tall but didn't think 5'11" is short.

Have you thought about dating Asian women? Very few Asian women are over 6' tall.

 

[wantoplay]

Why do so many white guys prefer Asian ladies? Because they treat the man with respect and don't take him for granted.

Yes!! I also hate the whole "Control Freak I own you attitude..." That makes me sick.

 

[JEFF247]

I agree with the above, but might be guilty of :

-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

Problem?

 

[wantoplay]

I agree with the above, but might be guilty of :

-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

Problem?

That, I DO NOT DO!! I treat the way I want to be treated, with respect, but somehow seem to find the ones who take the I own you attitude.

 

[JEFF247]

Ask her out?

Stop being a goddamn liberal and just ask her out

I plan to. But Valentines day is just two weeks away. To much pressure!!!

 

[wantoplay]

I plan to. But Valentines day is just two weeks away. To much pressure!!!

What about waiting till after Valentines day?? Me, I never get involved around sentimental holidays, just because I find the "needy clingy I need to be with someone" girls are on the prowl for those days. And those are the ones that end quick.

I am not the "Needy Clingy Cannot be single" type.

 

[Aardvark154]

I plan to. But Valentines day is just two weeks away. To much pressure!!!

I agree that asking someone out for a first date on Valentines Day isn't a very good idea.

 

[JEFF247]

..exactly!!

What about waiting till after Valentines day?? Me, I never get involved around sentimental holidays, just because I find the "needy clingy I need to be with someone" girls are on the prowl for those days. And those are the ones that end quick.

I am not the "Needy Clingy Cannot be single" type.

My thoughts exactly!!

 

[LKD]

If you're looking for a long term relation with one girl, being called a nice guy is what you want.

But if you want a quick lay, or be a player among women, being called a bad boy is the way to go i guess.

 

[capncrunch]

I agree with the above, but might be guilty of :

-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

Problem?

Huge problem.

Trust me on this; been there, done that, bought the t-shirt, wore the sucker threadbare.

Don't. Just don't.

 

[a 1 player]

I plan to. But Valentines day is just two weeks away. To much pressure!!!

Pressure?!?! You have got to be kidding me, what pressure are you talking about? Would you rather her be YOUR valentine or someone elses? He who hesitates loses, that I can say for sure.

I agree with the above, but might be guilty of :

-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

Problem?

Totally dependent on the woman, but for the most pasrt yes I would think so. A woman is not a goddess to be worshiped, in the same way a man is not. By doing these things one can come across as needy and co-dependent, which I am assuming you are not. Treating her well is one thing, making her the center of your universe is something else entirely. I know that for myself, I would not want to be in this position, so it makes sense to me that others would not want to either.

 

[JEFF247]

Yeah...

Pressure?!?! You have got to be kidding me, what pressure are you talking about? Would you rather her be YOUR valentine or someone elses? He who hesitates loses, that I can say for sure.

Yeah, that too!!

 

[wantoplay]

Pressure?!?! You have got to be kidding me, what pressure are you talking about? Would you rather her be YOUR valentine or someone elses? He who hesitates loses, that I can say for sure.

A first date on Valentines day - NEVER. IMHO, that would be like getting married on the first date. Valentines day seems to have a different meaning for Men then it does Women.

That is pressure. A first date is one of the getting to know you and see if there could be more thing.

I would let her know your interested NOW, don't wait because women don't seem to like too wait too long.

Take it from there.

 

[a 1 player]

A first date on Valentines day - NEVER. IMHO, that would be like getting married on the first date. Valentines day seems to have a different meaning for Men then it does women.

That is pressure. A first date is one of the getting to know you and see if there could be more thing.

I would let her know your interested NOW, don't wait because women don't seem to like too wait too long.

Take it from there.

I am not saying to make valentines a first date, just not to wait for 2 weeks until it is over.

 

[wantoplay]

I am not saying to make valentines a first date, just not to wait for 2 weeks until it is over.

I agree 100%. Let her know now!!

 

[JEFF247]

I agree!!

I agree 100%. Let her know now!!

I agree. I'm glad we had this talk. Thanks, I'll keep you posted.

 

[a 1 player]

I agree. I'm glad we had this talk. Thanks, I'll keep you posted.

Good luck brother, you have made a wise decision.

 

[Rockslinger]

Maybe us nice guys should form a nice guy support group. Help each other other out. Bad boys need not apply.

 

[a 1 player]

Maybe us nice guys should form a nice guy support group. Help each other other out. Bad boys need not apply.

You really need support to be who you are?

 

[alexmst]

If you have a man eating cat you need "Catskills".

No, I live near the Finger Lakes between Rochester and Syracuse, so we get our water from one of the Finger Lakes.

Skaneateles? I used to spend a lot of time there - I always found they chlorinated the water they took from the lake so much that it tasted rather bad. Maybe they don't do that anymore. Syracuse used to take a lot of water from Skaneateles Lake too as I recall.