I'm a nice guy!!!

amber-jade said:
do your knuckles drag on the ground when you walk ?? :rolleyes:



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Nope.

But apparently, you think every guy's knuckles drag around when they walk..

if you're telling guys that if they wait 10 years - it'll eventually happen.
 
Terminator2000 said:
Nope.

But apparently, you think every guy's knuckles drag around when they walk..

if you're telling guys that if they wait 10 years - it'll eventually happen.
ok zogg, whatever you say... :rolleyes:



edit: i think you fully understand what i was trying to say...i am glad you are voicing your opinion , isn't it a wonderful thing
sorry about the ''zogg'' thing...but i left it on anyway





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I may try something around Valentines day, but that could be a disaster if it goes wrong!!

The bad boy thing might be a little over played, but I sure do see a lot of shitty relationships out there. So I think a relationship like ours might be the exception. We laugh and have a great time together. She even commented that people have asked whether we were dating.
 
JEFF247 said:
I may try something around Valentines day, but that could be a disaster if it goes wrong!!

The bad boy thing might be a little over played, but I sure do see a lot of shitty relationships out there. So I think a relationship like ours might be the exception. We laugh and have a great time together. She even commented that people have asked whether we were dating.
So, make a move and ask her out for what is obviously a date, I tend to agree with Jade on this point.

Her thinking that you aren't a jerk - isn't necessarly a bad thing.

Another point given that Jade is a woman - amazingly enough she just might be a bit more in tune with "women" than we guys.
 
When I was 24 years old, this older 25 year old woman in my office had a bit of a crush on me. One day she asked me to help her move. I said I can't because I had a tennis game that night. She then asked whether tennis was more important than her. Not wanting to be taken for granted, I said it wouldn't be fair to the other person to cancel and we had already booked a court.
The next morning I asked her how the move went. She said it went fine except the guy (someone named Jeff) who helped her move got hurt. Apparently, her stupid cat hid between the radiator and the wall. Jeff reached in to fetch the cat and the beast tore his arm to shreds. Meanwhile, I had a really great tennis match and won too.
 
asn said:
always listen to sex advice from a woman. :D just not about dating.
I disagree, though every woman is different, many of them want the same things when it comes to dating. Listening to what woman want is a very good idea.

This is what I believe to hold true...

Most women want a nice guy... with and edge.
 
a 1 player said:
What is a nice guy?

-Treats women with respect
-Does not treat them like an object
-Listens to what they have to say
-Shows emotion
-Uses manners
-Treats her like a woman

It is NOT:

-A wimp
-A pushover
-Indecisive
-Codependent
-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

See the difference

I agree totally. Got so sick and tired of the BS over here, I have decided to look over seas for some one. EE/Asians, who actually appreciate the quaitites listed in the top group.
 
wantoplay said:
EE/Asians, who actually appreciate the quaitites listed in the top group.

Why do so many white guys prefer Asian ladies? Because they treat the man with respect and don't take him for granted.
 
I guess I am a little confused. I like her very much and would love to date her and learn more about her. Maybe more than any girl I can remember. I am single and wonder if I could just be with one girl. I have dated a lot of women, especially younger, that haven't worked out. The only reason I mention the "younger" part is that people would say, how can you date a girl that much younger. I always say, because we have fun!!! Sure I realize it will end. Maybe that's what I want? This girl I am talking about now is my age. I really like her a lot though. This has been great though. Thanks for all the advice.
 
Jeff, whatever you do, don't help her move, especially if she has a man eating cat.
Forget the girl for a moment. Do you folks in upstate New York get your drinking water from the Catskills?
 
Asian women

Rockslinger said:
Why do so many white guys prefer Asian ladies? Because they treat the man with respect and don't take him for granted.

Personally, I like a girl with a little fight in her. Willing to tell me to fuck off if I act like a jerk. I rarely do, but I like that dynamic. I used to spend 2-3 months in the Far East on business. The women were nice, but just not my type.
 
Catskills?

Rockslinger said:
Jeff, whatever you do, don't help her move, especially if she has a man eating cat.
Forget the girl for a moment. Do you folks in upstate New York get your drinking water from the Catskills?

If you have a man eating cat you need "Catskills".

No, I live near the Finger Lakes between Rochester and Syracuse, so we get our water from one of the Finger Lakes.
 
JEFF247 said:
I guess I am a little confused. I like her very much and would love to date her and learn more about her. Maybe more than any girl I can remember. I am single and wonder if I could just be with one girl. I have dated a lot of women, especially younger, that haven't worked out. The only reason I mention the "younger" part is that people would say, how can you date a girl that much younger. I always say, because we have fun!!! Sure I realize it will end. Maybe that's what I want? This girl I am talking about now is my age. I really like her a lot though. This has been great though. Thanks for all the advice.
It depends more on what the two of you think about your relationship, than with what others think about your relationship.

That said, for me I believe the line comes when instead of people saying "wow, what a lucky man he is to have a wife like that, instead they say, Good Lord, that's his wife, I thought she was his daughter."
 
a 1 player said:
What is a nice guy?

-Treats women with respect
-Does not treat them like an object
-Listens to what they have to say
-Shows emotion
-Uses manners
-Treats her like a woman

It is NOT:

-A wimp
-A pushover
-Indecisive
-Codependent
-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

See the difference
Boy doesn't the above put it well!
 
I tend to agree with Terminator2000.....

I am 44 , considered attractive, nice, fairly well off..... & no interest. Amber Jade is like many women in a relationship that say all these things about me . They hold this very idealistic view which often is .... there is someone for everyone...... OK but I now realize mine is on Mars. Esp. being 5'5". Not known any friends who even know any ladies attracted to short nice guys.I am treated like 1 of the girls. They have 0 sexual attraction except 2 ladies in my life who were 6' & really .... they were a little wackey & 1 had a drug problem .... which I will not tolerate.... I may be short but I have self respect!:cool:
 
And I haven't persued these. I just seem to run into them. When I was 38 I was dating a 19 year old. I met her because she interviewed to be my secretary. Even though all the guys wanted me to hire her because she was hot, I took the high road and promoted from within. The 19yo hot girl did mention she wanted to date me to some friends of mine, so we did. That's more of how it happens. I don't hang around local colleges!!!
 
Well Said!

a 1 player said:
What is a nice guy?

-Treats women with respect
-Does not treat them like an object
-Listens to what they have to say
-Shows emotion
-Uses manners
-Treats her like a woman

It is NOT:

-A wimp
-A pushover
-Indecisive
-Codependent
-Puts her on a pedestal
-Treats her like a princess

See the difference

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