If you could go back in time, would you still have started hobbying?

[hipjdog]

Knowing what you know now, with the experiences you’ve had and the money you’ve spent in total, if you could go back before your first SP would you still do it all again?

Pros: opportunity to see women you’d never normally see in your normal life. Incredible memories. Amazing experiences in the moment.

Con: the funds you’ve spent could be spent on…anything else! Plus always the health risks.

Your thoughts?

 

[Ogremagi]

I’d do it all again and I actually hope I’d started sooner.

Pros: I stopped being being a desperate simp cause I know I have hobbying as an alternative. Sure I’m paying for intimacy but isn’t it the same with dating (pay her attention, money, time and effort). Messed up comparison I know but oh well.

Cons: Goes against my values. Also, expensive but money can be earned while the missed opportunities to see some ladies will never comeback.

 

[Ufcfanz]

I just wish i would have hobbied alot earlier like early 20s and knowing what i do now i would have had a blast.

 

[jymondor]

Yes. Hobbying keeps me being younger.

I am 61. At this age, most of many men do not care how they look. Because of the hobby, I keep carrying of myself, grooming, trying to look better. People who don’t know my actual age believe that I am in my mid-late forties.

 

[TheDreamer]

Totally. I love it. I have met some great ladies that I developed personal relationships with.
The hobby can be very fulfilling and satisfying. I love being with young hot women. Pay my bill and leave.
Only thing I would do differently is cut of the crazies that caused me drama way earlier and not role the dice with backpage. Stick to reputable agencies only and that’s that.
If you are spending yourself to oblivion, that might be a different problem. It not the necessarily the hobby.
Self-checks are important.

 

[ramblin]

My marriage ended up being sexless and cost me a heck of a lot more than this hobby. So, knowing what I know now, I would have skipped the marriage and started hobbying much earlier.

 

[RSA69]

In a heartbeat I have loved every minute of it…

 

[poker]

Nope.

 

[bazokajoe]

would have never started. Although I don't hobby much anyways. Since this pandemic started I have seen 2 ladies.
To me this hobby just doesn't do it for me anymore. Found other interests to occupy my time.

 

[NotADcotor]

If I could go back in time I would have married the one who got away 30 years ago, so no hobby for me.

 

[Pyyroh]

It's a hard question for me. I was very shy and didn't really talk to women before hobbying. I think all the risks taken from shady backpage ads help build my confidence and being a regular to different SPs truly helped my conversational skills (and also my sexual experience) but what had also happened is my addiction to the hobby. For years I was making decent amount money but not enough to support my "addiction" and I found myself spending over a thousand dollars a month when I was bringing in 5000 a month. I'm not in a relationship nor do I have kids so my budget it pretty flexible but as I get older it feels hard to try to take time away from the hobby when I always get the urge to see a lady especially how easy it is with agencies. I appreciate all the experiences I've had bad and good, but I don't know what kind of person I would've been if I never started hobbying. Keep in mind I am 27 (very young I know) and I started when I was 19 because I couldn't get laid. Also, kind of related to this topic: have anyone of you guys ever became a regular of someone for years and developed feelings for them? I'm pretty good at " letting my feelings out in a rubber" but there's one that I've gotten to know really well to the point that we spend most of the time talking and end up thi king about her all the time despite her "job" I even find myself tipping her every visit and I guess I'm just a "simp" but I'd love to hear some of yalls experiences and opinions.

 

[swood]

I would have started earlier

 

[bazokajoe]

It's a hard question for me. I was very shy and didn't really talk to women before hobbying. I think all the risks taken from shady backpage ads help build my confidence and being a regular to different SPs truly helped my conversational skills (and also my sexual experience) but what had also happened is my addiction to the hobby. For years I was making decent amount money but not enough to support my "addiction" and I found myself spending over a thousand dollars a month when I was bringing in 5000 a month. I'm not in a relationship nor do I have kids so my budget it pretty flexible but as I get older it feels hard to try to take time away from the hobby when I always get the urge to see a lady especially how easy it is with agencies. I appreciate all the experiences I've had bad and good, but I don't know what kind of person I would've been if I never started hobbying. Keep in mind I am 27 (very young I know) and I started when I was 19 because I couldn't get laid. Also, kind of related to this topic: have anyone of you guys ever became a regular of someone for years and developed feelings for them? I'm pretty good at " letting my feelings out in a rubber" but there's one that I've gotten to know really well to the point that we spend most of the time talking and end up thi king about her all the time despite her "job" I even find myself tipping her every visit and I guess I'm just a "simp" but I'd love to hear some of yalls experiences and opinions.

"letting my feelings out in a rubber" that's hilarious.
But back to your question about feelings and experiences.
I always look forward to seeing whom ever I book and enjoy our time together, but once the deed is done and I leave I always have this empty feeling of "that was a waste of time and money. I don't know why because the next day I'll start thinking about who to see next and when. I can't make heads or tails of it.
Never really had "feelings" for any SP's, but had some crushes on a few strippers. They never materialized to anything.
I've pretty much left the hobby. The pandemic has been a blessing that way. My attention is now on other hobbies I got away from like woodworking and golf to mention a few. .

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Started pretty early. No regrets. Life taught me I wasn't top shelf. Went the conventional route. Long dry spells. Live in relationships that went on for years with no sex. (my choice) Went through a renaissance period later in life. Read a quote. "Got tired of watching porn. Wanted to do it myself" Later in life, met some legendary women who aren't around anymore. Had 10 years of great recreational sex. Now not so much. Women all gone. Pooning gave me a sex life which I think would be the envy of me had I not done it. Nothing negative to say about it . Except it is kind of over. My fave went religious. Actually she has come to terms with it to some extent and allows a bit of relief. But fucking strangers seems a little passé now.

 

[LukeG]

I would have started earlier.

 

[Beagle_]

Id go back in time and fuck all the good ones over and over gain.

 

[Itssean2020]

I would say I am in the wish I started earlier camp. In my 20's it was more just wow I cant believe I can do this and enjoyed the variety of girls I could meet that I otherwise could/would not have. In my 30's now and I find I prefer an intelligent conversation and connection more than the physical act itself. I would have started earlier because its not just a physical release, but a mental one where for the most part your not being judged and don't have to worry about your real inner circle finding out your true thoughts about things. In addition, dating is atrocious in 2021 and there's nothing better than to have a nice date with NO drama or misunderstandings at the end of a hard work week.

Pros: Able to see girls that normally wouldn't even look twice at you. Have someone you can talk to about anything that doesn't affect your personal circle. Oh and did I forget to mention the SKILLS!

Cons: I dont think money is a con, either way you pay for it in time, money, or your mental health. The con for me is the GFE/PSE offerings by some SP's is so convincing nowadays it distorts my expectations from regular civilian girls. When you've been deepthroated by the best, requests met with enthusiasm, and fucked by a pro. Its hard to expect a regular girl to be able to bring the same level. Hopefully shes willing to try

 

[rhuarc29]

Definitely. Just wish I could do it with the knowledge of who I wouldn't want to see a second time, and who I'd want to see many more times than I actually got a chance to!

 

[tonnyandreti]

would have never started. Although I don't hobby much anyways. Since this pandemic started I have seen 2 ladies.
To me this hobby just doesn't do it for me anymore. Found other interests to occupy my time.

Do share what hobbies did you find.

 

[anon1]

no
it's been too costly, financially and emotionally.