I guess I am a player

[a 1 player]

Never really thought of myself as one, but last night out of the blue I called the ex/gf up, sweet talked her a bit and preceeded to seduce her. You know, I actually feel a little guilty about it. As far as I was concerned it was no strings attached. I thought I made my point entirely clear. When we were done she says to me:

Her: What are you going to tell the girl you are seeing?
Me: You're kidding me right?
Her: She has a right to know.
Me: She doesn't need to know shit.
Her: You should not keep secrets from your partner.
Me: Woah, hold on, lectures are not included with the sex, you are taking the fun away.
Her: So does this mean you do not want to get back together with me?
Me: (sigh) Fuuuuccckkk. I had better take you home.
Her: Now I feel cheap.
Me: That was not my intention.
Her: What was then?
Me: Fuck, I knew this would be a mistake.
Her: Why did you do it then?
Me: You mean, why did WE do it?
Her: I know why I did it, I want you back.
Me: (sigh) Fuuuuccckkk. I had better take you home.

***Extremely condensed version***

Crying ensues, now I feel like a piece of shit. She should have known better, if anyone remembers, it was her who caught me in bed with the other woman last time, she was the one who threw the breakfast sauages and coffee all over my room. I never learn. On the bright side. The sex was FANTASTIC!!!

 

[papasmerf]

frakly I did not enjoy it.

 

[Mongrel4u]

If you play.. make sure the person you play with is onboard

 

[a 1 player]

If you play.. make sure the person you play with is onboard

Dude, I so thought I did.

 

[Mongrel4u]

ok... why dont you post the exchange of words that actually got you in bed with her.

You're right, sometimes girls only see and hear what they want and then pull a "jack in the box" on you later and plead "deception" or "ignorance"..but then again you may have also made an error when communicating with her....

 

[Mongrel4u]

I've lost opportunities by being honest, maybe too honest, but I don't like to play someone just to sleep with them, if you can believe that. I guess I'm more virtuous than JFK.

But the opportunities that remain after being honest are quality though arent they.

 

[basketcase]

If you were a real player, you wouldn't have had that conversation.

 

[papasmerf]

I've lost opportunities by being honest, maybe too honest, but I don't like to play someone just to sleep with them, if you can believe that. I guess I'm more virtuous than JFK.

You sure you are a Kennedy?????????

Hell I think Teddy would kick your ass for saying that...............and never spill his scotch.

 

[chazz_matzz]

I had a similar experience with my exwife recently....she assumed that the sex meant I was still interested.....

It was ridiculous because we actually talked about it being "no strings"

Women are all crazy!

 

[MissCroft]

I had a similar experience with my exwife recently....she assumed that the sex meant I was still interested.....

It was ridiculous because we actually talked about it being "no strings"

Women are all crazy!

I've had the same experience with two of my exes - so it's not just women that are crazy!

 

[a 1 player]

Who should have known better???
You my friend....it is YOU who should know better!!!

You are correct sir.

 

[a 1 player]

ok... why dont you post the exchange of words that actually got you in bed with her.

Me: Damn I want to fuck you girl.
Her: You're drunk.
Me: Only a bit.
Her: You're not thinking straight.
Me: Probably not, but I still want to fuck the shit out of you.

***a 1 player then grabs her breast***

***Or something along those lines***

So people of TERB, where does any of this imply RELATIONSHIP!!!

Ok, not too polite, but hey, at least I spoke the truth.

 

[viciouscycle]

Happens.
Sometimes we just want things/people that we can't or shouldn't.
Look at it this way, you stand your ground and you likely won't get back together and that would be the last time you guys get together.
With wives and GFs, you play you pay. Unlike with SPs, you pay then you play.

 

[Mongrel4u]

Happens.
Sometimes we just want things/people that we can't or shouldn't.
Look at it this way, you stand your ground and you likely won't get back together and that would be the last time you guys get together.
With wives and GFs, you play you pay. Unlike with SPs, you pay then you play.

ok.. then she pulled the switcheroo on you. Why the fuck do women do this?

 

[stang]

If she's that easy...
Give me her number, let me try her.

 

[a 1 player]

If she's that easy...
Give me her number, let me try her.

What makes you think she is easy?

 

[stang]

Well okay, maybe I'll change that to niave?
She seemed that way from your description and her interpretation of the "event"

 

[2SOON JR]

u r "a 1 Playa"

 

[a 1 player]

I ask, does someone say "I wanna fuck the shit out of you" when they are looking for a relationship?!?!?! Not in my world.

 

[El_Cid]

You said : "I want to fuck the shit out of you"
She heard: "I love you, I always have, you are my soul mate. You. Complete. Me"
You said: "I'm drunk"
She heard: "I am a lowlife when you're not around, can you please fix me"

Dude, we've all been there. (I Think) mine was an EX who initiated the sex and then thought she had me back.

Then again I've heard from girls' whose EX's are just as nutty as we think some women are. These guys toe the line of stalking very regularly.