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I am genuinely interested in finding a wife. Where do I look?

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I didn't realize how old this thread was until reading through some of the pages. Looks like it started in May of 2004. I guess the starter of this thread doesn't lurk TERB anymore...perhpaps he has found someone. Good luck. :D
 

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PHNINE said:
I didn't realize how old this thread was until reading through some of the pages. Looks like it started in May of 2004. I guess the starter of this thread doesn't lurk TERB anymore...perhpaps he has found someone. Good luck.
Actually I wouldn't mind if he does comeback and tell us the truth. Maybe he just came on board for the magic pill. In the end I hope he logs in and gives us an updated report because this thread keeps popping up once a month and it getting on my nerves.

The next poster should be Poorboy.

I guess it is true what I heard. At some certain age you start to go nuts becase you dont' have mate or someone to be with. But this could also be many things such desperation, lonelyness, financial gain, conformity, peer pressure and my favourite: he did it so should I.

POORBOY said:
I am genuinely interested in finding a wife. Where do I look?
I've tried lavalife, but I don't get any responses because I am 5'7", 150lbs and asian. The criteria for males seems to be a minimum of 5'10", 160lbs and caucasian.

I have been a member of lifemates for three years, and they have not found me a match. I also took horseback riding lessons for almost two years because of the high female/male ratio, but all that happened was that I got really good at riding a horse.

What can I do?
 

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He's around, he posted yesterday.
 

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baci2004 said:
He's around, he posted yesterday.
Then someone should send him a PM to post here with an update. No excuses, and no crying like a baby.

It is ammazing the amount of people that post for help but never give and update. I am specially referring to ... "I am going an island and just got divorced, where can I get some action or what is the action like?"

Well the action would have been alot better on your pocket if you had taken care of your own backyard first.
 

PHNINE

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Exactly..I mean if you are going to seek help here, and then receive the amount attention as this thread did, I think he owes it to the TERBites that contributed to at least provide an update. Hopefully he has found someone. If not, perhaps I can provide some assistance as I wasn't around when this thread started.

If I had the time for a GF, I would have one, but I just don't have the time aside from work and travel. That is why I hobby. Is he tired of hobbying? Is that possible? :D
 

CocoCat

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WTF are you thinking?

Why???? How old are you?

What type of woman are you looking for? A Caucasian?

Forget about having a Caucasian loving an Asian man....unless you are quite endowed and you don't mind she's losing her beauty faster than her Asian counterparts.
Why wouldn't a Caucasian woman love an Asian man?!?!?

My husband is Chinese. I am not. He's also over 6' and 185 lbs. I am not.

None of his cousins (female & male) have married Chinese. All their spouses are white. That's about 10 or 12 cousins (that I know of-big family).

You marry someone not because how they look but how they treat you.
 

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There Are Ways To Compensate

I do agree with the posters who say that height is a big asset in terms of attracting women, but there are ways to compensate for being vertically challenged. Do you guys remember a guy called Trudeau? The man was not good looking and people who have met him tell me he was shorter than 5' 7'' (which was the height that the biographies claim as his height). Confidence as mentioned earler is a definite turn-on which Trudeau had in spades. Unfortunately, though, I think money was the major chick magnet for Trudeau, which was suggested earlier as a way to attract women. It was also suggested earlier that being a jerk is also a turn-on for some women, which is counter-intuitive, but may also have been true in Trudeau's case. But also stated earlier in terms of getting hitched: WHY? Unless you are as powerful as Trudeau was, if you get divorced, the anti-male family courts will award your ex-wife sole custody of the kids and a large chunk of your assets.
 

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maybe I'm wrong....

but with all of this "talk" about dating a "white" woman. I don't remember him saying that he WANTED to exclusively date/marry a white woman. I only recall him saying that a lot of white women are on Lavalife etc. and their preference seems to be for tall (possibly) white men. He may be open to meeting white, black, and asian women.

wrabs.
 

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WHY AM I MARRIED? :D


You have two choices in life: You can stay single and be miserable, or get married and wish you were dead.

At a cocktail party, one woman said to another, "Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?" "Yes, I am. I married the wrong man."

A lady inserted an ad in the classifieds: "Husband Wanted" Next day she received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."

When a woman steals your husband, there is no better
revenge than to let her keep him.

A woman is incomplete until she is married. Then she is finished.

A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" Father replied, "I don't know, son, I'm still paying."

A young son asked, "Is it true, Dad, that in some parts of Africa a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?" Dad replied, "That happens in every country, son."

Then there was a woman who said, "I never knew what real happiness was until I got married, and by then, it was too late."

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say -- talk in your sleep.

Just think, if it wasn't for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.

First guy says, "My wife's an angel!" Second guy remarks, "You're lucky. Mine's still alive."

A Woman's Prayer - Dear Lord, I pray for Wisdom, to understand a man , to love and to forgive him, and for Patience, for his moods. Because, Lord, if I pray for Strength, I'll just beat him to death.

AND NOW FOR THE FAVORITE!!!

Husband and wife are waiting at the bus stop with their nine children. A blind man joins them after a few minutes. When the bus arrives, they find it overloaded and only the wife and the nine kids are able to fit onto the bus. So the husband and the blind man decide to walk. After a while, the husband gets irritated by the ticking of the stick of the blind man as he taps it on the sidewalk, and says to him, "Why don't you put a piece of rubber at the end of your stick? That ticking sound is driving me crazy." The blind man replies, "If you would've put a rubber at the end of YOUR stick, we'd be riding the bus ... so shut the hell up."
 

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james t kirk said:
There is one aspect a lot of you are overlooking.

And that is that often times, races tend to stick together when it comes to pairing off.

Not always I realize, but more often then not. It's not a racist thing, it's a fact of life thing.
That may be true in other countries but in Canada, I don't think that's really true. We're a pretty multi-cultured society with tons of different choices all around so the chance of being attracted to a different race is pretty high. (In my home country, we're all pretty much the same race so there's pretty much no chance of being attracted to any other races just 'cuz there's none around.) I used to be attracted to guys that were the same race as me (my longest relationship, almost 7 yrs, was with a guy that was the race as me) but not anymore. After him, for some reason, I found myself attracted to guys that were a different race than myself. I don't know why or how it happened but it just did. On top of that, before, I used to be attracted to the "Kelly Bundy" (Married with Children) type of guys. You know... the drop-outs, the biker-types, the gangsters, the losers... Now, lately especially, I find myself looking at guys that are all dressed up in suit and tie (I don't know... something about blue shirts, black dress-pants and black blazer really turns me on lately...) Like.... I just can't explain it. Sometimes, I guess people's taste change. I have no idea why or how, but it just happens. Now, those guys with baggy pants and ripped jeans just don't do it for me anymore.
 

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johnnyhandsome said:
Let's face it, people. Whether you're a male or female, pretty much everyone's perfect image of a mate is someone who's tall (5'9 or more), athletic, blond hair and blue eyed. This is just the way the world operates and I dont think you guys are any different, are you??

My dream-girl is a Gisele Bundchen, Estella Warren or THE perfect woman, Charlize Theron.
Women tend to like blond hair blue eyed guys also if I'm not mistaken but maybe the girls can respond and tells us their perfect man??
Actually, before, my perfect mate would be tall, dark-haired, hazel-green eyes, gorgeous face, big cock. Now, lately, I've been attracted to guys with lighter hair, eye-colour doesn't matter. So I find that people's taste DO change.

I remember just before I met my bf, someone told me to jot down all the qualities I'm looking for in a guy, put it in the south-west corner of my bedroom a few days before the full moon, and wait. And you know what... EVERYTHING, and I mean EVERYTHING that I wrote on that piece of paper, I found in my bf. Even the big circumcised cock part. All except I forgot to mention that he must have a job, is good with money, will pay bills on time, not have gangster people kicking down our door, selling all my stuff for money.... So you know what... when you wish for something, write it down but be VERY and I mean VERY specific. 'Cuz it'll come to you. Maybe not in the way you hoped but it'll come.
 

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MRMARCUS said:
Women like a big dick or a big wallet, if you don't have of those criteria then you are in trouble.

Someone talked about how women go for the guy "that does drive by shooting and is homeless" and not for the "safe" guy. Plain and simple, women like men that are exciting, dangerous and with a edge to them. No girl wants Ward Cleaver.
Hmmm..

Big dick? Well... definitely not small. No small cock for me
thanks.

Big wallet? Not necessarily. Right now, I'd be happy if he
has a job and can support himself. That's all I
ask.

Women like men that are exciting, dangerous and with an
edge to them? PLEASE!!!! Trust me, it ain't much
fun trying to ditch those gangster people and
looking over your shoulder all the time wondering
when you're gonna be chopped to a million pieces!!
I'll take the nice, "boring", dude anyday!!!

BTW, how come no nice, "boring", dudes ever ask me out?
 

leah_mpa

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Mikehorn said:
Maybe the gangster dudes are scaring them off
:eek: I never thought of that!!! Maybe a cutie cop will save me????!!!!! Pleeeeeeese..... I really don't want to be chopped to a million pieces (Yeah right.... I guess I'm gonna have a preeeeeeeeeeetty long wait, won't I?)

BTW, anybody knows whether their "kick out the whackers week" is over yet? Are those 2 women inspectors still around? Haven't heard anything this past week. Anyways, hope those 2 stick around 'cuz most of my whacker friends are glad that these 2 don't recognize any of them. Not like the other ones before, they were actually starting to recognize us. (Well, I guess so. After kicking us out and ticketing us like 50 million times.) Definitely NOT good.
 

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Well...

leah_mpa said:
Hmmm..

Big dick? Well... definitely not small. No small cock for me
thanks.

Big wallet? Not necessarily. Right now, I'd be happy if he
has a job and can support himself. That's all I
ask.

Women like men that are exciting, dangerous and with an
edge to them? PLEASE!!!! Trust me, it ain't much
fun trying to ditch those gangster people and
looking over your shoulder all the time wondering
when you're gonna be chopped to a million pieces!!
I'll take the nice, "boring", dude anyday!!!

BTW, how come no nice, "boring", dudes ever ask me out?
...given that you are still with your BF (despite his selling all your stuff, having o job and putting you in danger with "gangster guys"), perhaps "boring guys" have enough sense to stay the fuck away from you.

Honest.

Really, if half of what you have postd about your relationship (TMI, BTW) is true, you probably have self esteem issues. Add to that your chosen profession, and do you really think that Joe Taxpayer is going to see himself in a realtionship with you, waiting for the day he can take you home to mama?

Beyond that, I am sure you get asked out everyday in your job. Its just that you know that a guy who is cheating on his wife (if you call it that - I know everyone has their own standards) with you tugging on his johnson probably isn't looking for anything other than to get what he couldn't get in the MP...except he will want it for free. I give you credit for seeing through that.

But really now, you aren't ACTUALLY pining for a "boring guy" are you?

If so, here is a start - try leading a "boring" life...

All IMHO...
 

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if i was 20 again i would live by:
- fall in love often
- get engaged sometimes
- never marry
 
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