How To Show Interest Without Being CREEPY

that6969

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Shit like that is annoying. It's like when randoms add or just comment on a chick's FB page especially if she's got like cleavage pics. "Awww babe I wanna meet you anywhere" cringey af. No wonder women fear most guys.
 
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Mandala

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It was me. 😳 I fucked up LOL

I realized it was creepy and I apologized
but i have no regrets because i tried.

Still learning and trying to figure this out.😊

Thanks for being understanding @Ahri

Meet someplace safe like a coffee shop

Better yet, get out and meet women where people interact is a safe environment . Do so without intent.
Do not force it and it will happen, it could happen anywhere. Present yourself
as a friendly guy, not a houndog, as it is a matter of time. Look for subtle signals of interest
but if you are overly shy then you start to look creepy and then you do need advice from a wing girl

TERBS are dissing Marni because she is exuding an internet personality within an ad and she is trying to upsell you to her "Master Class" , she even sells a tension belt, IE no holes in the belt , because that makes a statement LOL. Actually, they are good belts as you are not restricted by holes when you tighten them.

But some on her advice is good such as women pick up on non verbal clues then gives you examples.
Women love to look into your eyes, guys do not, so learn to hold a gaze. And some other stuff

There are other wing girls on the net who are not chasing your money
 
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kherg007

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I’ll tell you guys what NOT to do 😂

This is what goes down in my Twitter DMs
Whoa fair dinkum a bit stalker-ish indeed! I've always said it takes courage to meet a stranger in a private place and get nekkid with them. But this is very much way like the opening scene one of those Lifetime movies where the plucky lady has to fight off the bloke at the end. I think too many blokes don't stop and think and try to see things through the lady's eyes. You may know your a good, decent, honourable bloke but she doesn't know you from Joe Bloggs. Thus inquiries like this are very close to the definition of creepy.

I have encountered pro ladies after an online chat with a few other regulars but it was always "me and X and Y are going to strip club A because lady B is dancing there. Feel free to pop over and join us, we'll be there around 9:30". (BTW some of us were previous clients so we were known. Surprised one time 3 ladies joined us. Of course as gentlemen we shouted their drinks). It would never occur to me to ask her where she is outside of work unless she issued a specific invition to see her at a specific time.

And again, if this doesn't convince you, re-read my signature below.
 

Robert Mugabe

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Whoa fair dinkum a bit stalker-ish indeed! I've always said it takes courage to meet a stranger in a private place and get nekkid with them. But this is very much way like the opening scene one of those Lifetime movies where the plucky lady has to fight off the bloke at the end. I think too many blokes don't stop and think and try to see things through the lady's eyes. You may know your a good, decent, honourable bloke but she doesn't know you from Joe Bloggs. Thus inquiries like this are very close to the definition of creepy.

I have encountered pro ladies after an online chat with a few other regulars but it was always "me and X and Y are going to strip club A because lady B is dancing there. Feel free to pop over and join us, we'll be there around 9:30". (BTW some of us were previous clients so we were known. Surprised one time 3 ladies joined us. Of course as gentlemen we shouted their drinks). It would never occur to me to ask her where she is outside of work unless she issued a specific invition to see her at a specific time.

And again, if this doesn't convince you, re-read my signature below.
I've always said it takes courage to meet a stranger in a private place and get nekkid with them.

Understatement of the century. I don't know how sp's do it.
 
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Insidious Von

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This Marni chick must be extremely horny, it wouldn't take much to get her sumo wresting.

To be honest, if I wanted advice on how to hook up, I'd ask Kim Mitchell. Paul Stanley never had to get him laid.

 

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La la land
Marni has some valid points which I have also seen at fast seductions websites and old books from the 1950' - 60's plus other decades.

Marni is trying to make some Money because she can't work in a team place.

Marni has never watched "2 and Half Men" or Kevin Samuels.

When you post on Social Media about your relationships in what ever form not taking accountability, you have hit the wall.

Many men have no money, time for stupid games, scams from gov't, Never grew up with a real father figure and denial so how can a men be happy?

Video games, sleep, dancing it off , SP's and seeing the truth seems to be the trend for men.

In the end I don't do drugs, alcohol or weed so I am going to meditate after this.
 

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After many years of experience, I’ve discovered that the best way to show interest without being creepy, is to actually be interested and not be a creep. Have a conversation. Listen, and participate in it. Notice them, what they wear, how they react. Have a couple laughs, even (especially) at your own expense. Don’t stare at them like a piece of meat you want to fuck in the next 30 minutes. Women can sense desperate horniness a mile away. Just chill, be relaxed, enjoy the moment and have no expectations.
 
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Robert Mugabe

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After many years of experience, I’ve discovered that the best way to show interest without being creepy, is to actually be interested and not be a creep. Have a conversation. Listen, and participate in it. Notice them, what they wear, how they react. Have a couple laughs, even (especially) at your own expense. Don’t stare at them like a piece of meat you want to fuck in the next 30 minutes. Women can sense desperate horniness a mile away. Just chill, be relaxed, enjoy the moment and have no expectations.
After many years of experience, no can do.
 
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Robert Mugabe

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This Marni chick must be extremely horny, it wouldn't take much to get her sumo wresting.

To be honest, if I wanted advice on how to hook up, I'd ask Kim Mitchell. Paul Stanley never had to get him laid.

Didn't really want to shit on your post, but apart from I have no idea what it meant, I had no idea Kim Mitchell could suck so bad.
 

Insidious Von

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Didn't really want to shit on your post, but apart from I have no idea what it meant, I had no idea Kim Mitchell could suck so bad.
The joke was that when Rush opened for KISS, they were such nerds that Paul Stanley had to get them laid. Kim Mitchell was a man of the world, women lined up to bang him, he didn't need Stanley's help.
 

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Um, sure OP. I get it. Even though you're on this sex worker message board where, and trust me on this one, the women don't care if you look like Jabba the Hutt - they will still fuck you for $$$. But i guess you're trying to lift some of these dejected souls out of this rut so props for that.

One tip: Make a women laugh and feel good about herself. That's the whole things, guys. Yes, it's a numbers game. You won't hit a home run every time. Work on your social skills. Observe how interesting people talk. I have known PLENTY of guys who are NOT GQ cover material and who may even be considered physically 'ugly' but they have so much game, they get women regularly and don't need sex workers.
For the record, I'm not shitting on sex workers but if your entire exposure to females is via sex workers, trust me, you have a major, major problem.
 
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I've always said it takes courage to meet a stranger in a private place and get nekkid with them.

Understatement of the century. I don't know how sp's do it.
Facetious answer: They can make up to $1,000's a day doing it. They get over it real quick. The money becomes an addiction and having sex is like walking the dog in the park. It's just part of the Daily Activities of Life. It's like making coffee. For the Johns that visit them, they're oh so living out their fantasies but for the sex worker, it's like toasting bread. I've had numerous convo's with sex workers who have this attitude.
 
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Mandala

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A Wing Girl helps guys relate to women better in relationships, meeting them, sex etc

TERBS find Marni annoying and explotative as she tries to upsell you to her master class.

Are there any quality wing girls on the net who are not just about money?

Always be willing to listen as you just may learn something
 
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After many years of experience, I’ve discovered that the best way to show interest without being creepy, is to actually be interested and not be a creep. Have a conversation. Listen, and participate in it. Notice them, what they wear, how they react. Have a couple laughs, even (especially) at your own expense. Don’t stare at them like a piece of meat you want to fuck in the next 30 minutes. Women can sense desperate horniness a mile away. Just chill, be relaxed, enjoy the moment and have no expectations.
Great to finally have a converstion about the topic of the thread LOL.

A lot of women are leary of guys coming on to them esp if they are babes, that is understandable. I try not to be one of those guys.

If I am interested I watch for her to signal interest if I do not receive any signals I do not pursue beyond simple friendship.

That is something Marni does not say as that piece of advice will not sell you to buy her product as she wants you to believe her techniques will work on everyone.
While i agree with some of her advice, Marni is after your $$$$$$ . I suspect her Master Class will lead to even more upsells.
 
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