How to last longer??
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I don't get this "jerk off before your session" routine. It's like having some food at home before going to an all you can eat Buffet.
The first SOG always feels the best. Why waste that on your hand before paying serious cash to get the 2nd SOG.
I also found that I last a lot longer now than before I started hobbying. But if one has a serious premature release, I would suggest Viagra, not jerking off before.
The awesome thing about Viagra is not the erection, it's the control you get. Keep that in mind OP.
The first SOG always feels the best. Why waste that on your hand before paying serious cash to get the 2nd SOG.
I also found that I last a lot longer now than before I started hobbying. But if one has a serious premature release, I would suggest Viagra, not jerking off before.
The awesome thing about Viagra is not the erection, it's the control you get. Keep that in mind OP.
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Try it for an hour minimum, sometimes well over two.Master Baiter said:
I don't know what the hell has happened to me over the past few months, but I am not liking it at all. The erection is good and stable, I'm horny as hell, but I just am having a hell of a time ejaculating. Before one starts talking about nerves or that it is in my head, it happens when I'm alone as well.
Time for a trip to the doctors.
COCK RINGS? OUCH! I've tried them "on request", but find them rather painful... my idea of sex is pleasure not pain, but hey, I understand some people are into that. ;-)
Spanking one off before hand also seems counter productive... and also reduces the "amount available" for the main event. (I find some ladies get turned on by the "amount"... e.g. more gives them a greater sense of accomplishment in my experience...)
Now to offer an alternative solution, here's a technique I have been using for quite some time which seems to work quite well...
LOTS of foreplay... make sure your lady is REALLY enjoying herself! (e.g. LFK, then DFK, maybe a light massage, progress to DATY, DIGITS etc...)
When it comes time for FS, alternate positions, and if you find you're getting close, stop! And switch to more DATY, DIGITS etc...
Keep alternating from FS to "other things" and you will last MUCH longer, gain a lot more control over your own "SOG" and have your lovers appreciating you THAT much more.
Eventually you will get a degree of control that will allow you time it to coincide with her climax... and THAT my friends is the ultimate prize! Mutual satisfaction!
Of course there are times when this doesn't ALWAYS work, if your lady is SO TURNED on, she may lose control and just go for it! And I have yet to discover a remedy for that!
Good Luck and have fun!
Spanking one off before hand also seems counter productive... and also reduces the "amount available" for the main event. (I find some ladies get turned on by the "amount"... e.g. more gives them a greater sense of accomplishment in my experience...)
Now to offer an alternative solution, here's a technique I have been using for quite some time which seems to work quite well...
LOTS of foreplay... make sure your lady is REALLY enjoying herself! (e.g. LFK, then DFK, maybe a light massage, progress to DATY, DIGITS etc...)
When it comes time for FS, alternate positions, and if you find you're getting close, stop! And switch to more DATY, DIGITS etc...
Keep alternating from FS to "other things" and you will last MUCH longer, gain a lot more control over your own "SOG" and have your lovers appreciating you THAT much more.
Eventually you will get a degree of control that will allow you time it to coincide with her climax... and THAT my friends is the ultimate prize! Mutual satisfaction!
Of course there are times when this doesn't ALWAYS work, if your lady is SO TURNED on, she may lose control and just go for it! And I have yet to discover a remedy for that!
Good Luck and have fun!
Does this just happen to you guys during actual sex or do you also finish that quickly when receiving oral? If only for actual sex, what is the difference that makes you blow so much faster that way over getting head?
IMHO, tightness! Probably why some many guys like doing greek with the ladies. If the girl is tight like Charity and ex-Peyton, wow.... makes for quick offloading!Shaunhorny said:
HoLY fuck... I ain't gonna bitch about my 20mins then! The girls start getting tired when you start running out of positions and their jaws and arms start getting tired and keep asking ya, "So you gonna cum soon 'cause I'm getting a callus in my kitty!"a 1 player said:Try it for an hour minimum, sometimes well over two.
Time for a trip to the doctors.
techniques for holding back
It seems the only technique anyone here knows is wanking off just beforehand. I think that's a really dumb idea. Wanking off 8 or 10 hours before though, that is a viable technique. Here are some others:
1) Don't pump like a pornstar, I don't know what those guys use to deaden their dicks but it's not natural. The girl will think you're an idiot too. You think when girls do other girls they pump like lobotomized raccoons? They do not. Show some style and some class.
2) Get on top and don't just wait till you feel really, really close to the edge, BEFORE THEN, pull out and go down on her. After a few of those, pull out and just move down a little to suck and lick her nips, then get back in. This will provide a nice break in the routine.
3) Don't do the in and out, do the in and in-harder. Put it in as deep as it will go, then push to go deeper. Out is your enemy! Just go in only. This is really good for her too, we call this technique: the bump.
4) There are many nerve endings in the tip of your dick. There are also a lot of nerve endings in your tongue, the roof of your mouth, your thumbs and your fingertips. Here is how to use those to distract your brain from your dick:
Slap the tip of your tongue up against the roof or your mouth fairly rapidly. You can do this with your mouth closed. At the same time, tap the tip of your thumb against the tips of your fingers, up and down the line, do each hand at different speeds and in different directions.
When you can tap your tongue quickly onto different places in your mouth, while tapping your fingertips to your thumbs at different speeds, the pressure to orgasm will fade and you will be safely back from the edge of the cliff. This technique works like magic, the pressure will deflate and you can keep on going.
5) If the girl is really super hot, and the torment is driving you into madness and nothing else is working, then you will have to release 2 drops of sperm. While on top, pull out and go down on her, allow 2 drops only of cum to drip out of your dick. Wait for a moment then get back in. This should buy you another 15 or 20 minutes. Don't let more than 2 or 3 drops go or you will regret it.
It seems the only technique anyone here knows is wanking off just beforehand. I think that's a really dumb idea. Wanking off 8 or 10 hours before though, that is a viable technique. Here are some others:
1) Don't pump like a pornstar, I don't know what those guys use to deaden their dicks but it's not natural. The girl will think you're an idiot too. You think when girls do other girls they pump like lobotomized raccoons? They do not. Show some style and some class.
2) Get on top and don't just wait till you feel really, really close to the edge, BEFORE THEN, pull out and go down on her. After a few of those, pull out and just move down a little to suck and lick her nips, then get back in. This will provide a nice break in the routine.
3) Don't do the in and out, do the in and in-harder. Put it in as deep as it will go, then push to go deeper. Out is your enemy! Just go in only. This is really good for her too, we call this technique: the bump.
4) There are many nerve endings in the tip of your dick. There are also a lot of nerve endings in your tongue, the roof of your mouth, your thumbs and your fingertips. Here is how to use those to distract your brain from your dick:
Slap the tip of your tongue up against the roof or your mouth fairly rapidly. You can do this with your mouth closed. At the same time, tap the tip of your thumb against the tips of your fingers, up and down the line, do each hand at different speeds and in different directions.
When you can tap your tongue quickly onto different places in your mouth, while tapping your fingertips to your thumbs at different speeds, the pressure to orgasm will fade and you will be safely back from the edge of the cliff. This technique works like magic, the pressure will deflate and you can keep on going.
5) If the girl is really super hot, and the torment is driving you into madness and nothing else is working, then you will have to release 2 drops of sperm. While on top, pull out and go down on her, allow 2 drops only of cum to drip out of your dick. Wait for a moment then get back in. This should buy you another 15 or 20 minutes. Don't let more than 2 or 3 drops go or you will regret it.
Hey RD?
This is very similar to the technique I use and outlined just a few posts earlier... I have a couple questions.
Also, this part of your technique is interesting:
Seriously though... I'll have to give this a try! Perhaps it will be the answer I was looking for in the last part of my post!
This is very similar to the technique I use and outlined just a few posts earlier... I have a couple questions.
How do you restrict it to just 2 or 3 drops of cum... once it starts, ejaculation is an involuntary reaction in response to intense stimulation and is therefore not controllable (in my experience) once it starts... or are you referring to the "precum" fluid that precedes an orgasm? Just wondering...rick dickulous said:
Also, this part of your technique is interesting:
(Do the ladies ever wonder if your having some kind of seizure?)rick dickulous said:
Seriously though... I'll have to give this a try! Perhaps it will be the answer I was looking for in the last part of my post!
Double condoms (also known as double-bagging) is not so hot an idea: latex on latex is prone to ripping.The Oracle said:
http://contraception.about.com/b/2008/09/01/double-bagging-condoms.htm
rick dickulous said:
Rick I'm not doubting your sincerity and I'm sure this works for you but this is a very funny post . It just illustrates how amusing sex can be . I can't help but get a vision of Mike Myers putting this to film . From the seizure like behaviour , to the mantra "out is the enemy " to counting drops of sperm , to seeing a bump on a girls ass made from the inside because you should only push forward .
I hope some terbites employ some of these techniques and report back .
Wow, Rick Dickulous.
If I were able to click my tongue while clicking my thumb while I'm fucking. I'd definitely increase my longevity 'cause most likely I'd lose my erection from the lack of concentartion on the task at hand.
But hey, if it works for you and others, good on you.
If I were able to click my tongue while clicking my thumb while I'm fucking. I'd definitely increase my longevity 'cause most likely I'd lose my erection from the lack of concentartion on the task at hand.
But hey, if it works for you and others, good on you.
No no no no no. He wants to last longer, not have his wood shrink up until sometime in the next decade..a 1 player said:
You just gotta want it real bad. Your cock tenses up, expands to twice it's size, but you just grit your teeth, ride the wave and somehow come back alive. This technique is the last resort.Cycleguy007 said:
Being surreptitious about it is pretty natural and easy. I once told some couples we swing with about it in front of my girlfriend and she surprised me by saying "So that's what you were doing ..."Cycleguy007 said:
