How to be charming?

[lookingforitallthetime]

Its just a natural thing for me. A curse I suppose but with cute English good looks and all that natural charm it's no wonder that people like danmand envy me so much. Did I also mention how understatedly modest we are.????

You don't have to sell me, you had me at hello.

No homo.

 

[HRH]

I think you're confusing charm with common sense.

Great...now you tell me...thanks for the heads-up...sheesh...

 

[FOOTSNIFFER]

Charming will get you one thing.

NOWHERE. Catch their attention, make them laugh and be yourself like you would with any of your friends.

Charming = wussbag, which any woman can find at the grocery store buying tampons for their SO.

You mean that being charming won't get someone very far with the kinds of girls you date. But what makes you think we want to go out with those kinds of girls....although I have to admit that alot of the girls in this town are pretty steak and potatos types.

 

[incognito]

Thanks for the tips guys. Keep em comming, and not just from has been comedians.

 

[rick dickulous]

You need a different kind of charm for each different kind of girl. So here are some questions you need to answer:

Is she estrogen dominant? - gains weight on her hips, thighs and butt
Or testosterone dominant? - gains weight on stomach and under chin

Is she alfa? - happily derrives ego boosting from appearance
Or beta? - would rather be appreciated for deeper qualities

Is she dominant? - does insulting things to break your self esteem
Or submissive? - feels comfortable with following your orders

Is she sensitive? - cares about other living things
Or sociopathic? - cares only about herself

Is she realistic? - is aware of her flaws
Or delusional? - thinks Brad Pitt is probably good enough for her

Is she intellectual? - likes to think about interesting things
Emotional? - trusts her feelings not her thoughts
Or hedonistic? - decides in an instant to feed some hunger

Is she bisexual? - find out for sure as some girls will eat pussy and still consider themselves straight

And finally:
What is her attitude towards her urges?
ashamed of them - regrets things she's done for pleasure
weakened by them - addictive personality
proud of them - boasts about wild things she's done
or at peace with them? - satisfies her cravings through patient strategy

Go and get the answers to these questions and come back and post them here. Some of these things can be answered just by looking at her. Others by covert observation, a simple ruse or just outright asking.

When you tell me what kind of girl she is, then I can tell you exactly how to act with her.

 

[incognito]

I wasn't speaking of a girl in particular rick. I just wanted some ideas and help.

Here's another question. Whats the difference between charm and charisma?

 

[goodtime]

Insightful def'n. Thx.

 

[LancsLad]

If a man has charm, once he leaves your presence, his charm goes with him (a temporary impression, though nice). But, if he has charisma, that tends to linger (an everlasting impression), as you want to be back in his company. I suppose the comparison is like a table lamp vs a chandelier. One lights up a corner while the other, an entire room.

So you are saying that I have the personality of a 3 watt night lite????