My buddy was telling me that in order for a girl to be interested in a guy, he has to be charming. I'm not entirely sure what that entails. Could any of you guys help a brother out? Thanks
How to be charming?
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it seems the charm you are searching might be waisted on some women ..but it will be a good thing for you... it is about beeing polite ,strait forward,confedent,funny,acting like you are in control of your destiny, stop slouching, fix your posture, be clean, shave, groom your self,........be james bond,,he is the charms charm of men,,,, well at least in the movies...
Charming will get you one thing.
NOWHERE. Catch their attention, make them laugh and be yourself like you would with any of your friends.
Charming = wussbag, which any woman can find at the grocery store buying tampons for their SO.
NOWHERE. Catch their attention, make them laugh and be yourself like you would with any of your friends.
Charming = wussbag, which any woman can find at the grocery store buying tampons for their SO.
Well, according to the dictionary, it's either:
a) pleasing; delightful, or
b) using charm; exercising magic power.
I usually try A first and switch to B if that doesn't work.
(In reality, it's safe to say I'm probably hit and miss in the charm department, seeing as my first instinct was to look that shit up on dictionary.com)
a) pleasing; delightful, or
b) using charm; exercising magic power.
I usually try A first and switch to B if that doesn't work.
(In reality, it's safe to say I'm probably hit and miss in the charm department, seeing as my first instinct was to look that shit up on dictionary.com)
Wow, so many different opinions. Sparky says being charming will get you nowwhere and the elf says that it works. Can any ladies here give some input as i think i'm a funny guy but i have a strange sense of humor. When meeting a girl, i often have to restrain being myself cause i've been told thats not what women are looking for. I know some guys have charm just ooozing out of pore while some other guys have none, like me. I'm working at it but instructions from askmen.com are rather vague. Need specifics.
Thanks for the input leggss but i always thought charm has humor incorporated into it. Package deal so to speak.
Thanks for the input leggss but i always thought charm has humor incorporated into it. Package deal so to speak.
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For most of us, we're still learning. It's an acquired talent that requires work. Only after years of practice & disappointments, will this skill be refined.
Charm does open doors, especially with customer service, regardless women or men. Usually a friendly smile or polite "how're you?" would be soften a tough cookie.
Trick is don't over do it as it can backfire. I should listen to my own advice.
Good luck.
Charm does open doors, especially with customer service, regardless women or men. Usually a friendly smile or polite "how're you?" would be soften a tough cookie.
Trick is don't over do it as it can backfire. I should listen to my own advice.
Good luck.
If you just don't give a fuck, you will come off as charming. Its always worked for me. Ernestness will defeat you every time. Stop looking like you care.
The best line in the new 007 movie: Bartender: Shaken or stirred sir? Bond: Do I look like I give a damn?
The best line in the new 007 movie: Bartender: Shaken or stirred sir? Bond: Do I look like I give a damn?
Here are some real tips:
Add importance to words that you use, to create your own mythology with that girl. For instance, you're at a restaurant, she picks up her glass of beer and the coaster sticks to the bottom and gets lifted up with it. So you say something like "you've been coastered" and you keep that word coastered and use it again with that girl. It becomes part of a personal "thing" between just the 2 of you. Seinfeld does this a lot, you take a word and make it special, but just for that girl!
For a girl, a man on her arm is the ultimate fashion accessory. You have to scrub up REALLY well and never draw attention to it, like that is how you are all the time effortlessly. The rest gets kind of wierd. You have to spot if she is testosterone or estrogen dominant. I don't have time for this ...
Add importance to words that you use, to create your own mythology with that girl. For instance, you're at a restaurant, she picks up her glass of beer and the coaster sticks to the bottom and gets lifted up with it. So you say something like "you've been coastered" and you keep that word coastered and use it again with that girl. It becomes part of a personal "thing" between just the 2 of you. Seinfeld does this a lot, you take a word and make it special, but just for that girl!
For a girl, a man on her arm is the ultimate fashion accessory. You have to scrub up REALLY well and never draw attention to it, like that is how you are all the time effortlessly. The rest gets kind of wierd. You have to spot if she is testosterone or estrogen dominant. I don't have time for this ...
lookingforitallthetime said:Think to yourself, what would LancsLad do?
Do the opposite.
Now you're charming.
I saw that.
I'm consulting with GB to see about ordering a hit. Where is that damned bruin ?
lookingforitallthetime said:
Its just a natural thing for me. A curse I suppose but with cute English good looks and all that natural charm it's no wonder that people like danmand envy me so much. Did I also mention how understatedly modest we are.????
