how many like to get drunk or high before seeing an SP
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Getting "Drunk" or "High" in my opinion is not a great idea if you plan on driving. if you don not plan on driving than im sure you still shouldnt go in "DRUNK". one or two drinks at most maybe, keep in mind guys that you want to be respectful.
Me personally i smoke a small joint Everytime i see and SP. No one has ever noticed or at least no one has mentioned it to this point. i do a really great job of making sue my breathe doesn't smell and i dont smell (cmon guys!! ultimately treat this as a date. you dont want to stink like smoke or alcohol, not a good look for you)
Not that i have to justify my reason to anyone here, but smoking weed makes everything WAY more enjoyable as your senses are enhanced. but for me it also allows me to control my orgasm ALOT better. I go from a 2 minute man, to a whenever i want it to be done man i try to hold out until shes orgasmed at least twice or the 45 minute mark, whichever comes first.
Me personally i smoke a small joint Everytime i see and SP. No one has ever noticed or at least no one has mentioned it to this point. i do a really great job of making sue my breathe doesn't smell and i dont smell (cmon guys!! ultimately treat this as a date. you dont want to stink like smoke or alcohol, not a good look for you)
Not that i have to justify my reason to anyone here, but smoking weed makes everything WAY more enjoyable as your senses are enhanced. but for me it also allows me to control my orgasm ALOT better. I go from a 2 minute man, to a whenever i want it to be done man i try to hold out until shes orgasmed at least twice or the 45 minute mark, whichever comes first.
If you are planning on getting drunk or high with an sp always ask first. NEVER EVER show up to an incall waisted or high out of your mind. It could make the sp feel uncomfortable and that would create a lousy time for the both of you. The best thing to do is tell her you want to drink/smoke and see what she says ; if she says its ok then go for it. However, I notice girls prefer you to do it before.
Guyfromtdot has very valid points. Lots of people smoke weed and many find it very enjoyable. But if you show up piss drunk or high as a kite to an incall don't expect to have a great time unless you are seeing a girl that is "party friendly" . Girls usually care when they feel their safety is in jeopardy.
I know that it is all in good fun but it is all about mutual respect. If you don't respect the girl enough to ask her if you can bring a small joint, or if she wants to drink then don't expect her to treat you with respect when you show up drunk. Be considerate , be safe and I hope this advice helps.
Happy hobbyin gents!
Guyfromtdot has very valid points. Lots of people smoke weed and many find it very enjoyable. But if you show up piss drunk or high as a kite to an incall don't expect to have a great time unless you are seeing a girl that is "party friendly" . Girls usually care when they feel their safety is in jeopardy.
I know that it is all in good fun but it is all about mutual respect. If you don't respect the girl enough to ask her if you can bring a small joint, or if she wants to drink then don't expect her to treat you with respect when you show up drunk. Be considerate , be safe and I hope this advice helps.
Happy hobbyin gents!
I can't speak for the guy, but I think he was implying that sexwork is so awful that the ability to do it soberish indicates a mental health issue... I don't agree, and deliberately avoid dancers who are totally wasted (out of a dislike of out of control bullshit drama, and not liking to feel like I'm taking undue advantage of anybody). While I'm sure sexwork isn't always 'good', if it's constantly so awful that you can't do it in a state of 'sober enough', it's time to extricate yourself from the profession. That's besides any substance abuse issues, and whether or not a person is engaging in sexwork to feed a habit.
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Full disclosure - I've been under the influence of medical marijuana almost every time I've entertained a client in the last 12 years. No one has ever told me I act like I'm stoned (I've asked), no one has ever been able to tell the difference between spending time with me stoned or straight, no one has ever complained that me or my spa smelled like pot ...
I don't advertise that I'm 420 friendly because I know it would discourage a lot of guys from calling me.
Everything in moderation, but you gotta keep your shit together if you want to be successful as a SP or a client.
I don't drink before I go to see and SP or MPA ever, just my thing. However if it's an outcall I do keep an unopened bottle of wine and do offer it to the lady and will partake together but not in excess. I've had ladies refuse and others who were winos.
However, I do enjoy the 420 taken about 30-45 minutes before a session, either vaping or edibles. In most cases I don't share with the SP or MPA.
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However, I do enjoy the 420 taken about 30-45 minutes before a session, either vaping or edibles. In most cases I don't share with the SP or MPA.
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I always smoke a little weed before going to an MP. A couple of times I went on LSD. It was awesome!!
I usually indulge if the lady is up for it. I bring the drinks and the lady supplies the smokes. Helps us both relax and get into the mood.Never would drink or smoke before going, but I will drink or smoke WITH an sp
Nothing too much just social.
Pushing the boundaries whether it be the provider herself pushing to see more clients and being desperate for money or if clients push our boundaries often leads to substance abuse.
There is a huge difference, between arriving drunk, or high and having a drink of wine with an SP. I been offered by some on arrival, and for other longer appointments, may bring a bottle, with her blessing. Neither is, in any way impaired, during or by the end of the session. A single drink is no different then having one, when you go out to dinner. You arrive without having any, and leave in the same time period, that has no impact on being even slightly impaired. Never have met a SP, who was either high, or even impaired, over the years. I think many of them, recognize the issues that could arise if they or you, were. I doubt if many of the ladies here, overindulge, since they would soon, find out what the effects of over partying, would have on their looks. When you run into someone, you knew when you were younger, the effects are shocking to see. Looking as if she is 50 years old, when she was only 30.
Sipping a glass of wine while chatting on the couch before the main course and after a nice kissing session as a greeting at the door is ideal. Usually the gent leaves the rest to be consumed later as it's rare that the whole bottle gets drank.
I once had what turned out to be a totally harmless client arrive blitzed at 10 am after his flight from Alberta to enjoy a playoff sporting event in TO. Thank goodness he didn't have whiskey dick but getting him out the door on time was an exercise in extreme patience as he wanted the party to continue until the game that evening. No worries as he was cabbing it and I made sure to call them for him. Needless to say the next time he tried booking me I ignored him. Something I only do with good reason. I have no doubt that he's completely clueless as to why.
Everything in Moderation!
I once had what turned out to be a totally harmless client arrive blitzed at 10 am after his flight from Alberta to enjoy a playoff sporting event in TO. Thank goodness he didn't have whiskey dick but getting him out the door on time was an exercise in extreme patience as he wanted the party to continue until the game that evening. No worries as he was cabbing it and I made sure to call them for him. Needless to say the next time he tried booking me I ignored him. Something I only do with good reason. I have no doubt that he's completely clueless as to why.
Everything in Moderation!
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AGREED! Sex is an amazing high itself! Especially when it's with ME!
Maybe enjoy a glass of wine or 2 together or some 420 but that's about it!
Not sure why a SELECT FEW men decide to get hammered or high before visiting especially when you never met the SP before.
Just not a good idea. I'm sure clientd expect us girls to be sober so we expect the same from them :welcome:
SEX is already an amazing natural high anyways.... especially when it's with moi
Hehe xoxo
LOL! Love that damn song... But yes you're right especially when going to see a favorite SP.Partying like it's 1999 is not a good idea.
Maybe enjoy a glass of wine or 2 together or some 420 but that's about it!
Not sure why a SELECT FEW men decide to get hammered or high before visiting especially when you never met the SP before.
Just not a good idea. I'm sure clientd expect us girls to be sober so we expect the same from them :welcome:
SEX is already an amazing natural high anyways.... especially when it's with moi
Hehe xoxo
LOL! Love that damn song... But yes you're right especially when going to see a favorite SP.
Maybe enjoy a glass of wine or 2 together or some 420 but that's about it!
Not sure why a SELECT FEW men decide to get hammered or high before visiting especially when you never met the SP before.
Just not a good idea. I'm sure clientd expect us girls to be sober so we expect the same from them :welcome:
SEX is already an amazing natural high anyways.... especially when it's with moi
Hehe xoxo
Explains why I feel like I'm on cloud 9 after sex - like a hit of wine and 420 without taking it.
To much will numb the feeling, but just enough will perhaps enhance it.
So be good, so you can party like it's 1999!
To much will numb the feeling, but just enough will perhaps enhance it.
So be good, so you can party like it's 1999!
I guess I'm a bit of a Mr Goody Two-Shoes, I don't drink or smoke NOW, only for social gatherings and I consider time with an SP social time )
I used to drink when I was younger in my club years, ironically booze would work like Viagra keeping me hard for a looong time, fun at first but painful next day. Tried weed over the years but only gives me headache, last time I tried was last summer, still same result.
I almost always ask lady for her preferred wine for our sessions and we have glass or two. Got in trouble once from agency cause SP got drunk on wine I brought, we only had glass each during my time with her butt she drank rest after I left with next client. Now I always ask agency if it's ok to bring wine.
My high comes from workout and a good cardio workout these days. Gym time, freshen up, additional cardio with SP, that's what works for me.
LL
)I used to drink when I was younger in my club years, ironically booze would work like Viagra keeping me hard for a looong time, fun at first but painful next day. Tried weed over the years but only gives me headache, last time I tried was last summer, still same result.
I almost always ask lady for her preferred wine for our sessions and we have glass or two. Got in trouble once from agency cause SP got drunk on wine I brought, we only had glass each during my time with her butt she drank rest after I left with next client. Now I always ask agency if it's ok to bring wine.
My high comes from workout and a good cardio workout these days. Gym time, freshen up, additional cardio with SP, that's what works for me.
LL
Weed enhances all the feelings! The sex is better, the food tastes better, even listening to music, it just feels better! How's Toronto with weed? I mean, in London it's still class B drug but you can smell it on the streets and lots of people smoke. In Amsterdam, it's just everywhere! And you can even smoke in front of the police and they won't bother you.
Certainly most drugs and alcohol would increase the chances of behavioral problems arising, but a little 420 just heightens the sensual sensitivity for many johns. Escorts probably use it more to deaden the pain of doing a job they are tired of or uncomfortable with ( but not necessarily).
