How did I wind up here?

[sybaritic]

Hi all. New member, first post.

I notice that there is a minimum post rule, so I guess I have to contribute something. So...how did I wind up here? Twenty years, one woman, still there with her. Still have a good sex life, if not as frequent as twenty years ago. Just turned fifty.

Some months ago, I was in Reno for work, had a day to kill, and on a lark but with considerable trepidation I picked up the phonebook and called an escort agency--don't even remember which one it was. Asked for advice, then asked for someone not too young, mid-twenties, and wound up meeting a woman named Sable. She was not beautiful of face, but had a dancers body, and was experienced. She gave me a very nice massage, then a nice, safe full service starting and ending with a cbj. I found the experience both extremely pleasant and somewhat unsettling, because it was so easy--done and out. First time cheater.

Well, a few months later I realized that I live not so far from SP heaven--an easy drive to Montreal. Had to go there for work. This time I did some online research prior to the trip. Arranged to meet a pretty someone from a well-known group. It went off without a hitch, and it was really, really, really nice.

Now I'm hooked. Is there any cure for my condition? I don't think I want to be cured!

 

[eyeofthedragon]

Welcome to the board however you got here

 

[red]

welcome to the hotel california

 

[freakshow]

Welcome.......


Yes there is a cure see more SP"S

 

[Shades]

Welcome.

It is a downward spiral you have joined us on...even though for you it now feels like up!

Party safe.

 

[Sargon]

Now I'm hooked. Is there any cure for my condition? I don't think I want to be cured!

Assuming you can afford it, Your only concern should be keeping your hobby and expenses secret.

 

[zydeco]

There's no known cure - but you can try taking two SP's and call me in the morning.

 

[Goober Mcfly]

Google?

 

[sybaritic]

Thanks

Thanks for your welcome and your thoughts; obviously I'm not alone in this!

 

[VincenzoTurismo]

You came, you saw, you posted. It's that simple.

Ciao,

VT

 

[Arena]

For me, terb has been a good thing. I find myself being much more selective in who I see now.
With so many others experience to draw upon, it is much easier to make correct choices.
Always thought terb would drag me in deeper, quite the opposite actually.
Very helpfull to have others to talk to about this subject, not exactly the kind of thing you can discuss in your everyday life.

 

[Hadrien]

Your only concern should be keeping your hobby and expenses secret.

How about making sure you play safe for you and others?

About the terb experience: it does save you time and money

It also drags you in deeper into the hobby.

The most unsettling thing is the best found on terb end up being the most popular SP, so you have to turn this gregarious trend into a one on one experience, without thinking about all the other hobbyist before or after you.

Unless it becomes another weird turn on of sharing a beautifull women with countless others. But that's kinda too weird to think about.

It's all about fantasy, intimacy and the pressure of a happy sexual relationship with a gorgeous babe that the media, the fiction world and the advertising community pounds on us.

Are we that free willed or just conditioned?

 

[Sargon]

Re: Your only concern should be keeping your hobby and expenses secret.

How about making sure you play safe for you and others?

That is part of keeping your hobby secret. You cannot keep it secret if you bring home a STD.

 

[sybaritic]

Re: Re: Your only concern should be keeping your hobby and expenses secret.

That is part of keeping your hobby secret. You cannot keep it secret if you bring home a STD.

As illustrated so well by jaycam's recent thread...

 

[Sargon]

Yes, and a good reason to avoid extra marital relations unless you first stop having sex with your wife. To wit, you could convince her that you are unable to have sex with her because of prostrate problems or due to side effects of prescription medications such as diabetes or high blood pressure medication.

You may be too young to use this strategy now but should keep it mind for future use.

 

[xarir]

Now I'm hooked. Is there any cure for my condition?

You're asking a bunch of sexual perverts if there's a cure?!

Welcome to TERB!

 

[sybaritic]

... first stop having sex with your wife.

But I like having sex with my wife, too! Thus the quandary...

 

[Sargon]

C'est la vie!

 

[Mcluhan]

Scene: A heavey Thunder breaks into the distance as Sybaritic decends onto the board.

A cloaked deamon crys out: "Abandon every hope, Ye who enter this place."

Hotel California plays softly in the background. There is a awakening of consciousness.

The damned sing out their praise in chorus.

Sybaritic feels comforted, and yet somehow.. alone.

There is still time he thinks...'time to save himself'

And yet...those lips...ahhh...those wonderful lips..

lol

Bravo Sybaritic !! Welcome A'Board ..

 

[DCork]

What?

This board has been around how long and no one has used the handle "Sybaritic" before!!??

How did you wind up here in our little online Pandora's box (retired SP?)? Same as the rest of us.

Consumer research.