Hobby $$$ Exposed By COVID?

[Goodoer]

Anyone have this problem?

Before COVID, I was able to hide my cash burn due to seeing SPs... Now with COVID locking shit down, I've had to cut down greatly in seeing SPs... My wife has noticed all the extra money we seem to have. I did not anticipate for this problem...

My new goal is to find a "Regular"... I may even have to risk things and find an affair partner.

 

[glamphotographer]

Open a Chines bank account.

 

[johnqh]

Lol, funny enough, totally know what you mean. I've been dry since Feb, and I've amassed a small fortune.

But look on the bright side... you can afford a few foursomes!

In the meantime, just be do what I assume everyone else is doing and stash it in a separate separate bank account. Try that Hong Kong bank, they don't want to know anything about who you are and what you do.

 

[Archer2012]

To late now for you - what a drag.
If I was still married I would have been stashing rolls of cash in a place my ex would never look - hide it insde the vacuum!

 

[johndoel1122]

You should consider finding a sugarbaby. Seeking.com is a good option. Just be careful. I have been on there for awhile and only recently found a sb that I provide an allowance and expenses. I have had many bad experiences.

I have never had any luck on this site. Do you have any tips you are willing to share ?

 

[skypilot68]

lol, why a chinese bank account when you could open a PC financial or Tangerine. online banking. i used to hobby twice a month and now only once in last 8 months. math will show significant amount of money. Never had any luck on seeking arrangement.

 

[boomboom]

set aside play money or cash & use as needed when the time comes. where you store it is up to you.

 

[IloveMe2345]

Its hit and miss. Consumes a lot of your time. I have found success with sbs who are in school or working. Best to start with dinner to see if you click. Establish expectations before.

I tried the site, and found most females on there are students for medical, or nursing. Yet when I asked them detailed questions in their field, they wouldn’t know. I think there are too many fake females on there. I’ve met two and it was hard to meet them, over dinner. I offered to pay for their time and dinner, no sex. They acted like I owed the world to them. It’s hard to keep the positive view on Toronto women. I do have a better experience with mpas, and sps

 

[kherg007]

Start stashing cash to keep your flow as before.

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

Anyone have this problem?

Before COVID, I was able to hide my cash burn due to seeing SPs... Now with COVID locking shit down, I've had to cut down greatly in seeing SPs... My wife has noticed all the extra money we seem to have. I did not anticipate for this problem...

My new goal is to find a "Regular"... I may even have to risk things and find an affair partner.

What was your cover story for the cashburn rate before? First thought is whatever you told her you were spending money on (i.e. golfing) was happening less now, no?

Or did you just burn cash and she never questioned it...and now that you're not burning cash she notices and is questioning? Just curious for a little more insight to the challenge you're facing.

 

[skypilot68]

Its hit and miss. Consumes a lot of your time. I have found success with sbs who are in school or working. Best to start with dinner to see if you click. Establish expectations before. My monthly budget has been 2 to 3k.

Most sbs need to be attracted to you to have the best relationship. My current sb has been my best arrangement in the past decade. No drama. No demands for extra cash. I like spending my time with her.

that is a big investment, 3x12=36k per year. good for you.

 

[coolmanfever]

Stash your cash somewhere no one knows the old school way like Mexican drug lord I.e. bury them under the soil and tree

 

[malata]

they makes good stuffing to keeps me warm. gonna be a cold one

 

[Fifi_ulla]

SB on seeking is crap as they are on average, entitled at $600 a meet and wanting 3k a month (this is my experience). This is because guys are desparate and willing to pay it so it sets the bar higher for everyone else. Unless someone knows a site that has women with more reasonable expectations. Hey it's a free market if the guys have money to pay good for them. The same guys also make the assumption that the girl is exclusive to them because they pay that much...nice fantasy but she's banging younger, more attractive guys at the same time for free on Tinder. Got to keep it real. No deal is guaranteed.

Want my advice OP? Buy a toy or hobby that can be a distraction with that money. Winter is coming - get a snowmobile, go skiing, learn to play golf indoors...do group activities that are still open. Is it frustrating putting in the work compared to the simplicity of hobbying? You bet. But you just might enjoy it and meet someone without the seeking bullshit that wants a drama-free fun time with someone like you.

 

[Fifi_ulla]

I tried the site, and found most females on there are students for medical, or nursing. Yet when I asked them detailed questions in their field, they wouldn’t know. I think there are too many fake females on there. I’ve met two and it was hard to meet them, over dinner. I offered to pay for their time and dinner, no sex. They acted like I owed the world to them. It’s hard to keep the positive view on Toronto women. I do have a better experience with mpas, and sps

I would never, ever offer to pay for someone's time to join me for a drink or dinner. That just sends a message implying I have no friends to talk to and this automatically raises the price...and entitled attitude.

 

[Phabulous]

SB on seeking is crap as they are on average, entitled at $600 a meet and wanting 3k a month (this is my experience). This is because guys are desparate and willing to pay it so it sets the bar higher for everyone else. Unless someone knows a site that has women with more reasonable expectations. Hey it's a free market if the guys have money to pay good for them. The same guys also make the assumption that the girl is exclusive to them because they pay that much...nice fantasy but she's banging younger, more attractive guys at the same time for free on Tinder. Got to keep it real. No deal is guaranteed.

Want my advice OP? Buy a toy or hobby that can be a distraction with that money. Winter is coming - get a snowmobile, go skiing, learn to play golf indoors...do group activities that are still open. Is it frustrating putting in the work compared to the simplicity of hobbying? You bet. But you just might enjoy it and meet someone without the seeking bullshit that wants a drama-free fun time with someone like you.

In my experience Tinder is even worse crap than SB or SA. Nothing but phishing scams trying to get you to enter Credit Card info.
Or ugly, fat and old.
What is a guy to do?

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

In my experience Tinder is even worse crap than SB or SA. Nothing but phishing scams trying to get you to enter Credit Card info.
Or ugly, fat and old.
What is a guy to do?

Go see an escort. The End.

 

[oakvilleguy]

What was your cover story for the cashburn rate before? First thought is whatever you told her you were spending money on (i.e. golfing) was happening less now, no?

Or did you just burn cash and she never questioned it...and now that you're not burning cash she notices and is questioning? Just curious for a little more insight to the challenge you're facing.

She sees the money and is already making plans to spend it. Whereas when there was less, she would still make plans, but just smaller plans to spend.

 

[glamphotographer]

I went back to the hobby in the summer when the numbers were low but now I shut it down.

 

[glamphotographer]

Maybe when this shit is all over we can organize an orgy with some fine ladies. Everyone stay safe, wear a mask, wash hands, and physical distance.