hired an escort, now i need help!!

[4everkasey]

As someone who works for this "pimp" (like really......just stupid). I can tell you that Steph is one of the most intelligent human beings I have ever met, not that she needs me to defend her to you. She is a sucessful business owner who understands this industry and has loyal and amazing woman that work for her PERIOD. It has become increasingly clear to me that you seem to be the type of person who doesnt have much good to say about anything......I have not read ALL your posts but I have yet to read anything positive from you. Maybe you should try it, you might find postive thinking less draining

I forgot the first thing they taught me at the shelter. Never try to have a discussion with a pimp / people who are living of the girls. They are master manipulators.
Your logic would imply that I was also putting down all shelter volunteers and claiming that being abused forced you to become a shelter worker. Pure bogus logic.
Anyway, I do not wish to chat with you . I dislike people putting words in my mouth.

 

[Vixens]

I forgot the first thing they taught me at the shelter. Never try to have a discussion with a pimp / people who are living of the girls. They are master manipulators.
Your logic would imply that I was also putting down all shelter volunteers and claiming that being abused forced you to become a shelter worker. Pure bogus logic.
Anyway, I do not wish to chat with you . I dislike people putting words in my mouth.

If that made any actual sense, we might actually be having a discussion. As it is, I feel no need to convince you of anything. Nor frankly, do I feel the need to answer insult with insult. It wouldn't be a level playing field anyway . Oops. Damn. Anyway, moving on...It's ok, you can take your toys and leave the sandbox. I'm crushed though. Really.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I happen to really love my job. Ask any of the 40 plus people who have positively reviewed me over the years. It's pretty evident. I'm managing to cover the rent

I can't speak for the other 39, but I for one am 100% positive Ms Jessica is having more than her share of fun (as do I), when her and I spend time together! :thumb:

 

[Vixens]

Steph I appreciate your comments The only issue with having her on ignore is that she gets to spew her fiction unchecked. I'm so glad someone else spoke up, thanks to you and Kasey for doing so. I'm apparently lying through my teeth about how much I enjoy this work because I might lose a client. I see the world through rose coloured glasses and I'm unrealistically positive about my clients. What a farce.

I happen to really love my job. Ask any of the 40 plus people who have positively reviewed me over the years. It's pretty evident. I'm managing to cover the rent

No need to convince me...I've worked with many many ladies who feel the same way. Keep doing what you do and let the haters hate. .

 

[Don]

Some of the reasons that I've seen coming up often in threads similar to this one:

Less likely with older men that feelings will get in the way
Less awkward for the lady because of the age difference
Less awkward for the lady because they often don't understand why a young guy needs to see a SP
Older men tend to tip better, or to bring gifts
Older men tend to be less of the wham, bam, thank you ma'am type; tend to take their time with the lady
Older men tend last longer in bed
Older men know (more) what they're doing
Because older men have more life experience, there is more to talk about with them
Older men have seen more of the world, there is more to talk about with them
Older men have better manners and are more considerate
Older men are more gentle; less interested in non-stop pounding
Older men have more self-confidence
Older men are less likely to ask the lady out
Repeat clients tend to be older clients; young guys just want to add a notch on their belt, they don't tend to be repeat clients

And the list goes on...

+1. Good list. Pretty much nailed it. If you look at independent SP sites, you'll find more than a few have a minimum preferred age limit. Usually 30, sometimes a little higher.

 

[turtlelover]

Wow...after looking at profiles Ive noticed many of you know who this girl is. As for the ones who commented about money being an issue for me, its not. I work in the summer and use the money for my personal interests(other than gas) like getting drunk. My parents have school and insurance covered so money is not an issue, although it would probably be better for me to save it instead of wasting it on a girl who would, as most of you seem to say, probably reject me.

As for the weird dude/girl/loki whatever it is can you please gtfo your throwing this thread off topic !!!!!!!!!

 

[mrsCALoki]

Wow...after looking at profiles Ive noticed many of you know who this girl is. As for the ones who commented about money being an issue for me, its not. I work in the summer and use the money for my personal interests(other than gas) like getting drunk. My parents have school and insurance covered so money is not an issue, although it would probably be better for me to save it instead of wasting it on a girl who would, as most of you seem to say, probably reject me.

As for the weird dude/girl/loki whatever it is can you please gtfo your throwing this thread off topic !!!!!!!!!

hun, long legs, long dark hair, small waist, largish breasts, and a pretty face. Is she the type of girl you can pick up at the library or the pub? Is she in your comfort range?

Landing an SP is a lot harder than landing an equally attractive civilian. So are you in her league?

Re you have plenty of money....... I think the guys are talking about at least seeing her for 5 to 10 hrs minimum a week for several weeks in a row. Are you in the price point range?

You are just some little college guy who finally got his rocks off with an attractive girl and is too naive to realize she brought fun to the business deal and you brought $. Period. Full stop.

You want more? Give her a chance to know you and be enchanted by your game. Just budget a few hundred hours on the clock.

 

[staggerspool]

Wow...after looking at profiles Ive noticed many of you know who this girl is. As for the ones who commented about money being an issue for me, its not. I work in the summer and use the money for my personal interests(other than gas) like getting drunk. My parents have school and insurance covered so money is not an issue, although it would probably be better for me to save it instead of wasting it on a girl who would, as most of you seem to say, probably reject me.

As for the weird dude/girl/loki whatever it is can you please gtfo your throwing this thread off topic !!!!!!!!!

The original topic is pretty much done. If money isn't a problem, just do it and then tell us what happened.

 

[Cypher]

Wow...after looking at profiles Ive noticed many of you know who this girl is. As for the ones who commented about money being an issue for me, its not. I work in the summer and use the money for my personal interests(other than gas) like getting drunk. My parents have school and insurance covered so money is not an issue, although it would probably be better for me to save it instead of wasting it on a girl who would, as most of you seem to say, probably reject me.

As for the weird dude/girl/loki whatever it is can you please gtfo your throwing this thread off topic !!!!!!!!!

Best discover ignore, otherwise best get used to that "dude/girl" with the irreparably damaged ego popping up everywhere.

Seriously, I've said something similar to other young posters before: There's are few older guys here, no matter how much money they have, that wouldn't change places with you in a heartbeat. Every time I go to the mall I ask myself the same thing: Were these 20 something girls this fucking hot when I was their age? The answer is they could have been, but they were not so sexually aware as they are today. You are coming of age in a golden age, my boy. Why waste time mooning and renting by the hour when you're surrounded by options? Go get them and have fun, you lucky dog.

 

[turtlelover]

hun, long legs, long dark hair, small waist, largish breasts, and a pretty face. Is she the type of girl you can pick up at the library or the pub? Is she in your comfort range?

Landing an SP is a lot harder than landing an equally attractive civilian. So are you in her league?

Re you have plenty of money....... I think the guys are talking about at least seeing her for 5 to 10 hrs minimum a week for several weeks in a row. Are you in the price point range?

You are just some little college guy who finally got his rocks off with an attractive girl and is too naive to realize she brought fun to the business deal and you brought $. Period. Full stop.

You want more? Give her a chance to know you and be enchanted by your game. Just budget a few hundred hours on the clock.

Im not a tits and ass guy and she doesnt work enough for me to see her that frequently. Personally I wouldnt be able to afford 5-10 hours a week either way at this point but still... all girls have emotions.

Are you trying to piss me off by including 'little' in that sentence? You did a good job.

 

[mrsCALoki]

oh my friend you're wasting your time. Don't let the trolls get you down, you're thread was a good one, don't let her ruin it. She says she worked as an escort for one day and of course has vast experience to share with us all. Go on her profile, look down the left and click the "add to ignore" option. You will be much, much happier.

Gee I wonder if dementia settling in early? One day? I worked for 4 months and pulled in $40,000. Jessica has a son your age, and is not that good at remembering basic facts.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Im not a tits and ass guy and she doesnt work enough for me to see her that frequently. Personally I wouldnt be able to afford 5-10 hours a week either way at this point but still... all girls have emotions.

Are you trying to piss me off by including 'little' in that sentence? You did a good job.

I will admit as a civilian I stopped seeing boys your age when I was 16 because they were just to immature. Any young attractive girl get hit on all the time. It is annoying. I just feel sorry for the girl.

 

[Ridgeman08]

Gee I wonder if dementia settling in early? One day? I worked for 4 months and pulled in $40,000. Jessica has a son your age, and is not that good at remembering basic facts.

Except by your OWN admission, you only had one client: Lord Loki (your alter ego), he was your first and only client and you say you eventually hooked up with him permanently, so you in effect were not an SP at all.... You were his paid mistress. (if you are in fact 2 people... which I'm not convinced you are.)

My head hurts!

 

[mrsCALoki]

Except by your OWN admission, you only had one client: Lord Loki (your alter ego), he was your first and only client and you say you eventually hooked up with him permanently, so you in effect were not an SP at all.... You were his paid mistress. (if you are in fact 2 people... which I'm not convinced you are.)

My head hurts!

Well hun. From most girls point of view they become escorts the fist time they open their legs for money. I had a very regular regular for 4 months. He put the envelope on the table and I gave him great sex.

This is not rocket science. No long term arrangement. Simple.

But if it makes you happy for you to believe what you want, than do so .

 

[Ridgeman08]

From most girls point of view they become escorts the fist time they open their legs for money. I had a very regular regular for 4 months. He put the envelope on the table and I gave him great sex.

I'm not making anything into anything... You are trying to imply that you have a world of knowledge on being an escort, but you weren't. You had ONE client. Wait, if you were the one client, as well as the escort, you'd be paying yourself to masturbate with yourself....

Oh FFS!... This is too confusing for me.

**places Loki on ignore**

 

[mrsCALoki]

Best discover ignore, otherwise best get used to that "dude/girl" with the irreparably damaged ego popping up everywhere.

Seriously, I've said something similar to other young posters before: There's are few older guys here, no matter how much money they have, that wouldn't change places with you in a heartbeat. Every time I go to the mall I ask myself the same thing: Were these 20 something girls this fucking hot when I was their age? The answer is they could have been, but they were not so sexually aware as they are today. You are coming of age in a golden age, my boy. Why waste time mooning and renting by the hour when you're surrounded by options? Go get them and have fun, you lucky dog.

Ok lets try one more time. I assume you go the school and occasionally eat at a campus cafeteria. Right? Now odds are good that maybe one of the girls working there is a 9 or 10, right?

Now lets pretend you decide to approach her the first time you see her and ask her on a date. Do you really think you have a chance? I worked on campus for 3 years. If I did not get hit on at least a few times a day I wondered if I had gotten splashed by the brown gravy all over my face (joke). A guy hits on me having seen me only once..... well pretty much no chance at all. If I have chatted with him a few dozen times and says "lets get a coffee after your shift", and he was clever and looked good, I might go.

Simple right? Now for an escort it is basically the same thing. PLUS a huge red flag because she knows you pay women for sex.

So why would you even think of going up to the sexy woman in the cafeteria and make a dumb move that makes it VERY unlikely you will get a chance to do it once she gets to know you?

The only possible chance you have is to get to know here. If you cannot afford that, just drop it.

Most part time escorts would jump at a $1,000 every Tuesday type client, unless she catches on that you are falling for her.

So do whatever you want.

 

[Roger Thorpe]

Under what circumstance did you meet Loki twice? Some industry party, that others may have attended?

You are one voice in a strong wind and details will help.

Sorry for the slow reply but I was out .Both times I met him were at the Brass Rail which I used to frequent at the time , w became freindly in chat and he said he wanted to come down for a drink and he would be bringing a ladyfriend which he did .I will leave her name out a this as she has nothing to do with it .He got Bonita a dancer at the Brass to dance for them , she is still there so you cn ask her if you think Im making this up .The secondtime was also at Brass about a year later,june 17th 2010 to be exact the nite of the other boards party at Club Paradise .He showed up that time with a different young lady while I fielded calls from the party from SP friends wondering why I didnt show.I dont recall them getting dances that nite.And yes this was all long before August 2012.I have finished my opening statement.

 

[mrsCALoki]

Uhm.. No.

Where do you get your stats from?

Maybe it only applies to girls under 40 ?

 

[freestuff]

If you got money to burn then go for it. Maybe you can rent her love (for a while).

 

[Goober Mcfly]

I've met Steph. I've met Jessica. Mr.Cal Loki, I haven't met him.

Take that as you may.