hired an escort, now i need help!!

[dtjohnst]

I feel like one of the most self conscious people on the planet. I when I'm at home or in school I'm in sweatpants and comfortable clothes but before I go out somewhere I obsess about how I look. I workout 5 or 6 times a week to take out my sexual frustrations and to keep up the muscle tone. I also constantly post pics to get rated on bodybuilding.com. I am self aware and I think my maturity level is normal, but my self confidence is horrible and needs work.

Why does your self-confidence depend on your looks? I used to have a toned body and thick hair, now I'm round and bald. And yet women approach me even, sometimes extremely beautiful ones, because I'm confident. I'm confident looks aren't that important to the kind of people I'm interested in, I'm confident that I'm friendly and kind, I'm confident that I'm intelligent and articulate. If you think the gym will fix your problems, then I propose you aren't tackling the root of the problem.

As for the OP, if you want to ask her out, ask her out. I she says no, respect it. But be prepared for the fact that she fucks guys for a living. Sure, some SP's stop working when they have a bf, but most don't. If you're the kind of guy who'd demand she quit her job, consider she probably isn't for you because will likely just lead to resentment.

 

[turtlelover]

You said that you got a free session for doing some lawn work. So the girl that you fell in love with is your second escort?
And yeah, I read that it's your dad's friend's escort agency but they're friends so you don't think he mentioned anything to your dad?

They never met, and the one he set me up with is the one I'm talking about but he doesn't know that and never will.

 

[turtlelover]

Why does your self-confidence depend on your looks? I used to have a toned body and thick hair, now I'm round and bald. And yet women approach me even, sometimes extremely beautiful ones, because I'm confident. I'm confident looks aren't that important to the kind of people I'm interested in, I'm confident that I'm friendly and kind, I'm confident that I'm intelligent and articulate. If you think the gym will fix your problems, then I propose you aren't tackling the root of the problem.

As for the OP, if you want to ask her out, ask her out. I she says no, respect it. But be prepared for the fact that she fucks guys for a living. Sure, some SP's stop working when they have a bf, but most don't. If you're the kind of guy who'd demand she quit her job, consider she probably isn't for you because will likely just lead to resentment.

At this point I dont care if she see's other guys its her job, and btw
No Pecs, No Sex
No Curls, No Girls
No Shrug, No Hugs
No Glutes, No sloots
No Balls, No calls
No Benches, No Wenches
No cuts, No Sluts
No rows, No hoes
No Squats, No Twats
No Lift, No tits
No traps, No clap
No money, No hunny
No rows, No blows
No dips, No nips
No bi's, No Creampie

 

[cuttysark]

They never met, and the one he set me up with is the one I'm talking about but he doesn't know that and never will.

Loki would be proud of that sentence!

 

[gltrotter]

no comment

 

[Young_City]

Seems like the lady you say is great at her job.

Everyone has experienced the same thing you experienced. Maybe it was an escort or stripper, but we've all had that one person who we can't stop thinking about. Trust me, I'm the worst when it comes to falling for someone and not being able to stop thinking about them (thankfully I'm good at exercising chill when it comes to texting/phoning them). I've just figured out what I need to do when I experience something like this, and that's to occupy myself with something, anything really.

This probably won't be the last time you experience something like this. Maybe it's a bartender or a waitress... who knows. Here is my advice, just do something, anything really. You're a young university student. You've got classes to worry about, a social life, etc. So, it really shouldn't be hard finding something to do to take your mind off of her. You may never forget about her, but you won't constantly be thinking about her.

And remember, she was doing her job. Sure, maybe she was attracted to you as well. I wouldn't recommend this (I don't see anything good coming from it), but if you really want a clear answer then book another appointment, ask her if she'd like to see you outside of work, or something along those lines.