hired an escort, now i need help!!

[fuji]

There are some fine women on UWO. Start looking at those . I don't think hiring an sp ever crossed my mind during my days in uni. Especially if you stay on or near campus.

+1

Look at the ratio of women to men in university these days. Those women are not only young, hot, and smart, a fair number of them cannot get a date on a Friday night because there aren't enough men to go around.

 

[staggerspool]

I show no signs of love interest when I'm there, I make sure of that. I want to but know that it would be a bad idea to. I am thinking of seeing her one more time and asking if she would see her clients outside the agency, worth a try IMO.

Be ready for a rude awakening. Not saying that is going to happen for sure, but it is pretty likely. If she DOES goes for it, is it ok with you if I fuck her? Or is she supposed to give up her job? If she doesn't go for it, last time, for sure.

 

[richaceg]

see an MP...just like taking nicorettes when you wanna quit smoking...

 

[rhuarc29]

Stop seeing her immediately! If you feel this way after one session, additional sessions will just reinforce it. It is highly, highly unlikely that anything good will come of going back. Most likely you'll get hooked on the feeling, spend a lot of cash, and either begin to want more or run out of available cash flow and literally crash when you can no longer get your fix. Appreciation and enjoyment is one thing in this industry, but falling in "love" is to be avoided. Keep in mind that an escort's livelihood depends on you having a good time, so she will say and do almost anything to make it so. It'll make them act differently than if you just happened to meet her say on campus.

I show no signs of love interest when I'm there, I make sure of that. I want to but know that it would be a bad idea to. I am thinking of seeing her one more time and asking if she would see her clients outside the agency, worth a try IMO.

And no, it's not worth a shot IMHO. Even if she agrees, you'll lose. She'll continue to see other men. Is that okay with you? No really, think about it. Are you okay that she's seeing other men, not only to fuck them but also discussing their personal lives, flirting with them, and pretty much having the same experiences you had with her? Escorts on here have lamented about how hard it is to have a relationship in this industry. They would know best, and several of them are here in this thread telling you to run.

What you are feeling now can also be experienced with a civilian girl, and it has much less potential for disaster. Stick to your campus until you're older and wiser emotionally. Good luck!

 

[harryass]

to OP's question. Book her for another hour and dont forget to bring money

 

[yolosohobby]

yolo sohobby

 

[Cypher]

None of this following, unsolicited advice is intended as insult. But you are very young and us older farts have all been through something akin and then so much more before gaining any level of emotional maturity. It's so easy to become infatuated at your age, it's practically mandatory. But it's a wide world and at your age it's just starting to be your oyster. You need a level of maturity to see SP's. The level of maturity that allows you to enjoy their company, feel genuine affection for them, but to know that it ends at the door, times up. The older you get, the more experience you have, the easier it becomes to compartmentalize your emotions - in a healthy way. Wanting is not needing, simple but true. And it should not control your behavior.

This is my long winded way of saying move on. There's so much more waiting for you and it's not nearly as expensive or illusory.

 

[Curious36]

I don't think it's a particularly good idea to ask her out. There's an extremely high chance that you're going to get rejected. But if you really like her, fuck it, take the chance.

Just try not to make it akward for her. Wait till you're about to leave, at the very end of the session, and give her your phone number. There's a 99.9999% chance she won't call you, but who knows, it's possible she's into you too. Just whatever you do don't ask her if she'll go out with you. That puts her in a really uncomfortable possition.

Effie

Some are saying take the chance....I'm saying that you are like a dog chasing a car. Reason being wtf are you going to do if you ever possibly catch the car/girl? She sleeps with other men for money...thats not a slight against her chosen profession, but reality. Imagine the love of your life sucking off another guy/having sex etc. Just take a moment, close your eyes and think about it. Now if you are truly honest with yourself and that is ok with you only THEN should you take the chance of asking her out. I highly doubt if you are truly honest with yourself that you would be ok with her profession once you develop TRUE feelings for this lady. She isnt going to quit the profession for you either, so forget that fantasy. You had some wonderful sessions....chock it up as such and date the wonderful girls that abound at the University. Man I miss those days. You owe it to yourself, and every other Terbite, to take advantage of that perverbial buffet of women that university life provides. Dont lose out on happiness by seeking out the unattainable.....

 

[Fred Zed]

Re: Hobbying while on OSAP

So I'm only 20 years old and back from university for the week.

What the f**k do I do? Been thinking about going with another one, not sure if it will help.

If you hire another escort and she fucks you even better than the last one what will you do ?

You should find yourself a horny girl there on campus, she may not be as experieced as an escort but that'll be cheaper and more convenient for you ! Back in my university days when I was your age I was getting laid almost daily
Keep in mind this hobby is highly addictive and very expensive also, unless you expect to inherit large sums of money that's something to keep in mind. And btw stay focused on your studies, it will be more fun to hobby after you graduate and are making big$$$.

 

[Thermopylae]

All of you advising this young fella not to proceed mean well. But it is absolutely the wrong advice. Let him proceed so he can learn one of the bitter lessons of life early on - do not mess with sex workers. Otherwise he may move on to another and another at great cost still carrying this illusion of grandeur.

One of the industry girls even volunteered about ten years ago that we could hang out. It took me over a year and huge $$$ to realize it was not going to happen. Having been bitten by a snake, I now run when I see a worm. A word to the wise is enough.

 

[wigglee]

London is a university town full of hot chicks.....if you can't hook up with some of them, try okcupid or something. If you want , you could see her one more time and tell her about your feelings and hand her your number at the end of the session....then see if she calls.....*crickets*

 

[turtlelover]

There are some fine women on UWO. Start looking at those . I don't think hiring an sp ever crossed my mind during my days in uni. Especially if you stay on or near campus.

Ya but I feel like I've passed the point of no return, can't settle for anything less than a 9/10. The fact that she's my age also doesn't help the situation. I also told my roommates that I hired an escort and they just said whats the matter with you lol.

 

[Intrigued]

Ya but I feel like I've passed the point of no return, can't settle for anything less than a 9/10. The fact that she's my age also doesn't help the situation. I also told my roommates that I hired an escort and they just said whats the matter with you lol.

Why would you tell them....? Unless you thought it might make you look "kool"

 

[Ridgeman08]

How about the opposite...

What happens when you see an SP, and she gets so enamored with you, she doesn't want you to see any other SP's? :Eek:

 

[turtlelover]

Why would you tell them....? Unless you thought it might make you look "kool"

that hard liquor, id assume this is something people take to the grave.

 

[staggerspool]

Ya but I feel like I've passed the point of no return, can't settle for anything less than a 9/10. The fact that she's my age also doesn't help the situation. I also told my roommates that I hired an escort and they just said whats the matter with you lol.

Well then, you're going to do it, aren't you?

Do you have the income to keep doing this and keep going to school as well? Are you willing to screw up your education by buying company of 9s and 10s an hour at a time? Are your parents paying part or all of your fees? How will you explain it to them?

I think you have a big lesson coming, and it may mess up your life. Wait until you can afford 9s and 10s. Life doesn't owe you 9s and 10s. You have to earn them, even if you are paying for them.

But if you've passed the point of no return, you don't need help. Just go do it, don't ask for advice you can't take.

 

[night ride]

But if you really like her, fuck it, take the chance.

Effie

You only live once, so take a chance and that way you won't regret what might have been. If it works out great and if not take your lumps and consider it a valuable lesson.

 

[Rockslinger]

Well then, you're going to do it, aren't you?

Yes, never advise a 20 year old NOT to do something. Mess up when you're young and you learned (if you are intelligent) a valuable life lesson for the rest of your life. Plus, most young people don't have a pot to pee in so can't lose much financially.

 

[turtlelover]

And how will this benefit you? Will you still be paying her? More than likely. Does this put her job at risk? Again more than likely. So what really have YOU gained?
If you're going to ask her out, ask her out but be prepared for the answer and respect it. Period.

As a side note, by far one of the biggest complaints I get from the ladies we represent is clients asking for their personal information.
Some men treat it as a game, others develop "feelings" and some truly feel that as an agency, we exploit the ladies we represent and convince themselves that by going outside the boundaries they are "helping them". Rarely are any of these based in reality. Some ladies will take you up on the offer....most wont. Either way as a general rule you're still paying and that will rarely turn into a meaningful relationship.

What you fell for is chemistry and an experience. You know nothing of who she is. You've met her 2 or 3 times? Do not mistake that for love. Good luck.

do you work for this agency?

 

[fuji]

do you work for this agency?

Lol. It's her agency.