HELP joined this site last nite, completely clueless on here

[normalhumanmale]

Noob here, looking for help.

Messaged Katt, Miss Rain, and a couple other prominent hi quality reviewed, (posting) women on here to no avail.

Simply put, can a quality woman message a clean, no drama, respectable potential client like me to discuss a meeting without myself getting robbed?

I'm an average looking fella in Oshawa trying out this site for the first time, and if you require pictures beforehand for standards etc no problem!
...I'll send them via cell or facebook.

Thanks to any who reply

 

[cunnilinguist]

Noob here, looking for help.

Messaged Katt, Miss Rain, and a couple other prominent hi quality reviewed, (posting) women on here to no avail.

Simply put, can a quality woman message a clean, no drama, respectable potential client like me to discuss a meeting without myself getting robbed?

I'm an average looking fella in Oshawa trying out this site for the first time, and if you require pictures beforehand for standards etc no problem!
...I'll send them via cell or facebook.

Thanks to any who reply

Not all of them are on here all the time. Some of these women have to be contacted through their websites or the Leoslist ad.

 

[Alyosha]

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...durham_xina_in_pickering_905_550_4317-3544400

Xian is in Pickering, but a great provider in my experience.
https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...t_suited_for_the_massage_lover_oshawa-3546114

Katt is a real nice down to earth girl. Her roommate, Sara is loads of fun...try a duo? On my bucket list for sure.

I haven't seen Jessica Rain or Amy yet, but I am confident they would be good solid choices. Also on my bucket list.

 

[bcd]

...Simply put, can a quality woman message a clean, no drama, respectable potential client like me to discuss a meeting without myself getting robbed?...

No one has actually answered your question yet. The short answer is yes. The longer answer is do you homework, use the Search function/field at the top of the page and search the name of a lady you are interested in seeing to find some reviews. If any reviews of the lady exist of course. There have been a couple of instances recently on this site where clients reported just what your concern is; getting robbed by a quality, well reviewed provider. Both circumstances involved e-tranfers of money. Lost and never to be seen again. My recommendation is never do that. Others on here have no issue with making an e-transfer to book an appointment. To each their own I suppose.

 

[oldjones]

Noob here, looking for help.

Messaged Katt, Miss Rain, and a couple other prominent hi quality reviewed, (posting) women on here to no avail.

Simply put, can a quality woman message a clean, no drama, respectable potential client like me to discuss a meeting without myself getting robbed?

I'm an average looking fella in Oshawa trying out this site for the first time, and if you require pictures beforehand for standards etc no problem!
...I'll send them via cell or facebook.

Thanks to any who reply

Welcome to the Board, I hope you enjoy yourself. It's really intended as a Review board, not a meeting or hook-up site, so you'll probably not get quite the responses it sounds like you were hoping for, but you may get some. I'd suggest your best bet would be to take some time, read as much as you can —even if it's just the titles — in the Forums that interest you (there's a few that specifically cover Durham) even if all you do is get some of the names that attract the most attention fixed in your mind. Follow up reading some reviews, and get at least a vague SOP clarified: Like booking by phone or text, who has websites and such; paying on entry, like at theatres; how massage parlours operate differently from incalls and how they're similar, … all those many details that make for happy hobbying, and a confident customer.

The best thing that sort of general reading will give you is that confidence: In the population of providers TERBian's tell each other about, there may be some disappointing sessions, but robberies and actual cheats and scams are extremely rare. After a bit of educating yourself through reviews, I'd bet you'll be able to answer your own question about who to call for your first session, and have an easy time putting yourself in their expert hands, … or other skilled parts.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

You did nothing wrong on contacting me here. My PM box was/is full. I will message you this afternoon.

As for the rest, the guys here will continue to give great advice. I would ask them about things like pics, etc. Some of us screen and for good reason. Some men do not screen and for good reason. You have to weigh your own risks. I personally would not ask for pics. Can't see Amy or Katt doing it either. Ladies will tell you their screening process. I will say, and ladies will shoot me but you are a newbie - do not do deposits. You are not experienced enough to know who is safe.

Welcome to the Board.

 

[thumper18474]

While researching reviews is a must
Always keep in mind that what 1 of us experienced..may not be what you will
If you read a review and think ...yeah THATS what i want, you could come away disappointed.after a session
YMMV..always comes into play in that what 1 hobbyist experiences may differ from what you will.

Other info
Be respectful
Be clean and fresh
NEVER negotiate a price..either agree or find another in your pice range
When your time is up...leave...dont linger unless she initiates it...
Being a newbie.. go with experience....

The learning curve will be as steep as you make it
You'll make mistakes..learn from them
Good Hunting

 

[Bickle]

Probably these tips are covered already, but:
1) after doing your research, check and see if there's a current ad on leolist, or if a personal website is involved, that your chosen one isn't travelling. People take breaks.
2) pay attention to communication protocols. Some don't like texting, or emails, or .... And most will not accept blocked calls, so check the privacy settings on your phone, and don't use payphones. (Like you could find one!)
3) no response can just mean 'busy'. Try someone else. Try again later. And when you do connect - seize the moment.
Good luck!

 

[squeezer]

Some good advice here but I'd be careful about sending your pic everywhere unless you don't care where it may end up one day. If you're going to give pic and personal information be sure it's a reputable provider that has been around for a while with solid reviews. You can even PM the reviewer for extra insight.

 

[haliburton]

In my opinion durham seems very sketchy. I believe that it possible to have a good experience but from reading this board I feel there is a higher percentage chance of having a bad experience.


here is something I read in another thread which is the route I planning on taking as a newbie

I think using Cupid's is a good choice for a new hobbyist. While there are certainly wide variations in experience mainly due to individual preferences everyone on their roster meets a certain standard that is set by Jillian (and I here she is picky) so you really will not have a bad experience, its just a matter of finding the best. Furthermore, they all provide the standard "extended" services (including BBBJ and DFK and DATY), are well coached on how to conduct them selves and have good hygiene (they are supposed to take a shower after each session albeit some skip this sometimes lol). I have experience with the independent escorts and there are some that are good for beginners but there are wider variations on the services provided and the type of encounter that you will have in the independent world so its best to first try the standard encounter with a girl you know will be professional and attractive. DO NOT use any of the listing websites (leolist, backpages, craiglist ) for your first time TRUST me I have had HORRIBLE experiences from those with the occasional Gem in there.

 

[bcd]

...Here is something I read in another thread which is the route I planning on taking as a newbie

I think using Cupid's is a good choice for a new hobbyist...

Just so the OP nhm and anyone else who is considering Cupid's is aware, their service is Outcall only. Not always, or rarely for some, a convenient option.

 

[haliburton]

for sure bcd...but many other great options for incall in Toronto...just saw that comment and more specifically the last sentence.

 

[cunnilinguist]

Just so the OP nhm and anyone else who is considering Cupid's is aware, their service is Outcall only. Not always, or rarely for some, a convenient option.

Thanks for the reminder. I had used Cupid's in the past, and forgot why I stopped. My place is never an option- SPs don't tend to like dog hair (You can never clean up all of it).

sooo, given that I don't mind a jaunt into the city or Markham, what are the better agencies if one is looking for quaity service at fair hh prices?

 

[normalhumanmale]

thanks all for the info and valued opinions etc.....appreciated

 

[normalhumanmale]

can someone tell me what the heck all the abbreviations used on here mean?

for example bcd, dfk, daty,sop clarified....and other common used ones please and thank you

 

[bcd]

can someone tell me what the heck all the abbreviations used on here mean?

for example bcd, dfk, daty,sop clarified....and other common used ones please and thank you

DFK = Deep French Kissing
DATY = Dining at the Y (oral on her)
SOP? SOG maybe? 1 shot on goal = 1 opportunity to get your rocks off
MPOS = Sex in multiple positions
CBJ, BBBJ =Covered/Condom blow job or bare back blow job

You can find more by searching on Urban Dictionary or another site for sex related acronyms.