Having an affair

[Celticman]

I've had an affair with 2 different woman this past year and it sucks having to sneak around or look over your shoulder every time you are out with her. Unless you are looking for a no strings attached affair, it will only hurt you and her...

On that basis, would you do it again?

 

[Eddie401]

See for me it's about fucking. That's a good thing. You seem to want to upgrade to "fucking someone over". Not such a good thing.

 

[rgkv]

Advice or validation?

advice.....As a general contractor people ask me what I do....I always just say, there's only one thing I don't do....
I don't do another mans wife.........

 

[wazup]

I had an affair with a married woman. I went into it with no expectations and it was supposed to be just for fun. However, I fell in love with her which I didn't plan and then it had to end. It was very painful so you need to decide if it's really for you or not.

Thus the fleshlight purchase.

 

[Terminator2000]

On that basis, would you do it again?

im guessing his answer would be, 'yes'

 

[rubirosa]

Had a few good encounters through AM but at the end of the day it's hardly worth the effort since it is a very competitive place... The last woman had too many hurdles to jump before getting naked and I lost interest in AM altogether. I even had one that only wanted to get it on in the truck I had instead of getting a room. All the time she was blowing me, I couldn't get the thought of her poor bastard hubby out of my head although it never seems to bother Mr Happy. I banged her, blew my load on her and never saw her again. Part of the fun is the pursuit I guess but it can end ugly. IMHO, stick to single gals.

 

[blackrock13]

advice.....As a general contractor people ask me what I do....I always just say, there's only one thing I don't do....
I don't do another mans wife.........

People ask you about women a lot? Yet, it is good advise.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I don't do another mans wife.........

I've heard it referred to as the "Bro code".

Pursuing another man's GF/ wife is the lowest form of human scum. You just don't do it.

 

[Varmitt]

You know the difference between sex for money and sex for free?..."sex for money is cheaper"

 

[pusher69]

Only the 2nd day into the new year... but I have to vote this the dumbest thread of 2013.

Like others have mentioned...how would you feel if you spouse decided to have an affair with another man?

 

[destillat]

I've heard it referred to as the "Bro code".

Pursuing another man's GF/ wife is the lowest form of human scum. You just don't do it.

Married women look for a reason. If they aren't getting it at home, they'll go elsewhere.
I have fucked so many mid-40s women that are bored at home that I have lost count.
And ALL of them have repeatedly tried to get the spark back, but the duds at home are more interested in drinking Coors and watching NFL.
It's all about supply and demand.

 

[highpark]

The whole affair thing is very intriguing. If my so had an affair I'd want it to be with a rich guy. Maybe he could relieve me of a burden.
How does AM work. How do u pay. Wouldn't it leave a paper trail ?

 

[Ridgeman08]

Married women look for a reason. If they aren't getting it at home, they'll go elsewhere.
And ALL of them have repeatedly tried to get the spark back, but the duds at home are more interested in drinking Coors and watching NFL.

Then why do they stay with their loser husbands then?

Were you aware of the fact that they were married? If they kept that part of their life private, then you can't be faulted...

 

[destillat]

Then why do they stay with their loser husbands then?

Were you aware of the fact that they were married? If they kept that part of their life private, then you can't be faulted...

You'd have to ask them why they stay. Kids? Stability? Who knows.
The only 'fault' is with the lame husbands.
The women I see are all very attractive and highly sexual.
The losers at home deserve getting fucked around on behind their backs.
If you have a beautiful woman at home who loves getting fucked and you don't satisfy her, you only have yourself to blame.

 

[blackrock13]

The whole affair thing is very intriguing. If my so had an affair I'd want it to be with a rich guy. Maybe he could relieve me of a burden.
How does AM work. How do u pay. Wouldn't it leave a paper trail ?

Take FUJI's outlook on this. He figures it's okay for him to have a little strange on the side, but if his wife did she's be out on the curb faster than you could blink. Don't you just love it. This coming from the guy that says his wife won't let him by another parka from MEC. We won't bring up the weekends up north with her when he spends time posting on TERB while she's asleep. Ah hell, sure we will.

 

[Chimpanzeethat]

I don't think you really "get"the whole N.Y. resolution thing...

 

[Ridgeman08]

You'd have to ask them why they stay. Kids? Stability? Who knows.
The only 'fault' is with the lame husbands.
The women I see are all very attractive and highly sexual.
The losers at home deserve getting fucked around on behind their backs.
If you have a beautiful woman at home who loves getting fucked and you don't satisfy her, you only have yourself to blame.

Terb attracts the most interesting people. Congratulations.

 

[TeasePlease]

I think my new years goal is to fuck a non-SP woman whose married.
For those of you who have done this, any advice?
Is there a right way to go about bringing this idea to a woman?

Assuming that you're not married, I hate to break it to you....you won't be having an affair, only she will

 

[rubirosa]

In reality, stepping out on your significant other (he or she) isn't much different than married guys visiting sp's occasionally...can be risky but i know that had I stepped out while married to my ex, I would still be married to her and better off financially. A female friend of mine told me once she had an affair which saved her marriage and they're still married today-15 years later. Living a lie? I guess so but it was what she needed at the time and who am I to judge her? I doubt her hubby ever found out though. To each their own but be careful who's wife you're banging as it can backfire on you.
I gave it up so I wouldn't have to deal with a jealous husband. I believe there's many married women out there that want or are having affairs but not all of them are smart and careful or have the stomach to keep it discreet. That's when your identity might be given up. Then the fun really starts.
Kinda off topic but I knew a guy once who was living with someone then chased and married the new girl in our office only to get caught trying to cheat on her shortly after getting married. His wife was smarter than he was about computers and figured out what he was doing. She set him up for a discreet meeting and there he was, flowers in hand only to find his wife at the meeting place...ooops! I felt bad for her and pissed off at him (cause I wanted her and he won!). Love and sex can be a messy biz.

 

[fuji]

Take FUJI's outlook on this. He figures it's okay for him to have a little strange on the side, but if his wife did she's be out on the curb faster than you could blink. Don't you just love it. This coming from the guy that says his wife won't let him by another parka from MEC. We won't bring up the weekends up north with her when he spends time posting on TERB while she's asleep. Ah hell, sure we will.

I post on terb from my mobile phone. She likes me to come shopping with her and look at the shoes she is trying on--I post on terb a lot those days too, sitting in the shoe store with my mobile phone.