Having an affair
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You notice he didn't comment on the double standard? If I was with a women and 'we' were shopping the last thing I'd be doing was posting on TERB.
I just don't buy it.
For the first three or four years I really did try to care more about shoes. I pay more attention in dress shops, but even there my interest wanes around the fifth dress.
I enjoy walking and talking between the shops, and stopping for coffee. When she starts trying on every shoe in the store, I surf on my phone.
I notice I am not alone, there are usually a few other guys sitting around surfing on their phones too.
Yup, it's so much more fun if he turns out to be the type person who knows someone who knows some goons who like to work people over.
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Oh where oh where are you JOE!!!!!!!:hail:
Oh where oh where are you JOE!!!!!!!:hail:
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I would never pursue a married woman but if she is the one who initiates things, I don`t seem to have a problem with that.
I don't think you can pursue such a goal with ambition. Those things happen by chance.
I know of two but honestly, I don't want affairs, just encounters which aren't a regular thing, and only if the right circumstances arise.
You have to be careful. Things can get complicated and you can get caught.
I know of two but honestly, I don't want affairs, just encounters which aren't a regular thing, and only if the right circumstances arise.
You have to be careful. Things can get complicated and you can get caught.
Been down that road. Things can get complicated and messy with kids, etc. And if you are into a serious one (like I was), it may take a long time, but the spouses will find out. In our case we both had noting to lose in that regard - i.e. neither spouse was worth keeping. However - it still made for some tense moments at discovery - and you really do feel bad for the other involved. Also you can not predict what the other party you are involved with will do or not do - mine didn't hide anything - would say after a while she almost deliberately left things where they could be found by her spouse.
Having said that - I had an awesome relationship with this woman, sadly after that, most are hard to live up to her. However, we had a great run, almost 8 years, and I would not have wanted to miss that. - And we are still really close friends.
If your marriage is expendable, you have a right to be intimate with someone (something friends with good marriages can't quite grasp).
However, my advice is that if you are married to someone decent and worth it, Think twice.
Having said that - I had an awesome relationship with this woman, sadly after that, most are hard to live up to her. However, we had a great run, almost 8 years, and I would not have wanted to miss that. - And we are still really close friends.
If your marriage is expendable, you have a right to be intimate with someone (something friends with good marriages can't quite grasp).
However, my advice is that if you are married to someone decent and worth it, Think twice.
Had an ex contact me recently after about 15 years. She married with kids. Sending me naked pics and dirty talk. Set dates to hook up a few times and for one reason or another I canceled. I decided I do not want to reignite with an ex for many many reasons. This woman is smoking hot with a fitness instructors body, but I'm not so sure about how discreet she may be. Also, I wouldn't want emotions to come in which could affect either of our situations. So, I passed and although it would have been a ton of fun, I know my decision is right. And to the op, my name ends with a vowel...and ... if I caught you sniffing around
