Have you dated interacially?

[Imdrunk]

Sadly I've most dated my right hand. One thing I've observed is that most couples seem to date their own race or nationality. We all have the same body parts but what did you find challenging beyond sex. If they were foreign was broken English a problem, culture differences etc.

Can nobody start their response with 'In this day and age' please. This could also mean a white Canadian dating a white polish person, etc., was there a cultural difference among countries.

Im vanilla white but see mostly Asian providers btw.

 

[Olololo]

Yes, my last girlfriend was Ethiopian. Another gf was Korean.

 

[Brill]

People tend to stick to their own kind, they don’t look for trouble.

 

[Ghbff]

All of my relationships have been interracial relationships except for one which was my first girlfriend. Albeit half of my relationships were with women who we shared a similar culture so we both never felt out of place around each other’s family and friends.

 

[Jenesis]

My first boyfriend of two years in high school was Pakistani. After that was Italian, Jamaican, Ukrainian. Last one was Scottish if I remember right. He was born here and totally a typical white guy. Same with the Ukrainian. The others had very culturally involved lives.

 

[Sinfulmarv]

I’ve dated women of English, French and Irish descent. Also Korean and Chinese, both Canadian-born and international students, as well as Vietnamese and Thai.

There can be language barriers, especially with the parents. There are cultural norms to consider. Where the West values things like independence, a lot of Asian cultures you end up marrying more than just the woman, but her family. It's not uncommon to take care of parents in their advanced age rather than ship them off to retirement homes.

I've found Korean-Canadians to have strong communities and in-group proclivities. Chinese-Canadians are more of a mixed bag. Some of them grew up in churches and only really socialize with Chinese, others are have weak ties to their culture and more out there. The first generation or international students are completely different from Canadian-born counterparts, and far more homogenous.

 

[luvdog]

Most of my relationships have been with Caucasian women.
It is a preference, as I don't like to date people of my own nationality.
The women of my ethnicity I see as sisters, so it turns me off dating them, especially the accent.

I actually prefer interracial relationships because I like dating women different from myself.
Usually, the issue is not the person I date, but the family and friends around them.
As a minority, sometimes I find people tend to distrust you.

I get annoyed when someone says, "why don't you date _____________ women?
Dating is complicated enough without that mindset.

LD

 

[Dartman]

Asian and Black

 

[xmontrealer]

Lots of Christian white ladies and a few black ladies, also Christians, way back in my pre-marital days.

 

[jalimon]

Ho yes I dated a red head for a few years

 

[bluesparks]

I am SEA dated a Caucasian female of Polish ancestry before then a Chinese girl in college.

Are they different? Yeah, but largely the same to me lmao. The same issues and BS.

 

[angrymime666]

yup mixed black and white girl. man I loved to fuck her. long ringlet hair, booty with double ds that did not require a bra. physically fit, intelligent, great job, soft spoken and feminine.

sadly she wanted to have kids with me so I cancelled the hams and broke up with her.

 

[Charlie_]

Yes, but married a girl of my own race. In the end, considering family and extended family, it would probably be easier this way.

 

[danmand]

My first gf/wife was same as me, henceforth mixed, Korean, Chinese, Malay

 

[New World]

I am Canadian born of Chinese descent. All my Girlfriends have been Caucasian or Asian. What's crazy is

1. The Caucasian girls say to me "I though you only liked Asian girls"..

2. The Asian girls say to me " I thought you only like Caucasian girls"..

 

[Imdrunk]

My appendix burst many years ago, the pain was unbearable. Just when I wanted an old nurse with mole on her face with hair growing out of it, of course it had to be a young Chinese smoke show. I complained non stop about the pain, she was getting tired of it after a while.

 

[Imdrunk]

I am Canadian born of Chinese descent. All my Girlfriends have been Caucasian or Asian. What's crazy is

1. The Caucasian girls say to me "I though you only liked Asian girls"..

2. The Asian girls say to me " I thought you only like Caucasian girls"..

I would say the same about chinese, most seem to be with chinese guys.

 

[bestman007]

I'm all for diversity and inclusion. I've dated ladies from so many different cultures and religions. If you reside in Toronto you have access to international beauties who fulfil a desire by 'hooking up ' with us canucks!

Just don't fall in love with an Indian/Pakistani gal. You'll be their forbidden pleasure but that's about it.... and yes, I'm speaking from plenty of experience!

 

[Darts]

I see a lot of white male/Chinese woman couples. Mark Zukerberg is an example.

My favourite female race/ethnicity is blonde blue eyed like my first.

BTW: I notice in TV commercials almost every couple is black male/white woman.

 

[Goodoer]

I've never dated interracially. Could never get a sniff. Same went for my friends.

Anecdotally, I went to a school where white people were a minority... I was attracted to the girls I was around; you get to know them, laugh with them, etc. Be it Portuguese, East Indian, Jamaican, etc., whatever, I found their cultures (fathers, brothers, dudes) really isolated their women. It was like they were supervised and kept away from my snow-whiteness... Decades ago, my parents would have stressed out if I dated a "minority"... Today, they hope their grandsons marry someone non-white as they like the family-oriented cultures. They dread white chicks.

Out of school and young 20s, the segregation happened 'naturally'? White chicks were on you. That's who was available... Where did the other ladies go?

Also anecdotally, using my white female coworkers as a recent example, they're married to their white-ass husbands, but boast about the different races/cultures they've been with as if they're collecting badges... It comes up a lot and it came up a lot when dating more independent women... I've never heard dudes talk of women this way.

Again... All anecdotally as per my experience. I'm getting old.