Have you been asked what race you are by SP's

[MuffinMuncher]

There are minority SPs in the city who hate seeing Caucasian men but do it because its a job; its not always the other way around.

Providers do not always get to pick their clients, which is why many ladies work as independents. Much easier to control who you see when you do the booking. I'd rather an SP is honest about who they choose to see. It may not be politically correct, but do you really WANT to be with a provider who is only thinking about how much longer she has to tolerate being near you?

It would be different if Toronto had 3 escorts and 2 of them were racists, but its not like you dont have 500 other options to choose from.

 

[dudey31]

same experience

It's not just the "It's her body" argument, if a person (any person) has some consistently bad experiences with people of a certain ethnicity then they will conclude that it's not worth the trouble to bother with them. Simply put, just a few jerks can ruin it for the rest of the people.

We have this same thread/discussion every few months and I've asked a few SPs and MPAs just generally about their experiences and even I can conclude that there are certain ethnicities out there who the girls don't prefer and it's definitely not black or Asian since that's where it seems this thread is going.

apparently same applies for some of the outcall girls too (especially ee's) based on their past experiences and not any preconvieved notions they had. its probably more difficult for them to deal with though because they generally have to see the client period. its unfair but they do have their preferences but realize that generalizations are not set in stone.

 

[Rosie O'donell]

This topic reminds Rosie of a story from years gone by...

Some buds were at a restaurant that another bud owned...
Later on into the night, the owner's feeling a bit randy after playing pool and drinking at his restaurant. At this, he feels for some Asian 'food' and decides to call up an Asian escort since the restaurant's now closed.
Long story short...
She arrives but he's too far gone to complete the transaction.
Being a real bud, another guy steps in to save the day (after all, he's not paying and one should NEVER waste the p*ssy).
He does her right on the pool table, as his buds cheer on...
After a rather lame experience, he's a total gentleman when she asks, "So, how was it?", to which he respectfully exclaims, "It was good."
Upon payment, she then says, "Normally, I wouldn't have come if I'd known you guys were Indian. I don't really like Indian guys", as she dressed.
NOTE: Yes, they are brown skinned, but they are not Indian (not that there's anything wrong with being Indian).

All Rosie could say to that is....and I quote.....WTF?!?!

 

[originalserena]

Ok....Let me ask you guys this.....

If an sp choses not to see a gentlman for what ever reason...race, age, location, required servies that one might not provide she is automatically labled as a racist, bigot or being sterotypical...etc....

But it is ok for some of you to only see certain types of SPs....white, asian, latina, black, purple or green.....So what does that make you lovley gentlemen?

Everyone has a preference........


~OS~

 

[Guy7]

Yaa by one Cougar SP who has lots of tantrums & makes so many conditions that one is much better off not seeing such a lady, who is just a waste of time & no sense argueing with such a person who still thinks she has a figure like 21 yrs old, but she is sadly mistaken & now a days she hardly gets much clients, & is seen on this forum hunting for some
In this biz Caste, Creed, or race has no place, the concerned SP gets her tributes that is what she is offering her services, she can choose to refuse anyone that's her progative,but she has no right to ask about anyone's race, its a question of privacy, nor she should ask other private personal questions, rather she should lookout for some other biz with her advance age.

 

[somedude]

please don't tell me your comparing what you went through with asian incalls to what people go through on a daily basis are you???

Please don't tell me that you didn't know he is the famous 5th............gent!
lol

 

[ruck]

please don't tell me your comparing what you went through with asian incalls to what people go through on a daily basis are you???

While I can validate the racism that is faced by all minority races, please do not try to downplay the racism that white people face.

It's a double edged knife. How do you separate racism into classes? You can't. Racism is all encompassing. If you hate black folks, you are a racist. Regardless of the fact that you may like asian folks.

Believe it or not, white people face racism on a daily basis. The only difference is that they have been made into a sort of clown. You can laugh at them and make fun of them and everyone will laugh. It's still not acceptable in my eyes.

So people, don't compare racist scenerios and say one is not comparable to the other. Racism is racism. Period.

 

[zack10]

IMO is not really a racist thing when a girl won't see someone based on race. It's their choice really, because remember: This is a physical service, and if a girl is physically turned off by someone's look, it's her body and should be her decision. She just might not be attracted to a certain race, and it's a lot like one of us refusing to see a girl based on her looks (for example if one doesn't like overweight providers etc...)... Like someone else said: Her body, her choice.
Having said that, of course there are exceptions and racist people out there. If a girl won't see someone for example based on a generalization like: "Those guys smell" or "Those guys are rough with girls", then it's racist... but if it's based simply of physical attraction, I don't think it is.

 

[LancsLad]

Please note that Choochoo has not posted since this bomb was lobbed.

 

[ruck]

Having said that, of course there are exceptions and racist people out there. If a girl won't see someone for example based on a generalization like: "Those guys smell" or "Those guys are rough with girls", then it's racist... but if it's based simply of physical attraction, I don't think it is.

So in your definition this girl is racist. She uses a blanket rule on people she will provide to.

I still say who cares.

 

[TRX]

I'ved been asked one time by a reputable agency while I'm booking for one of there girl, because of my accent sounds like the race that the girl scared of. after I told my background of origin, he explain to me that most of there girls doesnt want to see this certain race because most of the girls had experienced that majority of these race are demanding and abusive. I think anyone should not be offended if they asked for what race you belong and not to make an issue as racist as individual has fear based on there bad experienced. If you belong to the race that they are scared of, moved on and look for someone else.

 

[DirtyDave]

If anyone ever asked me I would respond " I am of the Human Race".

 

[CHOOCHOO]

It is funny I am from South Africa and White, but have a ancient that most would consider West Indian. Personnaly I think it is personnel choice but the way it was put forth was let just say tasteless.

Toronto is a great city with many choices have fun!!!

 

[hapkido]

As a test I would say in the sincerest tone "I'm very good looking and I will double the price to see ya".

If anyone ever asked me I would respond " I am of the Human Race".

 

[DirtyDave]

I would love to see a white guy from South Africa that moved to the states. For government forms , loans, etc he could check "African American" even though he is white. Thats why I dont like the term. It discriminates against non-blacks that emirgrated to the US from Africa. It also discriminates against people with black skin from other countries.

 

[womenser]

There are some posts which describe that it is a sp choice who she wants to see and who she does not .first of all she in this business to make money she can say I dont want to see a handsome asian man but willing to see an ugly fat white man and if she does that then she is racist secondily some people talking about sp is not attractive to color people, it sounds to me all handsome people are white and ugly one are non white please wise up.further more ,there is suggestion that like us i.e hobbyists have choice to pick a sp how come a sp does have that choice? to sum up that assertion we are buyers who like the best products and we know what a sp looks like we c make that decision on seeing her picture but If I say I dont want to see white sp because Iam not attractive to them and paint tthe picture with wide brush thaen I am a racist and not preferential client

 

[Mongrel4u]

This is a independent business. This is a business where every women should have their choice just as you men do on who you see. Part of the problem with this business is there are some women out there that can't pick and choose. Granted there are many ladies out there that like men of all races, ages and sizes and this does not become and issue for them. Having said that, to sit here and claim that every lady needs to leave their "preferences at the door" because you are paying for their body is okay - I am sorry but I have to disagree. You need consent to pay for that body that you are using and that consent comes from the lady. If she doesn't want to see you for whatever reason that is 100% her right. This should be for every women in this business even those from the street to agency to MPA to dancer to porn star.

I think you got me wrong. I'm not saying she doesnt have the right to see who she wants... its a free country she can do whatever she wants as far as I care. But with every action there are consequeunces... so if she chooses not to see someone based on race the result is she may very well be labelled a racist, or un professional or both; maybe she doesnt give a flying f*ck, or maybe she does... but just how its her right to see whomever, its also anyone else's right to an opinion. Its a two way street KWI.

In this case, I'm not sure if shes a racist (wouldnt be surprised if she actually was though) but I think shes probably not right for this business because she has the wrong mindset...and thats my opinion just like its someone else's opinion that she may be racist.

I just find it funny how many SPs will say that its "only a job" when the issue of their occupation comes up...yet when the reality sets in its "not simply a job... its a personal thing".

Ultimately this is a business and should be treated as such. A kitchen appliance repair service is an independant business. You mean to tell me that you wouldnt find anything wrong with the repair guy asking what race you were before he came over to fix your Frigidaire?

 

[dudeboy]

Honestly in this business who really cares if they dont want to see you. Just see someone else. These people advertsie on thier site that they "hold a degree forma prestigious well known university" yet dont seem to be a able to get a respectful job, but become whores with preferences now.

 

[Back Burner]

I know a SP can choose to see who ever she wants. That's pretty much a given. And sure there are plenty of SP's to choose from. But it's not as easy to just brush it off and move on as some of you think. Many guys see SP's because of the "non-rejection" factor. Now to be rejected over something you have no control over? Kind of adds insult to the situation. I don't know if this particular SP is a racist or not. But it sure sounds like it (imo).

I just find it funny how many SPs will say that its "only a job" when the issue of their occupation comes up...yet when the reality sets in its "not simply a job... its a personal thing".

Because some SP's can't decided if it's "just a job" or not. It seems some pick and choose when to call it a business and when to call it a personal thing. I guess it's never a clear "black or white" thing. (pun)

 

[hapkido]

"wow this thread is still chugging along....did we eradicate sp racism yet folks?"

I've have seen and experienced racism all my life. Got beat up when I was a kid because I lived in non-asian neighbourhood. Even to this day I experience it but it's more subtle and less overt now. For plain racist idiots, I usually challenge them and they back off.

I just carry on and take the high rode and soon people recognize and learn hey man this guy is no different then others. He is actually cool for an asian LOL....(roll my eyes). Sometimes when I meet a non-asian SPs, I can feel and sense I'm not their preference and sometimes I actually inquire directly about their comfort level with me. More often than not, after the session they see me in a different light and ultimately implanted a small seed of open mindness.