Have any SP's taught you any "tricks of the trade" in how to satisfy a woman? If so, share!

[bmanguy]

Trying to up my game in the sheets so I was wondering if any of you terbers have received any advice over the years other then the basic hygiene/attitude bit. Looking for a technical how-to for better performance leading to more satisfaction for both parties. TIA!

Get good at kissing and daty. Kiss both lips nicely and softly and dont squeeze ur lips against their lips. Im talking abt both their mouth and pussy lips.

Step 1. Keep good oral hygiene. Brush ur teeth 3 times a day. Drinks LOTS of water. Brush ur tounge! Many ppl dont brush their tounges and their mouth stinks.

Step 2. When u kiss a girl push ur mouth in a little then out a little. Dont just hold ur mouth pressed against her entire face. Women HATE dudes that pull that nonsense.

Step 3. Dont go STRAIGHT for DATY. Get her engine purring by kissing her neck (depends on girl). Kissing her back (depends on girl) and most importantly..working her tits properly. Lick a little. Bite a little. Squeeze with ur fingers a bit then use ur palm to grip them slighltly caressing them.

Step 4. MOST IMPORTANT: DATY
Theres two types of girls for daty. Clit only or clit and lips also.
If they dont respond well to doing daty on their pussy lips..then find the clit and use your tounge on the clit with moves that vary in speed.

If they respond to their lips being eaten too..then suck their pussy circle their lips then go bsck to the clit.

Start with my basic steps that have a 99% orgasm rate. Forget the blue pill unless youre older than 40.

 

[Darius_Young]

Oh! For lasting longer, you can try edging... Start off doing it on your own while masturbating, and then move on to doing it with a partner once you've got good control. A quick google search for edging tips to last longer should help.

If I've been edging my stamina goes to 0 haha. Id actually bust way faster if I've been edging the day before.

 

[Ufcfanz]

Is that true, or you joking. I never tried weed. Would do if it’s a fact.

I've never tried taking anything before seeing a sp but my buddy eats a weed brownie prior to sex andnhe said the orgasm he gets is way more intense. I'll have to try one day

 

[ivyrosequinn]

If I've been edging my stamina goes to 0 haha. Id actually bust way faster if I've been edging the day before.

I meant on a regular basis... purposely delaying ejaculation will increase your control over your orgasm.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Well
I know each lady is different when it comes to daty, so I try what I like 1st, & ask them if I'm pleasing them. Sometimes no questions are needed by their reaction if its really good. The other thing to remember is the brain is the largest sex organ & getting her mind into it helps 10fold. Compliments on how sweet she tastes or how moist she is getting, etc I have found works wonders. Some enjoy digits, some do not, some love licking & sucking on their pussy while circling with 2 fingers up top on the edges. Also reminding her to take deep breathing through her nose, hold & breath out through her mouth.
Enjoy

This solid advice mate - awesome!

 

[Sonic Temple]

Get good at kissing and daty. Kiss both lips nicely and softly and dont squeeze ur lips against their lips. Im talking abt both their mouth and pussy lips.

Step 1. Keep good oral hygiene. Brush ur teeth 3 times a day. Drinks LOTS of water. Brush ur tounge! Many ppl dont brush their tounges and their mouth stinks.

Step 2. When u kiss a girl push ur mouth in a little then out a little. Dont just hold ur mouth pressed against her entire face. Women HATE dudes that pull that nonsense.

Step 3. Dont go STRAIGHT for DATY. Get her engine purring by kissing her neck (depends on girl). Kissing her back (depends on girl) and most importantly..working her tits properly. Lick a little. Bite a little. Squeeze with ur fingers a bit then use ur palm to grip them slighltly caressing them.

Step 4. MOST IMPORTANT: DATY
Theres two types of girls for daty. Clit only or clit and lips also.
If they dont respond well to doing daty on their pussy lips..then find the clit and use your tounge on the clit with moves that vary in speed.

If they respond to their lips being eaten too..then suck their pussy circle their lips then go bsck to the clit.

Start with my basic steps that have a 99% orgasm rate. Forget the blue pill unless youre older than 40.

Great stuff as well!

 

[PtrPrkr1984]

Compliments and respect work. Be genuine and giving her a massage also helps. Each lady is different though, just don’t make it about yourself only. You’ll get more out of your session that way.

 

[Ufcfanz]

If I've been edging my stamina goes to 0 haha. Id actually bust way faster if I've been edging the day before.

Try edging during the session. After a couple of start and stops i find then I have a great stamina and when im finally ready to bust its pretty intense with like 3 large cum ropes. But hey that's just my groove.

 

[ivyrosequinn]

- Healthline article about edging
- Vice article about lasting longer
- MensHealth article about edging
- Detailed exercises for edging (this one is great and includes some research with references, graphs, links to help you identify the "point of no return" when edging, progress tracking)

 

[ivyrosequinn]

For learning how to pleasure women/people with vulvas, She comes first by Ian Kerner is a great book.

Je Joue has a lot of great articles to improve certain skills.

I recommend courses from Pleasure Mechanics to learn a variety of erotic skills, as well as courses from OMGyes that teach actual skills for pleasuring women/people with vulvas but also communication tips that anyone can use.

 

[mancactuskindjack]

- Healthline article about edging
- Vice article about lasting longer
- MensHealth article about edging
- Detailed exercises for edging (this one is great and includes some research with references, graphs, links to help you identify the "point of no return" when edging, progress tracking)

Thank you Ivy!

Based on the advice received in this thread, I think I'm pretty on top of my game. Just trying to get to the next level and improve my skills, so thank you all for your input!

 

[Hunter010]

Acupuncture helps.

 

[oralgiver]

For learning how to pleasure women/people with vulvas, She comes first by Ian Kerner is a great book.

Je Joue has a lot of great articles to improve certain skills.

I recommend courses from Pleasure Mechanics to learn a variety of erotic skills, as well as courses from OMGyes that teach actual skills for pleasuring women/people with vulvas but also communication tips that anyone can use.

I'm thinking we should meet and practice. As much as you can handle.

 

[xmontrealer]

For daty start off like a butterfly, then gradually increase the intensity, and as she approaches her "O" end up like a bulldog eating a bowl of his favourite chow!

 

[ivyrosequinn]

I'm thinking we should meet and practice. As much as you can handle.

 

[NotADcotor]

Give her money. You can really pleasure a woman with 2 fingers , just use them to take some bills or a credit card from your wallet.

 

[Hkb]

I myself unfortunately can't last to long once intercourse stars and the advice they keep giving me is practice more. I'm not convinced they are being genuine or just trying to secure another session...lol

Over covid times I put on weight and have gotten unhealthier and have seen a drop in my performance/ability to last.

I just smoke weed, as someone else recommended, it adds more time and ur more sensitive so everything feels better.

If you're not an avid smoker/user, try edibles.

1 time i overdid it and took 4 out of the 5 gummy pack. 2 hours to let the full effect settle in, 20 mins into the sessions I had genuinely fucked her brains out, made her cum, and she was just laying next to me panting just as hard.

10/10 take some gummies and go wild


P.S. goes without saying, but don't do anything where you aren't in control of yourself, and end up making things weird/uncomfortable for yourself and her.

 

[KDK13]

I think experiencing a number of ladies in short order, being attentive to their reactions, you realize the variety of nuance it takes to daty a lady to orgasm (whether finger/s, direct and/or indirect pressure on clit, etc etc). One trend though is to, as John Cleese said, "don't go stampeding to the clitoris", so take time elsewhere, but when you eventually get down there start soft and gentle and slowly work up the speed/pressure, etc.

Some others here w good advice.

 

[PurplePuffy]

I've Never had a woman give me any instruction! Like, ever! Even my first time which was with a woman 10 years my senior. It's actually kind of annoying. I tell them exactly what to do! Give a brother a hand will you?! LoL.

Found this a little while ago. Apparently, I've been doing it wrong all this time!

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[Markus44]

I myself unfortunately can't last to long once intercourse stars and the advice they keep giving me is to practice more. I'm not convinced they are being genuine or just trying to secure another session...lol

Is good advice, it worked for me. I relate sex act with swimming, if I can hold myself through the first 10-15 min without giving up, the rest is smooth sailing. What a drag it is getting old.