Good bye

[GPIDEAL]

You mean the women we pay don't actually like us??? *Mindblown*

I think you have been lying to yourself over the years. You're a dirty cash dispenser to them, They are a piece of meat to you. It is what it is.

And secondly, there are a lot of mentally unstable women out here, and I'm not just talking about in the industry. Don't let them influence or dictate your life.

But it's good to have an exit plan.

Lol.

If they like us, it's a pleasant interlude or easier for them.

If they don't fancy us, then we are tolerable.

If they DON'T like us, they might not want to repeat or kick us out (I've never had the latter happen to me).

 

[GPIDEAL]

I never said all, a good segment. Quite a few. When I first started using the "service", I looked into this(I used to have a less forgiving conscience). In many, many, but not all cases, it's a simple power game and the johns are the subs. It's the nature of the business. Firstly, generally speaking, dicks are dime a dozen. The SP controls the time, place, type, price and level of service (YMMV). Because dicks are dime a dozen, especially with the risk being on johns, many SPs, correctly, assume the attitude of superiority (to put it nicely). I've read actual studies on the subject, decades ago, when I was a much younger man. And I did confirmed it personally a couple times over (too many)drinks with some of the ladies. I'm not sure why this is even a surprise.

And maybe generally-speaking, what you describe is true across the board. From my perspective, I've never sensed that, although in the rarest of times, there might have been less overtime or I had to rushed out because she wasn't feeling well or had to go somewhere or meet her boyfriend or lover, lol.

 

[Smallcock]

Most SPs hate their job, just like most people hate their jobs. The difference is that SPs make a lot more money in their job than most people but they have to get intimate for it. Being a John is not hurting them. Being an SP is a choice.

 

[wangbang]

I recall an SP telling me that the only reason she got back in the business was that the rich guy who took her out of the business dumped her and her kid. She was clearly disgusted to be back but had to support her little one.

Mood killer and certainly no repeat.

But I didn't retire.

 

[kstanb]

most moving goodbye since:

 

[gmaximus]

I mean obviously the sex industry exists to provide the old/fat/ugly/awkward the opportunity to still get laid, so a certain level of those undesirable characteristics should be expected and stomached by the ladies.

But jesus christ dudes if you are past a certain threshold such that you resemble gollum or an orc from lotr, have the decency to take it upon yourself to NOT SEE the newest barely legal piece of ass. She was innocently riding a playground see-saw not too long ago yet suddenly the image of your hideous o-face will be seared into her memory for all eternity

Bwahahaha. You're killing me man. Thanks for the laughs.

 

[SexB]

Gotta agree that it's sort of shitty of "Ken's friend" to paint all SPs with the same brush because he's met one bitter individual. T

I have to wonder what the OP did to cause her to share this bit of information with him?

The impression I get from the ladies who have weighed in on this thread is that she doesn't speak for them.

Then again, I recall one SP on another board who started a thread stating that her clients "made her sick" and at one point, she also said that guys who go to see escorts are "losers". She ended up going through a couple name changes after those rants. Thankfully, she's well known enough within the industry that board members made each other aware of her each time she came back. What makes it even better is that there were a couple guys on this particular board who white knighted for her pretty relentlessly, though it is worth noting that they were a couple of trolls who probably liked the drama she caused.

 

[malata]

..That night I decided to quit this hobby as I realized that we are hurting them.

To all the women(SP) I met in the past thank you and sorry.

This hottie was riding me once and out of the blue, she slapped my face real hard i was seeing stars. To all the SPs who slapped me silly, Thank you and sorry for not cumming back for seconds.

 

[omegaphallic]

Hello everyone,

I don't kiss and tell, and will not ruin an angency's reputation. But, here we go. I saw an SP couple of weeks ago and generally have a good time. So I thought. I'm older and have been around the block couple of times, so I developed a lot of respect for all the ladies in the industry I've met and never in my life did I pushed nor do anything that they were not comfortable with. Perhaps the girl was in a bad mood, but she told me that all the girls curse their clients behind their backs and hate their job. If this was the case then why bother working in the industry? The obvious answer was given. She said she needed the money and this was the fastest way of going about it. That night I decided to quit this hobby as I realized that we are hurting them.

To all the women(SP) I met in the past thank you and sorry.

Ken, thank you for letting me use your account.

Oh my God one bitter women complained about clients so she clearly speaks for all women in the industy/s

Look at the research, the experiences of sex workers varies greatly, but they do not have a lower level of satisfaction in there jobs then most other jobs, some clearly even enjoy it.

They are individuals and I never trust anyone who thinks they speal for everyone in a whole industry.

 

[omegaphallic]

I mean obviously the sex industry exists to provide the old/fat/ugly/awkward the opportunity to still get laid, so a certain level of those undesirable characteristics should be expected and stomached by the ladies.

But jesus christ dudes if you are past a certain threshold such that you resemble gollum or an orc from lotr, have the decency to take it upon yourself to NOT SEE the newest barely legal piece of ass. She was innocently riding a playground see-saw not too long ago yet suddenly the image of your hideous o-face will be seared into her memory for all eternity

You mean she'll remember me for all eternity? Awww, what a sweet heart, that is very flattering ;p

I used to make fun of my own appearance alot around the girls, until Molly got upset with me a bit for doing it, she didn't like hearing me put myself down like that, so I stopped doing it, around the MPAs. I found it touching.

 

[havingfun]

I have seen my share of fake moans, mechanical service, clock-watching, detached and uninterested SPs. On the other hand, there have been way more sessions with shared smiles, laughter, playfulness and fun. When you have those sessions she isn't having a miserable time. It's still a job but those kind of sessions don't make for a bad day on the job.

 

[metal_aug]

You mean she'll remember me for all eternity? Awww, what a sweet heart, that is very flattering ;p

I used to make fun of my own appearance alot around the girls, until Molly got upset with me a bit for doing it, she didn't like hearing me put myself down like that, so I stopped doing it, around the MPAs. I found it touching.

but at the same time still think you and/or your dick look like a shat out undigested raisin

 

[flipnupe]

Hello everyone,

I don't kiss and tell, and will not ruin an angency's reputation. But, here we go. I saw an SP couple of weeks ago and generally have a good time. So I thought. I'm older and have been around the block couple of times, so I developed a lot of respect for all the ladies in the industry I've met and never in my life did I pushed nor do anything that they were not comfortable with. Perhaps the girl was in a bad mood, but she told me that all the girls curse their clients behind their backs and hate their job. If this was the case then why bother working in the industry? The obvious answer was given. She said she needed the money and this was the fastest way of going about it. That night I decided to quit this hobby as I realized that we are hurting them

To all the women(SP) I met in the past thank you and sorry.

Ken, thank you for letting me use your account.

It's a job, the way I look at it is treat these women with respect & don't take anything personal. It's no different than any work environment, you have people that are hard to deal with and people that are easy to deal with. Anytime two people come together you have chemistry or you don't. What I find is almost every provider asks for the same simple thing from their clients. Be clean, respect their boundaries, don't haggle on price like you are buying a Buick. I think the most important make her feel like she is in a safe environment. If you do those things I think you are golden. It's entirely possible for someone to hate their job & like being with you. It's ok for people to want more from life, I have met some great people through this industry. People I respect a lot, women that wouldn't empower any hobbyist to the degree you are describing

 

[MissCroft]

Have I loved every minute I spent with every client over the years? No, I'm not Jesus. Do I often look forward to the time I spend with many? Absolutely. That's not to say that A) the money is irrelevant or B) I would see them for free. SWs enter this industry for a number of reasons, money being a big factor. But that's not to say that all SWs curse all their clients under their breath. To the OP, it sounds like you met a fairly miserable lady but be careful not to paint us all with her bitter Betty brush.

Well said!

 

[managee]

that's how I see it. Seems like one of those things you're better off not thinking about.

It sounds like he saw a lousy SP. On a related note, I'm a bit surprised by how many ladies openly talk shit about their clients on social media. It's very off-putting.

Out of curiosity could you explain? No need to share which ladies.

I've seen some Tweets from ladies that came across as "Pointers for ensuring a good session if you see me" but never have I seen an SP openly talk-shit.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I recall an SP telling me that the only reason she got back in the business was that the rich guy who took her out of the business dumped her and her kid. She was clearly disgusted to be back but had to support her little one.

Mood killer and certainly no repeat.

But I didn't retire.

Mood killer? That's when you go for the sympathy hug, then kiss, then foreplay all over again. Empathy can spark the fire.

 

[GPIDEAL]

- it IS personal because it's YOUR face/dick/personality she does not like. Those are pretty personal compared to a quarterly report.


- it IS different because you put your penises in their orifices. you don't usually have to do that with coworkers/bosses you hate.


- what if you fulfill all of the above, but she just finds you ugly?

Make no mistake I partake in the industry as well but without silly illusions. All I'm doing is crushing the typical rationalizations clients do to make themselves feel better.

By the way you are talking, I find it hard that you "partake in the industry" in the first place with your omniscient empathy and mind-reading abilities to discount every one else's opinion or personal experience here.

Or, you're a narcissistic, young Adonis, asshole-type who thinks he's God's gift to women? (Guess not, since you wouldn't have to pay for it, right?)

True that some have to endure or tolerate difficult clients or regulars, but if it's as bad as you say it is, many would restrict their practice to certain body types and age requirements.

So you're conclusion is there are no professional SPs who can do their job or provide a service to the socially inept or physically unattractive gents?

 

[Samranchoi]

By the way you are talking, I find it hard that you "partake in the industry" in the first place with your omniscient empathy and mind-reading abilities to discount every one else's opinion or personal experience here.

Or, you're a narcissistic, young Adonis, asshole-type who thinks he's God's gift to women? (Guess not, since you wouldn't have to pay for it, right?)

True that some have to endure or tolerate difficult clients or regulars, but if it's as bad as you say it is, many would restrict their practice to certain body types and age requirements.

So you're conclusion is there are no professional SPs who can do their job or provide a service to the socially inept or physically unattractive gents?

Although some women may not specifically state they do not want to see specific individuals, their actions can do this (ie; not opening the door after looking through the peephole). My guess though, more guys are probably turned down or blacklisted due to being a$&holes then being older or unattractive, IMHO. I just hope if these attractive, supposedly entitled younger guys who are a$&holes and "gods gift to women" (lol), feel terrible when they see any women, younger or older.

 

[Samranchoi]

I want the gentlemen to do the compassionate thing and spare the girl from having to choose, which may be difficult because she is kind-hearted, between turning down and offending you, or accepting and enduring the repulsion of screwing you.

I was thinking the same thing as you, it is just a matter of opinion what some women find repulsive.

 

[managee]

I want the gentlemen to do the compassionate thing and spare the girl from having to choose, which may be difficult because she is kind-hearted, between turning down and offending you, or accepting and enduring the repulsion of screwing you.

It's pretty common for us to see industry workers who specify no-services to certain ethnicities, men over a certain weight, men younger than a certain age, and occasionally women. Whether this is right or wrong isn't the debate here.

I would just assume that if you're right we'd see these kind-hearted souls extend the same courtesy of explicit 'no ugly people' or or 'no one over 50' restrictions in their advertisements or on their profiles, which we don't.

I imagine it'd be a much smaller, and less lucrative industry if all the ugly and/or old guys followed your request.

Maybe someone in the industry can weigh in on this.