One big difference between sex with an SP, and sex with a regular chick, is that once you start on the action, most SP's will do everything she can to make you cum as soon as possible. Also, some SP's seem to prefer to spend more time doing a BJ/HJ, etc., if it means it cuts down on the amount of time you spend fucking, by getting you hotter. Not that I'm really complaining. Once you're going though, they usually concentrate on trying to make you cum. For example, esp. in doggy style, sometimes an SP will use their hand to stroke you a bit more, so you cum faster.
Now when I have sex with a non-SP it is never like that. It's a lot slower, we take breaks, switch around more, and the chick is usually more interested in how she feels than on making me cum. Sometimes we stop and play for awhile before starting up again. Some of this happens a bit with some of the better SP's, but I have never had a session with an SP nearly as satisfying as with a chick who is into it for the fun of it.
So, here is the question... how to try and get this with an SP? I don't want to hear the usual terb crap about "respect her", that is a given, and too abstract to be of much use. I also don't just want a list of SP's with better service. I want to hear ideas on what can be done with any SP to try and work more towards this slow style like it is with a regular girl.
I've tried just saying "let's go slow" with some SP's, and often that works. That is probably the simplest and most obvious thing--just tell her what you want. Other ideas? I don't want to negotiate or complain, that'll kill my mood if it doesn't kill hers. I've also thought about monetary incentives, like, specifying a tip on the base rate dependent on duration, but negotiating that could be confusing and also a mood killer.
Another simple thing to do is just pull out half way and play for a bit, but some SP's seem to get upset by this, I guess from their point of view, fucking is what they are getting paid for, and perhaps they think if you draw it out they are not getting paid enough or something. Most SP's don't complain, but some do, I've had an SP tell me I was taking too long.
Well, I want to take too long!
Discuss amongst yourselves.
Now when I have sex with a non-SP it is never like that. It's a lot slower, we take breaks, switch around more, and the chick is usually more interested in how she feels than on making me cum. Sometimes we stop and play for awhile before starting up again. Some of this happens a bit with some of the better SP's, but I have never had a session with an SP nearly as satisfying as with a chick who is into it for the fun of it.
So, here is the question... how to try and get this with an SP? I don't want to hear the usual terb crap about "respect her", that is a given, and too abstract to be of much use. I also don't just want a list of SP's with better service. I want to hear ideas on what can be done with any SP to try and work more towards this slow style like it is with a regular girl.
I've tried just saying "let's go slow" with some SP's, and often that works. That is probably the simplest and most obvious thing--just tell her what you want. Other ideas? I don't want to negotiate or complain, that'll kill my mood if it doesn't kill hers. I've also thought about monetary incentives, like, specifying a tip on the base rate dependent on duration, but negotiating that could be confusing and also a mood killer.
Another simple thing to do is just pull out half way and play for a bit, but some SP's seem to get upset by this, I guess from their point of view, fucking is what they are getting paid for, and perhaps they think if you draw it out they are not getting paid enough or something. Most SP's don't complain, but some do, I've had an SP tell me I was taking too long.
Well, I want to take too long!
Discuss amongst yourselves.
