I recently hired someone for an outcall and it was a pretty terrible experience. If you've had a real letdown, do you tell them directly? Do you say anything at all to them? I saw that there was a link to a post on how to write a negative review, but it has been deleted. Any advice?
giving negative feedback
- Thread starter Mst.Isobel
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thumper18474
Well-known member
If she was Indy,..tell her of your disappointment and that you will state so in a review
if she was an agency lady..tell the agency of your disappointment some will try and rectify it..some won't. .caveat emptor.
then inform the masses of such.
Most importantly if you do write a review ..
stick to the facts..
Not as advertised
late arriving
tried to up sell
attitude....
and so on.
Stuff like no chemistry is subjective...and be prepared to hear and see her version of events...
some appreciate constructive criticism and implement such to be a better provider....others...not so much
so as i mentioned...
BE FACTUAL!
if she was an agency lady..tell the agency of your disappointment some will try and rectify it..some won't. .caveat emptor.
then inform the masses of such.
Most importantly if you do write a review ..
stick to the facts..
Not as advertised
late arriving
tried to up sell
attitude....
and so on.
Stuff like no chemistry is subjective...and be prepared to hear and see her version of events...
some appreciate constructive criticism and implement such to be a better provider....others...not so much
so as i mentioned...
BE FACTUAL!
All depends on the issue - if it was a sleazy thing she did give the bad review.
If it was a matter of not being good at her job it would be safer to let her know later, text or call. There have been some pretty sincere apologetic statements given by SPs so before trashing her in public give her the benefit of the doubt. She may make you a make-up offer!!
If it was a matter of not being good at her job it would be safer to let her know later, text or call. There have been some pretty sincere apologetic statements given by SPs so before trashing her in public give her the benefit of the doubt. She may make you a make-up offer!!
thumper18474
Well-known member
Plenty of guys say that they were disappointed
and have told the SP that they will warn the rest of us
Word it anyway you want but
if you stick to the facts as I said then where is the blackmail exactly??
Shitty service is shitty service
you can put any spin you want on it
I was raised on the premise that if you have nothing to good to say perhaps it is best not to say anything at all, (unless asked specifically...)
Although it is rare, (due to my strict research policy), that I have a bad encounter, it does happen unfortunately.
Having said this, I am a believer of this (and other) review boards, so if someone is looking for information on a certain SP, and I happen to have info (good or bad), on her, I will advise my hobby brother accordingly, usually in private.
Although it is rare, (due to my strict research policy), that I have a bad encounter, it does happen unfortunately.
Having said this, I am a believer of this (and other) review boards, so if someone is looking for information on a certain SP, and I happen to have info (good or bad), on her, I will advise my hobby brother accordingly, usually in private.
State it in a review. It benefits everyone, except crybaby SPs or agencies trying to rip people off. It's tough enough that 90% of SPs have their photos airbrushed, bio stats faked or the exact same for 4 years, or show pictures from 5 years ago. So to help out fellow hobbyists, the only recourse is for all of us chiming in with honest feedback.... good or bad.
As long as your honest in the review and provide good info that isn't vague, people on the board will appreciate it. The more detail you include, the more credible. There's always a chance it will get taken down as an SP or agency complains, but doesn't matter. Do it. It takes time for posts to get taken down and in the meantime anyone whose seen it will make a mental note. Over time, those mental notes add up and then it becomes ingrained in people's minds to avoid the SP or agency.
No point having "review" threads if all the threads allowed are only the positive good ones. If that's the case then the terms of service and guidelines set for the board might as well state "only good reviews allowed".
As long as your honest in the review and provide good info that isn't vague, people on the board will appreciate it. The more detail you include, the more credible. There's always a chance it will get taken down as an SP or agency complains, but doesn't matter. Do it. It takes time for posts to get taken down and in the meantime anyone whose seen it will make a mental note. Over time, those mental notes add up and then it becomes ingrained in people's minds to avoid the SP or agency.
No point having "review" threads if all the threads allowed are only the positive good ones. If that's the case then the terms of service and guidelines set for the board might as well state "only good reviews allowed".
