Not knowing exactly what to purchase when buying a gift, I usually err on the side of caution and get a gift certificate, usually from a place like The Body Shop. Any other suggestions/advice etc..??
Gifts for SP's
- Thread starter drlove
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I usually give the ladies something I would like to see them in. I have a
favorite piece of jewelry that I buy before our meeting. This earns me some
brownie points. Sometimes, it will be lingerie. I've been told that not
many guys go this far for their lady. Don't know why.
favorite piece of jewelry that I buy before our meeting. This earns me some
brownie points. Sometimes, it will be lingerie. I've been told that not
many guys go this far for their lady. Don't know why.
Is it wrong?
To give a gift for selfish reasons?
Ive been know to give jewlery, not b/c she may like it but b/c Id like to see her in it and nothing else. I like to have my way with the princess so I may bring her a tiara. Not terribly fashionable in everyday apparel but it does wonders for my medieval knight maiden fantasies.
Dont look a gift horse in the mouth, afterwards you can always turn it into glue if nothing else.
To give a gift for selfish reasons?
Ive been know to give jewlery, not b/c she may like it but b/c Id like to see her in it and nothing else. I like to have my way with the princess so I may bring her a tiara. Not terribly fashionable in everyday apparel but it does wonders for my medieval knight maiden fantasies.
Dont look a gift horse in the mouth, afterwards you can always turn it into glue if nothing else.
Well since you are asking I could use a dual socket 603 motherboard and a couple of 2.2ghz Xeons to go with it 
But seriously gift certificates are a really good idea!
as Kathleen said, alcohol is not, unless you know the lady drinks.
I would take chocolates, just eat them really slow! LOL And make sure they are good ones like godiva!
But really in all respects it doesn't even have to be anything big, a small box of truffles, a single rose, just a litt e touch to let her know that you were thinking of her and that you appreciate the time she has spent with you and you wanted to do a little something special.
You would really be suprised how many guys DON'T do this, so even when you do the slightest things it really stands out.
But seriously gift certificates are a really good idea!
as Kathleen said, alcohol is not, unless you know the lady drinks.
I would take chocolates, just eat them really slow! LOL And make sure they are good ones like godiva!
But really in all respects it doesn't even have to be anything big, a small box of truffles, a single rose, just a litt e touch to let her know that you were thinking of her and that you appreciate the time she has spent with you and you wanted to do a little something special.
You would really be suprised how many guys DON'T do this, so even when you do the slightest things it really stands out.
the advice
But on the hole, kiarra offered some sound advice.
Dear Kat
I am a long time lurker, and have come to see you as a wonderful contributor to this board, so I hope you beleive me when I say I mean you no offense personally whatsoever.
But this Freudian spelling slip-up was too much to resist.
Flooey!
But on the hole, kiarra offered some sound advice.
Dear Kat
I am a long time lurker, and have come to see you as a wonderful contributor to this board, so I hope you beleive me when I say I mean you no offense personally whatsoever.
But this Freudian spelling slip-up was too much to resist.
Flooey!
If She is a BBW..
If the sp is a BBW a few happy meals, with tubs of premium ice cream for desert!!!
If the sp is a BBW a few happy meals, with tubs of premium ice cream for desert!!!
I wonder if some guy has ever bought Baskin Robins gift certificates, a membership to cake of the month club or food of some sort for his favourite BBW ?
T
Tieg
A gift?!?! WTF?
Not once in four years of hobbying. NEVER! Isn't it enough that I'm dropping the bulk of my disposable income on these girls?
Same goes for tipping... fuck that. Set the fee and if I chose to proceed, I'll pay the price.
I save what little money I have left over on the people in my personal life. SPs are a business and in every business relationship I've ever had, it's always the suppliers and contractors that are buying the gifts in appreciation for the business.
That's right... maybe the SPs should be buying us gifts for all the hard earned money we're spending on them. After all, we've got hundreds of choices. Maybe a little thank you gift for chosing one SP over another would be appropriate.
Gift in hand or not, we're all just paying customers. I'd don't give a shit about the little nuances in their opinions...
"Oh you're so sweet and classy that you bought me a gift... could you just put the money on the end table"
versus
"What no gift? Well at least you treat me respectfully and you know how to fuck... could you just put the money on the end table"
I'm the latter.
Not once in four years of hobbying. NEVER! Isn't it enough that I'm dropping the bulk of my disposable income on these girls?
Same goes for tipping... fuck that. Set the fee and if I chose to proceed, I'll pay the price.
I save what little money I have left over on the people in my personal life. SPs are a business and in every business relationship I've ever had, it's always the suppliers and contractors that are buying the gifts in appreciation for the business.
That's right... maybe the SPs should be buying us gifts for all the hard earned money we're spending on them. After all, we've got hundreds of choices. Maybe a little thank you gift for chosing one SP over another would be appropriate.
Gift in hand or not, we're all just paying customers. I'd don't give a shit about the little nuances in their opinions...
"Oh you're so sweet and classy that you bought me a gift... could you just put the money on the end table"
versus
"What no gift? Well at least you treat me respectfully and you know how to fuck... could you just put the money on the end table"
I'm the latter.
Just wondering
If we look at this as a business, as many times we have:
I've been involved with several small yet successful businesses. What made them successful is the high quality of service provided. On rare occasions, the customer or client has acknowledged this with a gift. What happens more frequently, however is that the customer (or their secretary who is responsible for bringing the business) is shown that their patronage is appreciated with the gift.
So have any hobbyists been recipients of gifts? Is it even considered? Perhaps it isn't practical in cases where the gent has a SO (unless maybe it's in the form of a reduced rate)? What about the agency doing the gesture? Would it even matter to you guys? Shall I stop with the questions now?
If we look at this as a business, as many times we have:
I've been involved with several small yet successful businesses. What made them successful is the high quality of service provided. On rare occasions, the customer or client has acknowledged this with a gift. What happens more frequently, however is that the customer (or their secretary who is responsible for bringing the business) is shown that their patronage is appreciated with the gift.
So have any hobbyists been recipients of gifts? Is it even considered? Perhaps it isn't practical in cases where the gent has a SO (unless maybe it's in the form of a reduced rate)? What about the agency doing the gesture? Would it even matter to you guys? Shall I stop with the questions now?
Well, I have read all about the soft sensitive type gifts here (and I may get into trouble for saying this but..) being a carpenter type guy (among other things) I have actually built some pieces of custom furniture for a couple of my favs. Now, she can't really wear it, doesn't smell all that nice (it sure did when I was cutting and sanding the maple), she can't eat it or drink it, but they sure will remember me!
The pieces I have built will last a lifetime and hopefully whenever she sees it she will remember who made it for her.
So how about that for being original? hehehhe
The pieces I have built will last a lifetime and hopefully whenever she sees it she will remember who made it for her.
So how about that for being original? hehehhe
oh yeah, and sasha? ooooh I love it when you talk dirty like that!! hehehhehehehehe
Dual sockets, 2.2ghz Xeons, motherboards, you naughty naught girl you heheh and they say MEN are bad?
Dual sockets, 2.2ghz Xeons, motherboards, you naughty naught girl you heheh and they say MEN are bad?
In all seriousness, like the women said, keep your eyes and ears open and try to pick up on the little things that may touch her heart. If she said she is hoping to go to Alaska someday, buy her a little penquin figurine. If she said she likes ice cream, buy her a gift certificate for a free ice cream. The blue roses was an excellent example. Just try to keep it light and happy.drlove said:
I think the important point is to convey to the woman of your choice that you are happy with their company and that you think about them from time to time even after the session. Even it is only a Client/SP relationship, it is obvious that certain thoughtful gestures by a client brighten their day.
T
Tieg
Was the fact that the text directed to me was in bold mean you were yelling because I upset you?
Oh wait... I think I have a tear in my eye. Besides, a "classy" girl like you shouldn't yell.
Waitresses don't get paid $200 an hour to let me have sex with them. A very very weak analogy.
My sister bought me a gift last month. She's a girl.
Oh wait... I think I have a tear in my eye. Besides, a "classy" girl like you shouldn't yell.
Waitresses don't get paid $200 an hour to let me have sex with them. A very very weak analogy.
My sister bought me a gift last month. She's a girl.
Re: SP's buying gifts for clients
As a matter of fact, I have received "gifts" from two of my regular escorts in terms of reduced rates (50% off). I'm not going to mention any names, but they are ladies who I have been seeing regularly for over two years. Even though it is business, there is chemistry there and we do enjoy each other's company. At times, we even exchange e-mails to see how the other person is doing.
Certainly, if money is the bottom line (in the majority of cases, IMHO) then such a gesture from the ladies speaks volumes. As we have gotten to know each other a bit better, we have exchanged small pieces of personal info, which makes the session seem that much more like a real date. It's not something they had to do; nor was I expecting it, but they CHOSE to - which in my opinion is giving of themselves which exemplifies their class, character and genuine kindness.
I for one, am grateful for the opportunity to have met, and spent time with these exceptional women. Theyare both very sweet, intelligent and caring individuals who have enhanced my life immensely through their companionship.
So, for people like Tieg, please stop and reconsider your approach. You may find that a thoughtful gesture yields dividends down the road.
Kathleen: Thank-you. I couldn't have said it better myself.
As a matter of fact, I have received "gifts" from two of my regular escorts in terms of reduced rates (50% off). I'm not going to mention any names, but they are ladies who I have been seeing regularly for over two years. Even though it is business, there is chemistry there and we do enjoy each other's company. At times, we even exchange e-mails to see how the other person is doing.
Certainly, if money is the bottom line (in the majority of cases, IMHO) then such a gesture from the ladies speaks volumes. As we have gotten to know each other a bit better, we have exchanged small pieces of personal info, which makes the session seem that much more like a real date. It's not something they had to do; nor was I expecting it, but they CHOSE to - which in my opinion is giving of themselves which exemplifies their class, character and genuine kindness.
I for one, am grateful for the opportunity to have met, and spent time with these exceptional women. Theyare both very sweet, intelligent and caring individuals who have enhanced my life immensely through their companionship.
So, for people like Tieg, please stop and reconsider your approach. You may find that a thoughtful gesture yields dividends down the road.
Kathleen: Thank-you. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Kathleen...
Thank-you for the kind words... It just goes to show that all relationships, even business ones, are based on consideration and respect.
Thank-you for the kind words... It just goes to show that all relationships, even business ones, are based on consideration and respect.
Well if you wanted to have sex with some waitress and managed to talk her into it in exchange for cash I can pretty much guarantee you that $200 wouldn't cut it.Tieg said:
I am certianly not complaining and I love what I do but $200 is a drop in the hat to be allowed the pleasure of a womans body.
I have said it before and I will say it again....
First and foremost. the ladies we choose to spend our time with (and who in turn decide to spend time with us - yes fellas, they CAN reject us) are first and foremost ladies.
Don't confuse what they do (professional escorts) with who they are (real people).
If you like the person as a real person, then a gift is a genuine reflection of your affections. There is nothing wrong, nor unusual with, forming feelings with an escort - though one does have to be careful here.
Providing a lady with a gift is a natural way to express your feelings. If the only reason to give a gift is that you are hoping for a price break, well, give the ladies credit, they are all very intelligent individuals and are liklely to see through you.
Ladies, as always, my unending respect for what you do. Society truly undervalues your contribution. One day they will see the light.
TJ
First and foremost. the ladies we choose to spend our time with (and who in turn decide to spend time with us - yes fellas, they CAN reject us) are first and foremost ladies.
Don't confuse what they do (professional escorts) with who they are (real people).
If you like the person as a real person, then a gift is a genuine reflection of your affections. There is nothing wrong, nor unusual with, forming feelings with an escort - though one does have to be careful here.
Providing a lady with a gift is a natural way to express your feelings. If the only reason to give a gift is that you are hoping for a price break, well, give the ladies credit, they are all very intelligent individuals and are liklely to see through you.
Ladies, as always, my unending respect for what you do. Society truly undervalues your contribution. One day they will see the light.
TJ
