Getting a compliment from an SP
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I always go by the rule if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all. On the other hand I do enjoy telling people when I see something nice or notable about them. I have given a few compliments and have always meant them. I don't see a point in saying something just for the sake of saying it.
Next time I see an SP, I'm going to ask her to give me a compliment, just so I don't feel left out.
I've been told a few times that I had really nice eyes. The last time I took it as genuine because the girl did a double take as she looked at my face just before she said it.
I don't take it as contrived, because honestly.. them saying that in no way would influence me to repeat.
I don't take it as contrived, because honestly.. them saying that in no way would influence me to repeat.
I've had random compliments from SP's that I feel have been sincere, but I get one similar to this again and again... from SP and civilian alike... "Why are you single? You'll make someone very happy one day" 
I'm also curious what was said to OP Homer that started the thread.
I'm also curious what was said to OP Homer that started the thread.
After one session where she came more than me, I was told "I should pay you". This was a nice ego stroke / compliment. Did she? Um, no.
If I feel a "connection" with the SP, I believe their compliments.
Some of you know exactly what I mean by connection - a sense of open relation with a real person, within the context of a commercial situation that we both understand. It isn't like a regular relationship, there is no sense that there is any commitment beyond the contracted service period. So the hour starts, we talk, and sometimes we find we like each other, and the appointment proceeds on the basis of a real friendship, one we both agree ends in one or two hours, with possible followup on the understood commercial basis. Within that contracted appointment period, those sessions are like a perfect micro-vacation with a new friend who will magically disrobe and perform sex acts with me.
Of course this connection doesn't always happen, but it has become more common for me lately. I think that it is because I am better at picking out good prospects from the choices presented by the agencies I like, and also because I have learned to relax and just let the natural attractions work, if they do. But sometimes they don't, and I know that however talented and valiant my SP may be, she is going through the motions. Or that this particular person is really in the wrong line of work, or rather that she sees her work as just getting guys off, which I think is entirely reasonable on her part. That is probably what most guys really want anyway. I've found that there is something more possible with the right person, and that is what I want.
When these natural connections work, the session can be playful and can have any sort of outcome. Sometimes I don't get an SOG, instead I get a lesson on some obscure and fascinating aspect of the female sexual organ. Or a new idea about art. Or a personal story that helps me understand something new about the humans. I get to see a beautiful talented graceful woman demonstrate a dance to me, totally open to the idea that I am watching and absorbing her beauty. I can SEE that she is enjoying herself, and my presence, and that is just exactly what I want from a session. You can't really pay for that, it comes out of a relationship, understood in the way I have suggested here.
So, among the compliments I've received: "You know, most guys can't make me come!" ( I just had.) "You touch like I touch." "CLEARLY!!" (I asked if she was enjoying herself... she was dripping all over everything.) "But you might be the most interesting." (I had suggested (following her statement that sometimes she felt she should pay for the services of some particularly talented clients) that I wasn't likely to be the greatest sexual performer she had ever entertained.) A variant on the first: "A lot of other guys seem to have trouble finding my clit." (Evidently, I had.)
I believe all of these. They were made in the altered reality of the session, and I understand the ramifications of that, but they were also sincere and supported by events that occurred in that magical space.
I'm curious about how others might experience this sort of connection. Perhaps another thread?
Some of you know exactly what I mean by connection - a sense of open relation with a real person, within the context of a commercial situation that we both understand. It isn't like a regular relationship, there is no sense that there is any commitment beyond the contracted service period. So the hour starts, we talk, and sometimes we find we like each other, and the appointment proceeds on the basis of a real friendship, one we both agree ends in one or two hours, with possible followup on the understood commercial basis. Within that contracted appointment period, those sessions are like a perfect micro-vacation with a new friend who will magically disrobe and perform sex acts with me.
Of course this connection doesn't always happen, but it has become more common for me lately. I think that it is because I am better at picking out good prospects from the choices presented by the agencies I like, and also because I have learned to relax and just let the natural attractions work, if they do. But sometimes they don't, and I know that however talented and valiant my SP may be, she is going through the motions. Or that this particular person is really in the wrong line of work, or rather that she sees her work as just getting guys off, which I think is entirely reasonable on her part. That is probably what most guys really want anyway. I've found that there is something more possible with the right person, and that is what I want.
When these natural connections work, the session can be playful and can have any sort of outcome. Sometimes I don't get an SOG, instead I get a lesson on some obscure and fascinating aspect of the female sexual organ. Or a new idea about art. Or a personal story that helps me understand something new about the humans. I get to see a beautiful talented graceful woman demonstrate a dance to me, totally open to the idea that I am watching and absorbing her beauty. I can SEE that she is enjoying herself, and my presence, and that is just exactly what I want from a session. You can't really pay for that, it comes out of a relationship, understood in the way I have suggested here.
So, among the compliments I've received: "You know, most guys can't make me come!" ( I just had.) "You touch like I touch." "CLEARLY!!" (I asked if she was enjoying herself... she was dripping all over everything.) "But you might be the most interesting." (I had suggested (following her statement that sometimes she felt she should pay for the services of some particularly talented clients) that I wasn't likely to be the greatest sexual performer she had ever entertained.) A variant on the first: "A lot of other guys seem to have trouble finding my clit." (Evidently, I had.)
I believe all of these. They were made in the altered reality of the session, and I understand the ramifications of that, but they were also sincere and supported by events that occurred in that magical space.
I'm curious about how others might experience this sort of connection. Perhaps another thread?
Many years ago a gal said to me once we were naked, "God what am I going to do with that?"
That almost killed the moment but I overcame feelings of inadequacy soon, but later found out that what she meant and what I understood were opposites. Now that I am a senior and fortunately still with the apparent physique of my youth I get asked "HOW old did you say you are? -- No, really?"
Some ladies are so generous and kind.
That almost killed the moment but I overcame feelings of inadequacy soon, but later found out that what she meant and what I understood were opposites. Now that I am a senior and fortunately still with the apparent physique of my youth I get asked "HOW old did you say you are? -- No, really?"
Some ladies are so generous and kind.
Ya.
Also, compliments must be taken into context. If a gal is trying to make you cum and says something complimentary in order to get you there, it's not meant to be a joke but to work you.
If she says something nice during the cool down period while you're cuddling, it could be genuine.
If she compliments you and actually cums like a fire hose, then you know she meant it.
