Gentlemen...what makes you walk out?
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I work out of an apartment, went to open the linen closet to grab a towel and he decided to bail. Not sure if I made hom uncomfortable by doing so? It was a mistake on my part, as I should have gotten one out prior to him arriving.
And no reason was given, so I was left as stunned as you are
Jesus Christ, can't imagine tattoos would bug people that much it would cause them to walk. Just a little art on skin for fuck sakes.
Of course there's a chance that it wasn't related to you. Got an emergency call or text, didn't want to spend the cash or had a moral crises.
But most likely he just didn't want to f-ck you after all.
I only had this once, and the girl was just significantly older and larger than I'd imagined. I just didn't see myself being able to complete the session, so I just said "I don't think I can do this" and left.
Most of us will give it a shot and give the girl a chance if we think we might come around, but sometimes you just can't imagine it being pleasant, and it's best to politely cut bait.
But most likely he just didn't want to f-ck you after all.
I only had this once, and the girl was just significantly older and larger than I'd imagined. I just didn't see myself being able to complete the session, so I just said "I don't think I can do this" and left.
Most of us will give it a shot and give the girl a chance if we think we might come around, but sometimes you just can't imagine it being pleasant, and it's best to politely cut bait.
Different strokes. Tattoos are almost always a turn-off for me. They're basically skin blemishes in my mind in terms of attractiveness. Small, tasteful tattoos I'm indifferent to, but large, dark tattoos will disappoint me. Tattoos should 100% be mentioned in a lady's profile IMO.
That said, I've seen quite a few girls with such tattoos and never walked out on them. Actually, I've never walked out of a session, period. Probably because I do my research and stick to well-reviewed SPs, so know exactly what I'm walking into.
Amber, as for your situation, it could be the guy just had cold feet.
Way back with an old MP I was having fun with....she was fine.
1 year later I see her, maybe 3rd client and there's some ordour from behind...oh well, front is tasty of course, but i say nothing.
3 weeks later I'm her first client....sorry but everything needed a very thorough washing with SOAP...it was quite distracting and I should really have left as it was that strong, especially the combination of both.... it sucked.
Called management after advice from a friend as didnt want to but he said do it, and just mentioned maybe a wash BEFORE seeing clients might be good.
Will never see her again of course.
1 year later I see her, maybe 3rd client and there's some ordour from behind...oh well, front is tasty of course, but i say nothing.
3 weeks later I'm her first client....sorry but everything needed a very thorough washing with SOAP...it was quite distracting and I should really have left as it was that strong, especially the combination of both.... it sucked.
Called management after advice from a friend as didnt want to but he said do it, and just mentioned maybe a wash BEFORE seeing clients might be good.
Will never see her again of course.
Is that like one guy out 200 in those 4 years?
BTW: One of my favourite SC dancers said her "rejection" rate is something like 90%.
So called "well reviewed" (exclusively by shills?) Terb advertiser that I should have walked out on but did not, owing to simple spinelessness:
1. The building was a "Liberty Village" (edge-of-Parkdale) dump. (Should have left at that point.)
2. She's very upset because her building door/security guy waives me through into the lobby before she can buzz me in. What did you say to him? she interrogates me. (Should have left at that point.)
3. She walks away and goes back to typing on her laptop, advising me that she is putting the word out about a bad client. (Should have left at that point.)
4. The low-end interior of the apartment (described as lovely by Terb reviewers!?!) is so cluttered inside that there's nowhere to put my discrete envelope... When i draw her attention to the fact i want to put it someplace she acts like it's stuffed with anthrax "Don't give me that!" (Should have left at that point.)
5. The shower isn't clean and her sheets are grey. (Should have left at either of those points.)
6. She finds it a bit odd that I want to wear a condom for her famous blow job. (Should have left at that point.)
7. She decides to share with me her life story and the geneological history of her family (finally left at that point.)
1. The building was a "Liberty Village" (edge-of-Parkdale) dump. (Should have left at that point.)
2. She's very upset because her building door/security guy waives me through into the lobby before she can buzz me in. What did you say to him? she interrogates me. (Should have left at that point.)
3. She walks away and goes back to typing on her laptop, advising me that she is putting the word out about a bad client. (Should have left at that point.)
4. The low-end interior of the apartment (described as lovely by Terb reviewers!?!) is so cluttered inside that there's nowhere to put my discrete envelope... When i draw her attention to the fact i want to put it someplace she acts like it's stuffed with anthrax "Don't give me that!" (Should have left at that point.)
5. The shower isn't clean and her sheets are grey. (Should have left at either of those points.)
6. She finds it a bit odd that I want to wear a condom for her famous blow job. (Should have left at that point.)
7. She decides to share with me her life story and the geneological history of her family (finally left at that point.)
I don't use incall service. So I have never walked out.
During outcall, I have never told an sp "No Thanks" your not what I was expecting. I have never felt like I needed to tell them that. Sure I have had sp's that were "Not what I was expecting", but I still accepted them regardless of my expectations.. and we still had fun.
Im not sure if I'd be able to tell them... your not attractive enough for me, or I seen you and now I don't want to spend time with you. Thats just me, and I don't judge anyone else that do tell them that they are not interested. Hell, when I'm at the bar I always end up chatting with some girl that many probably don't find attractive... but I always have blast with them... non-sexual blast! lol.
During outcall, I have never told an sp "No Thanks" your not what I was expecting. I have never felt like I needed to tell them that. Sure I have had sp's that were "Not what I was expecting", but I still accepted them regardless of my expectations.. and we still had fun.
Im not sure if I'd be able to tell them... your not attractive enough for me, or I seen you and now I don't want to spend time with you. Thats just me, and I don't judge anyone else that do tell them that they are not interested. Hell, when I'm at the bar I always end up chatting with some girl that many probably don't find attractive... but I always have blast with them... non-sexual blast! lol.
Too many tattoos or very large tattoos are always a turn-off for me. To repeat an earlier post, they are blemishes. I cherish clear healthy skin.
Ugly hair styles, my personal opinion so no way of knowing ahead of time.
Messy place and/or noisy pets, or pets on the loose.
I've walked out for these reasons but always left a little $ behind as these things are my peeves and not the lady's fault.
Ugly hair styles, my personal opinion so no way of knowing ahead of time.
Messy place and/or noisy pets, or pets on the loose.
I've walked out for these reasons but always left a little $ behind as these things are my peeves and not the lady's fault.
I have only done it twice... fairly recently, I replied to a couple ad. The pics were obviously fake, but I was told that they were "very similar" to what they looked like. As they were not "professionals" I could understand this but promised myself if they weren't pretty similar, I would bolt. When I was arrived, well, let's just say they were "similar" in the sense that they were actual people, but not only did they not resemble the pair in the ad, they weren't even close. She was really obese and he was not far behind. Just not my type at all. As I planned my escape, I finally decided honesty was the best approach and just told them I really preferred the body types in the photos, and that I couldn't stay. They were very gracious as I left. I resisted telling them that they had just wasted 2 hours of my time although I sent them a message later advising that "larger" people appeal to many people and that posting realistic photos would likely result in better calls and avoid awkward meetings like ours.
The other time was when I arrived at the location of a BP Indy. As I was heading to the shower, I heard someone moving around in the next room. I asked the girl who was there and she said "nobody". I closed the bathroom door... pondered, then just walked out. I heard her (or someone) open and then slam the door behind me and I half expected to turn around and see someone coming after me.
So I guess what causes me to bolt is dishonesty. If you are BBW, show it and let clients know up front. If your BF/pimp is going to be there, tell people up front. Maybe introduce him even if he has to be there.
To leave for a superficial reason like hair colour, or tatoos, seems a bit lame, although I think it would be best to disclose this upfront. I personally like ink on a lady, but not everyone does.
The other time was when I arrived at the location of a BP Indy. As I was heading to the shower, I heard someone moving around in the next room. I asked the girl who was there and she said "nobody". I closed the bathroom door... pondered, then just walked out. I heard her (or someone) open and then slam the door behind me and I half expected to turn around and see someone coming after me.
So I guess what causes me to bolt is dishonesty. If you are BBW, show it and let clients know up front. If your BF/pimp is going to be there, tell people up front. Maybe introduce him even if he has to be there.
To leave for a superficial reason like hair colour, or tatoos, seems a bit lame, although I think it would be best to disclose this upfront. I personally like ink on a lady, but not everyone does.
Girl smells like her last session!
I kindly give a cancellation fee if it's a "high-end" girl. If it's BP, just walk out.
I kindly give a cancellation fee if it's a "high-end" girl. If it's BP, just walk out.
