Geek's can't win :(

[petitelover]

I bumped into an attorney I use and had to shake my head. He is in his late 40's, single and was wearing black tie shoes, black socks pulled up as far as they would go, pale blue and out of style shorts and a plaid short sleeve button down shirt with an undershirt on.

I admire his intellect as an attorney and he has a successful practice. He makes around $600,000 annually and in my view that is darn good as a sole practitioner.

He is a super nice and decent person and would give you the shirt off his back (not that you would want it) He is a family man and visits his mom daily and is the type of guy a girl would want to marry. He has a great personality in and out of the courtroom and is well respected in the community.

It's hard for a guy to judge another guy but I would say he is not ugly but certainly not that attractive to the female population; thus, why is he single.

The sad truth is this guy will probably never get married even though he is a great catch for someone.

 

[squash500]

He would be a good candidate for one of those makeover shows that they have on the slice network. I forgot the name of the show but they have wardrobe makeovers etc.

Maybe if your Lawyer improved his wardrobe and social behaviour around women he could become a good catch and get married someday .

Being a Lawyer who earns 600k a year certainly doesn't hurt.

 

[petitelover]

He would be a good candidate for one of those makeover shows that they have on the slice network. I forgot the name of the show but they have wardrobe makeovers etc.

Maybe if your Lawyer improved his wardrobe and social behaviour around women he could become a good catch and get married someday .

Being a Lawyer who earns 600k a year certainly doesn't hurt.

Hate to say it but he would need more then that. He is on the "nerdy" side to say the lease.

 

[Kyra.Graves]

Maybe you should introduce him to this gal...

 

[Kyra.Graves]

or this one...

 

[Kyra.Graves]

I could keep going...

it seems lots of women are looking for him.

 

[ClassAct]

I doubt any guy who makes $600K a year would have trouble finding a girl. The problem is that he probably lacks the social network required to "advertise" his earnings/wealth. Once the ladies find out the kind of $$ he brings home each night, there will be a lineup of potential wives waiting outside his door.

He just needs to get the word out.

 

[squash500]

Greatest Nerd of all times

http://www.jimwestergren.com/greatest-nerd-of-all-times-jonathan-vos-post/

 

[Tangwhich]

If a woman isn't interested in a guy until she finds out how much money he makes, would he really want to be with her?

 

[tboy]

If a woman isn't interested in a guy until she finds out how much money he makes, would he really want to be with her?

LOL ALL the women we see from this board are interested in us only because of the cash we have in our pockets lol.

Put it another way: I'd rather have a hot, attractive, vibrant, sexy, intelligent hottie that rocks my world in bed, makes me happy, and treats me with dignity and respect only be with me for my money than some overweight, miserable, baggage carrying butterface with a front bum love me to death yet have no problem pissing in my cornflakes every morning.....

The thing about guys who dress this way? So what? If it makes him happy who are we to judge? Heck I saw some "wannabe" rocker chick at the store yesterday who had platform running shoes on that resembled moon boots (from the 70's).....she thought she was uber cool I bet.

The thing is, if a woman can't see this guy for the great person he is, and can't get over the fact that he may not dress like everyone else, then that is her problem not his......

 

[chrispalen]

The sad truth is this guy will probably never get married even though he is a great catch for someone.

Why describe it as "sad truth" becasue he will never get married?
Why buy the cow when one can buy milk by the glass?
In fact, it is "happy truth" for him, with $600,000 annual income, for one person to spend or save. He can spend half of it at Mirage, Select, Exquisite/GOE, Sassys, Roommates, CUPIDs etc, etc and have a blast and still have plenty left over for old age.

Why would he want to get married, be tied down and kiss good bye to BBBJ on wedding night, and then low level of sex, or no sex at all with his SO?

I think the sex industry was created with the help of SOs of the world. If all the SOs were treating their men the way SPs treat their customers, the sex industry would be a lot smaller.

CP

PS: Take a look at my sig photo. If your lawyer friend can find one girl like that, then I won't blame him for getting married and forget about his freedom.
His face would be between those 2 big, soft melons all the time.

 

[CUPID]

I have a thing for dorky men. The more nerd the better. Something about a man who pushes his thick dark rimmed glasses glasses up his nose just gets my juices flowing - think Rivers from Weezer. MMMMMM....

A lot of women I know share this preference of men. You can always ask your lawyer friend if pink haired busty chicks with off the wall humour and a wacky job are his type, who knows, could be a match made in heaven. I love a guy I can talk quantum theory and nano science with (seriously).

 

[syn]

I have a thing for dorky men. The more nerd the better. Something about a man who pushes his thick dark rimmed glasses glasses up his nose just gets my juices flowing - think Rivers from Weezer. MMMMMM....

A lot of women I know share this preference of men. You can always ask your lawyer friend if pink haired busty chicks with of the wall humour and a wacky job are his type, who knows, could be a match made in heaven. I love a guy I can talk quantum theory and nano science with (seriously).

I have a thing for the geeky types as well. I love bringing him out of his shell ...

Syn

 

[chrispalen]

I have a thing for dorky men. The more nerd the better. Something about a man who pushes his thick dark rimmed glasses glasses up his nose just gets my juices flowing - think Rivers from Weezer. MMMMMM.....

Are you writing about me again? LOL
Wait a minute, where are my thick, dark rimmed glasses. Ooops, they are not on my nose. Where did I put them? I can;t see without my glasses. LOL

CP

 

[chrispalen]

I have a thing for the geeky types as well. I love bringing him out of his shell ...

Syn

You can bring me out of my "shell" any time. LOL
Ok, ok only if you are a blonde bomb shell.

CP

 

[abstinent]

they sure can win.

 

[abstinent]

 

[abstinent]

If a woman isn't interested in a guy until she finds out how much money he makes, would he really want to be with her?

or how about how much status he has?

 

[Tangwhich]

LOL ALL the women we see from this board are interested in us only because of the cash we have in our pockets lol.

It depends on what we're talking about.. does he want a fun time where he gets laid for a while or is he looking to settle down?
'Buying' a good shagging or 'buying' a relationship are two different things.

While I am with you I wouldn't want to be married to a overweight, miserable butterface, I wouldn't want to be married to a hot vixen who is only there for what I can buy her. If that's what you want, then just stick to prostitutes. At least you get some variety..

 

[tboy]

It depends on what we're talking about.. does he want a fun time where he gets laid for a while or is he looking to settle down?
'Buying' a good shagging or 'buying' a relationship are two different things.

While I am with you I wouldn't want to be married to a overweight, miserable butterface, I wouldn't want to be married to a hot vixen who is only there for what I can buy her. If that's what you want, then just stick to prostitutes. At least you get some variety..

Well, to each their own but if I found a mistress that I actually liked, and could afford $10K a month to keep her, I'd rather spend the money and have a nice happy "arrangement" than have many of the problems I see with most marriages. I mean hell, how many terbites are married and still hobby? Quite a lot if you read the threads. So, you can get married and cheat, or have an arrangment with someone and be happy.

As for kids, there's surrogate mothers, nannies, etc so he not being married wouldn't stop that as well....

Again, if he goes the conventional route and ends up being stupid and tying the knot, with the marriage failure rate of something like 60%, he can count anything he makes, owns, wants to own, good bye.