First time with an escort

[Guy727383]

Hi, I'm new to spending time with an escort. I've been lurking on the board and reading reviews for the past few weeks. I've decided that I am going to go with Hot Pink List due to their location. I'm a little nervous about how this works, here is what I have gathered from searching and reading posts here.

Call them to setup an in call meeting, their site says first timers need to call instead of text. Show up at the predetermined time and text them that I am there. They will give me a room number and I go up to that room and knock on the door. Bring money in an envelope and don't mention it but take it out without her asking and put it on the table. I will be able to shower at the condo. Does that all sound about right?

Is the price on the website what I expect to pay or will it be more? Are there additional negotiations depending on what we want to do? I will be bringing money for a tip, what's normal for tipping? $100 extra for an hour? Do you tip after or when handing the money over?

The HPL location in Mississauga, how do you get in? Do they buzz you in? Is there parking nearby?

Is there anything else I should know or do?

Thanks in advance and sorry if all this was answered already, I tried searching and couldn't find an answer.

 

[thecuriousgeorge]

Everything except for tipping sounds right.

You do not tip for extra time. If you want an extra hr...you pay for it. Agencies wont let that shit fly...

The "tip" is strictly for the lady and totally optional - you will find Terb is divided on tipping.

There are those that feel like tipping before hand gives you better service and those who tip because the service was genuinely awesome...

I have tipped a handful of times and it never led to a better experience.

I personally do not tip anymore. Repeating is a better service getter than tipping.

 

[thecuriousgeorge]

Also to answer your question, you pay for parking at HPL's miss location.

They give you a buzzer code as you arrive and you go on up to the room.

Do not engage the concierge or hang out in front until the buzzer code is given.

It isnt anything fancy...just like visiting a friend who lives in a condo for the first time..except you dont have guest parking

 

[Guy727383]

Thanks for the replies. My intention with the tip is for better service and to ensure she gets paid well, not to buy extra time.

 

[einar]

I'd say $100 is far too much for a tip; plenty of us receive excellent service just in paying the agreed agency hourly fee, and tipping a much smaller amount and only on occasion. As curiousgeorge says, there are merits to tipping upon arrival and merits to tipping for service upon departure. Up to you.

 

[Goodoer]

I skip the whole envelope charade now... It seems stupid when heading up to an incall. I tip beforehand and I think it has no bearing on service. I don't think the ladies notice typically. A $100/hour seems nuts; go for it if you want.

 

[phill]

Yes, you can tip a girl, if you are really happy with her service. I prefer to take a box of nice chocolate or something, more classy.

 

[deezed]

at $ 250 hr I tip , $ 300 or more forget about it - thats just me .

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

Thanks for the replies. My intention with the tip is for better service and to ensure she gets paid well, not to buy extra time.

the tip won't get your better service, you need the right girl to get good service, do your research here

 

[yomero5]

No envelope, no tip. Have fun!

 

[autumn96]

+1 for not worrying about the envelope

Just casually put the money on a counter or table nearby and then excuse yourself to take a shower and she'll be able to count it. If for whatever reason you're not showing pre-session (I've had it happen that SPs don't have showers available, which is rare) still excuse yourself to the bathroom, which will give her a chance to count the money - and see the tip you've left for her, which may get you more enthusiastic service.

 

[GameBoy27]

Is there anything else I should know or do?

Write a review after your session. SP seeking TERB members will thank you!

 

[HobbyHorse]

Providers are professionals, fairly well paid for sometimes challenging jobs, not unlike plumbers or nurses. They aren't in the same category as waitresses or cab drivers.
I don't/won't tip them.

 

[gilford]

Tip after and base it on service. Especially since you're new. Even a small gift like chocolates or wine can add to the visit. I've only tipped up front on a couple of regulars and I do it more because when I see them on agency hours - the agency gets a cut vs when I meet up with them "after hours"

 

[Platon]

I suggest see a few girls before you start throwing money around like crazy tipping people. I never tip providers, I wouldn't even tip wait staff if I knew they were paid well. I can bring a gift once in a while if it's a regular but never a tip.
Get your feet wet see what's out there and when you have a better picture of the industry you'll know what to do with your extra cash!

 

[shack]

I tip beforehand and I think it has no bearing on service.

I think simple logic would dictate DO NOT TIP PRIOR.

 

[rhuarc29]

Is the price on the website what I expect to pay or will it be more? Are there additional negotiations depending on what we want to do? I will be bringing money for a tip, what's normal for tipping? $100 extra for an hour? Do you tip after or when handing the money over?

Do yourself a favor and don't do that. I've literally only tipped $100 once (for a 2-hour session) and that was with a provider I had known a long time who I wanted to surprise for many, many outstanding sessions. You especially shouldn't be tipping such an outrageous amount until you know what constitutes a good, mediocre or bad session. Just go with the $250 and if you have a good time, tip $20. $40 if it was the best sex of your life. Anything beyond $50 on a first visit would make me suspicious if I were a provider.

 

[Guy727383]

Do yourself a favor and don't do that. I've literally only tipped $100 once (for a 2-hour session) and that was with a provider I had known a long time who I wanted to surprise for many, many outstanding sessions. You especially shouldn't be tipping such an outrageous amount until you know what constitutes a good, mediocre or bad session. Just go with the $250 and if you have a good time, tip $20. $40 if it was the best sex of your life. Anything beyond $50 on a first visit would make me suspicious if I were a provider.

Thanks, I just didn't know what the norm is.

 

[Dave in Phoenix]

I have been around decades and never tipped a sexworker. Tipping nonsense in US/Canada vs an insult in much of the world like Asia or just round up to nearest Euro in most of Europe. I detest it in restaurants - just pay better and raise the prices. I want to pay what the listed price is not the dumb tipping nonsense.

 

[brogalldude]

Man, it's already been over a year since I started hobbying. I remember all the concerns and anxiety before meeting the SP. But it all went as smooth butter. I concur with all the advice here-don't tip beforehand unless it was the fuck of the century-it's a ymmv thing--some girls will give you a better service for whatever reasons. Have fun buddy!!!